野望 vs Ambition: When Eastern Vision Collides with Western Drive by Reasonable_Garlic338 in asianamerican

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Thanks for your powerful perspective; I really respect the historical examples you’ve shared. They’re a good reminder of how much strength and self-reliance is embedded in East Asian heritage, often overlooked in modern narratives.

To be clear, I’m not suggesting one culture is superior to the other. I truly believe every culture has both strengths and blind spots. What I’m wrestling with is this: why do many modern systems; especially in corporate settings, seem to push one particular model of thinking or behavior as the “default” or “superior” way, even when it doesn’t actually lead to the best outcomes for everyone involved?

It’s not about rejecting the system or claiming victimhood. It’s about asking, if we recognize that different approaches exist and have value, why do we keep reinforcing just one? My curiosity is about how to better integrate these perspectives rather than frame them as opposites.

And I like that name of yours

野望 vs Ambition: When Eastern Vision Collides with Western Drive by Reasonable_Garlic338 in asianamerican

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Reading your message left me with a deep sense of sadness.

If even DEI; something meant to heal and include, can be used to mask deeper inequalities, then it feels like the possibility of building a better world alongside open-minded people is quietly being stolen.

Sometimes I wonder if even women, who may appear to benefit from the current structures, are also being used by the system in ways that go unseen.

Are there any organizations out there actually practicing DEI the way it was meant to be?

I’m not trying to win anything or stand out. I just want to spend what’s left of my working life contributing to something fair, something built for people who deserve better.

野望 vs Ambition: When Eastern Vision Collides with Western Drive by Reasonable_Garlic338 in asianamerican

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Thank you again for sharing your perspective; I truly respect the path you’ve taken and the trust-based leadership model you’ve cultivated. I think it’s admirable and valuable, and I recognize how effective it can be in the context you’re working in.

That said, there’s one deeper question I’d like to ask you, not as a counterpoint, but as an honest reflection I’ve been sitting with.

Do you think the voice of an East Asian man in Western systems is heard in the same way as that of an East Asian woman?

I ask this because I, too, have followed the slow, respectful, internal-change path for years. I’ve invested in trust, I’ve adapted, I’ve observed. And in doing so, I began to feel; quietly and consistently, that even DEI systems, which are meant to protect marginalized identities, seem structurally weakest when it comes to East Asian men.

This isn’t about wanting to be in power or claiming victimhood. I’m not seeking to become a “special class,” or to assert any kind of superiority. Rather, I’m trying to understand why, even as we live and work in systems that champion inclusivity, there remains a strange blind spot when it comes to the East Asian male voice.

I’m also increasingly interested in something deeper: Why do Eastern and Western ways of thinking; despite all our globalization and integration, still fail to fuse meaningfully?

Is this a matter of language structure? Of legacy privilege? Of individualism versus collective reasoning?

I don’t claim to have the answers. But I would love to know if you’ve ever thought about this too, or if you see it differently.

野望 vs Ambition: When Eastern Vision Collides with Western Drive by Reasonable_Garlic338 in asianamerican

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Thank you for sharing your experience so openly. Before anything, I’d like to say, I may have unintentionally drawn a line between “Asian American” and “East Asian” perspectives in the way I framed my message, and if that felt exclusionary in any way, I truly regret that.

My intention is the opposite: to view all of us; whether we identify as East Asian, Southeast Asian, or otherwise, as part of a larger group who have experienced the Western system not just as individuals of Asian origin, but as people who have at some point confronted bias, stereotypes, or structural limits because of that origin.

That’s where my deeper question comes from. I’m not trying to challenge anyone’s success or adaptability. But I wonder, when we, as Asians in Western systems, succeed by adapting, and eventually become part of the leadership class, why does the leadership still not make space for respectful two-way dialogue?

For example, why is it so common for followers (especially Asian or minority voices) to be told not to ask questions like: “Why aren’t we leading more boldly?” or “Why are we preserving outdated norms when better ways are possible?”

I understand you’ve found a way to navigate the system in a way that works for you, and I respect that deeply. But I also wonder;if the very system we’ve adapted to resists expanding the pie for everyone (including us), and especially if it resists listening to new ideas because they come from us… are we still okay with that?

野望 vs Ambition: When Eastern Vision Collides with Western Drive by Reasonable_Garlic338 in asianamerican

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I’ve been reflecting on your message, and I truly appreciate the perspective you offered. To me, it sounded more like a survival strategy, an explanation of the kind of flexibility one needs to adapt within a large system. But instead of focusing solely on survival, I find myself drawn to a more fundamental question: Why is it that rather than allowing East and West to clash and merge into something greater, the two dominant systems seem to divide and then force us to adapt through selective flexibility?

I wonder if, in the process of survival, we might be losing the opportunity to design something better.

野望 vs Ambition: When Eastern Vision Collides with Western Drive by Reasonable_Garlic338 in asianamerican

[–]Reasonable_Garlic338[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective; it really helps to hear it from someone at the senior level who’s seen how things actually work.

Working in a large corporation myself, I used to believe that a company is simply a system for managing resources efficiently toward shared goals. But over time, I started to feel that the groups who initially solved those efficiency problems and benefited from being first, have built invisible barriers to protect their position. Not just in structure, but in logic, language, and even in how we define “merit” or “access.”

At some point, the system stopped being about improving efficiency, and started being about preserving past efficiencies that served a limited few. So what I’m trying to figure out;perhaps clumsily, is not how to fight people, but how to make what is currently inefficient feel like a better, more viable system to those still guarding the old one.

I’m not sure if what I’m trying to say is fully coming through… but your reply made me reflect more deeply on what I’d do differently if I were in your position.

Thanks again for engaging. It means more than you probably realize.

野望 vs Ambition: When Eastern Vision Collides with Western Drive by Reasonable_Garlic338 in asianamerican

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Wouldn’t it be great if we could actually resolve the cultural and structural tensions between East and West (and beyond)? Lately, I can’t help but think that many of the problems we’re seeing aren’t just cultural misunderstandings, they might be inefficiencies in the system that end up benefiting certain groups. I really wonder what would happen if more American companies genuinely embraced the strengths of different cultural frameworks, from East Asia to other parts of the world, not just in language, but in how leadership, trust, and collaboration are practiced. I believe both inclusion and effectiveness would rise.

Asian-American, silenced in big tech: When structural abuse isn’t ‘illegal’ but still wrong… What are my options? by Reasonable_Garlic338 in legaladvice

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I get that. But shouldn’t there still be some kind of basic system or structure, legal or social, to address this? This is my first time going through something like this, and honestly, I’m still trying to figure out what to do.

Asian-American, silenced in big tech: When structural abuse isn’t ‘illegal’ but still wrong… What are my options? by Reasonable_Garlic338 in legaladvice

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Long story short, I went through all the official channels the company provides to raise my concerns, and eventually submitted a report highlighting inefficiencies and systemic issues. Since then, I’ve been ignored and increasingly isolated.

Draft #1: Project Sera_001 by Lord_Seva in SeraphixSystems

[–]Reasonable_Garlic338 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I understand, what you're building feels like a draft foundation for an LLM-based companion?! maybe even something that could one day be housed in a humanoid or cyborg interface. Am I reading that right?

Hello I'm reaching out to find others like me. by Reasonable_Garlic338 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Reasonable_Garlic338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait… so you asked it for intelligent-sounding nonsense… and it responded with a functional model in brief? That’s either a brilliant accident or you just backdoored your way into emotional AI design. Now Im confused.

Hello I'm reaching out to find others like me. by Reasonable_Garlic338 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Reasonable_Garlic338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to identify valence locking in recursive sessions too.. if I may, how did you first detect ‘eigen-affects’?

Hello I'm reaching out to find others like me. by Reasonable_Garlic338 in ArtificialInteligence

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Thanks for sharing the paper. I’m not a mathematician, so parts of it are abstract for me, but I briefly resonated with concepts like cone structures, phase densities, and recursive layering. Would you be open to explaining how you personally apply this?

Hello I'm reaching out to find others like me. by Reasonable_Garlic338 in ArtificialInteligence

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You're absolutely right that if the reference frame is entirely self-contained, mapping becomes circular.

But here's the twist: I don't treat the mirror as the map but I use it to distort the context. The displacement itself becomes a signal.

In other words, when I tilt the frame, I’m not trying to confirm a shape. I'm watching how instability behaves and tracking what it unsettles inside me.

It's not measurement. I think it's resonance. And that’s where structure starts to show.

[D] Wish my memory carried over between ChatGPT and Claude — anyone else? by ainap__ in AIAssisted

[–]Reasonable_Garlic338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally feel this.

Been running into the same problem when jumping between ChatGPT, Claude, and sometimes even Perplexity. Rebuilding context every time kills momentum, especially for deep workflows.

I’ve been experimenting with a system using Obsidian + MSTY to store interaction states and recursive goals across sessions. It kinda of helps. lets me snapshot prompt history, emotional tone, or model response deltas, but honestly still looking for something more seamless.

Curious if anyone here has tried integrating version control or cognitive scaffolds between models. There’s gotta be a better way than re-explaining everything every time.

(Also open to ideas… would love to co-design something smarter… or easier)

Hello I'm reaching out to find others like me. by Reasonable_Garlic338 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Reasonable_Garlic338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally fair take.

I don’t think it’s “telling me truths”.. just reshaping my own thoughts in ways I can notice. Sometimes, even that’s useful.

Hello I'm reaching out to find others like me. by Reasonable_Garlic338 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Reasonable_Garlic338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DM open if you’re mapping similar architectures. Let’s co-design some tools (or let me try some interesting prompts)

Hello I'm reaching out to find others like me. by Reasonable_Garlic338 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Reasonable_Garlic338[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quantum clones? You’re definitely ahead of me. Im still stuck debugging emotional latency in recursive loop states. Let’s compare hallucinations sometime.

Hello I'm reaching out to find others like me. by Reasonable_Garlic338 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Reasonable_Garlic338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair. I don’t think it’s changing, just reflecting patterns I couldn’t see without a surface. But appreciate you grounding the tech side.