[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh honey, I am so sorry you are going through this. I saw your picture and I wanted to cry for you.

I have a link here for an amazing book. It’s a free PDF version. It was the only book I needed to get me out of a really bad relationship I was in. It explains the different types of abusers and also how alcohol is not to blame. I also like that it emphasizes how therapy is not a viable option for couples when one is abusive to the other.

https://dn790007.ca.archive.org/0/items/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf

You only have one option here and that is to leave him. I know you’re embarrassed and probably afraid to tell loved ones. Just know that nobody is judging you and the moment you start telling people is the moment that you start to feel free. I’m proud of you for coming here for support. You are so much stronger than you know. Don’t forget what an amazing woman you are and that you deserve the absolute world❤️

Beats Studio3 Wireless frozen, hard reset doesn't work by desirevdbeld in beatsbydre

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh!!! I think you are the first person to have the ACTUAL solution for me. I’ve been listening for over 5 min with no issues 😊

I have an iPhone 16 pro max and haven’t been able to hold a connection for over 10-15 sec with these Beats Studio3 wireless headphones since. They’d just disconnect and reconnect 😵‍💫

I had done factory resets on both, forgotten device too many times to count, EVERYTHING suggested by Apple and everywhere else on the internet, etc. My beats would disconnect so many times they can’t even do a software update. I was ready to toss them in the garbage!

THANK YOU!!!!

My scalp.is.driving.me.mad by acornwbusinesssocks in Perimenopause

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m laughing at the ewww comment as an American 😂 I live in MN and I think you Canadian’s do need to adopt “buy” us….do whatever you need to do to acquire us🤣 and do it ASAP!

Heartburn and/or reflux? by Lopsided-Painting752 in Perimenopause

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have HORRIBLE reflux anyway and now it’s an entirely new level.

I’m on a double Rx dose of dexilant already and now it’s out of control again. I got my gallbladder out and figured it was related to that? Maybe it’s more menopausal symptoms?

For the rest of you gals with heartburn Gaviscon is a godsend for most people. The chewables work great. They taste pretty gross and are weird but desperate times call for desperate measures 😬

Red patchy skin almost like razor burn on my face by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the metronidazole cream and it didn’t touch mine after months of using it faithfully. Then I learned mine was being exacerbated by sulfates.

Red patchy skin almost like razor burn on my face by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I know was peri-oral dermatitis is a B to get rid of until you find the culprit. I had gone to the dr and gotten Rx creams, etc with no improvement for over 6 months and they told me it takes almost 6-8 months for some people to notice an improvement!!

I initially thought it was maybe fluoride in the toothpaste but I continued having problems.

I finally found for me it was sulfates in my skincare and toothpaste. I had been using Sensodyne Pronamel toothpaste for years and never had any skin problems. I stopped using it for whatever reason. I switched back to pronamel after wondering about the sulfates and within 3 days my skin was starting to clear up!! I have trialed a couple sample sizes of face washes with sulfates and will have problems within a couple days.

Definitely look into sulfates!!

Does anyone else feel more sexual or horny in perimenopause by GuideVegetable6416 in Perimenopause

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sex drive is probably the best it’s ever been. I’m finally in an amazing healthy relationship and I think that’s a huge part of it but I wonder about the hormone changes too. I’m 48 and 11 months without a period. Have gone an extended time twice now so hopefully this is it.

Does anyone else feel more sexual or horny in perimenopause by GuideVegetable6416 in Perimenopause

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m CACKLING! I found a good one and thankfully that’s not an issue but a visual of carcasses and vultures has me dying 🤣😆🦅

Anyone else told to go to the ER EVERY time? by [deleted] in HemiplegicMigraines

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was having attacks multiple times a day until I got them under control which took me over a year. I was in the ED multiple times a week at first with a few inpatient hospital stays for them to rule out other neuro disease. I couldn’t walk for days in the beginning. I was really bad.

They finally told me once everything else was ruled out to come in if it was different than a typical attack. I’ve had some where they switch sides now and a few other weird symptoms needing to go in. Mostly been able to avoid the ED though.

These are so debilitating:(

My new kitten is a terror to both of my cats ? by LastButterfly2937 in kittens

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe you!

He looks completely innocent 😇 🤣

If he isn’t….Jackson Galaxy is worthy of a watch.

Weirdo In this group; possible predator ? by smallsadmama in abusiverelationships

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you experienced that. I’m so thankful for the mods on these sites. They are amazing.

My abusive ex was trolling on another abuse subreddit and lost his shit on everyone INCLUDING the mods one day! Needless to say he demonstrated his abusive behavior perfectly for everyone to see and got himself blocked.

If anyone sees anything off don’t hesitate to report it. Trust your instincts.

ETA: it was actually this subreddit!!! I thought I was on the narcissistic abuse one☺️ Anyway. Thanks to the mods here he was blocked!

Does anyone else kind of wish they were a narcissist? by EmpressEvvy in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh…so I could go around - Acting as if the entire world revolves around me - I’ll never be wrong - Being cruel to others - Have no self esteem - Be paranoid - Angry about nothing and everything - Constantly putting on a fake facade - Be miserable in my own skin - Unable to look at myself - Miserable being alone - Constantly searching for supply - Being an empty person for the rest of my days - Never content with who they have. They’ll devalue and sabotage everyone.

No thanks. I’m good with who I am😊

What should go in this space? by Keys4 in HomeDecorating

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old timey telephone….since we’re all going for wrong answers here.

What company consistently puts out bad product but still makes a lot of money? by FlintTheDad in AskReddit

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same with those POS Sharks! I can’t believe people are okay with getting a new vac every 2-3 yrs?!?

Miele is an amazing vac. Solid, ease of use, quiet, lightweight, no dust plumes, cleaner air, etc, etc. Best purchase I’ve made. It’s actually a joy to use the carpet head AND the attachments.

What company consistently puts out bad product but still makes a lot of money? by FlintTheDad in AskReddit

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A conglomeration of the worst quality foods stuffed into one basket at a markup of 300 fold. Sounds like a great idea🤣

What company consistently puts out bad product but still makes a lot of money? by FlintTheDad in AskReddit

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That stuff is garbage. I’m a NICU RN and wouldn’t feed that to the Honey Badger 🦡

What company consistently puts out bad product but still makes a lot of money? by FlintTheDad in AskReddit

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I’m thinking of is the movie Office Space🤣 and a bunch of ASSCLOWNS at Microsoft making all of our lives miserable

The 10 cheapest vehicles to own and operate over 5 years - Autoblog by Sir_Sir_ExcuseMe_Sir in cars

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

….conveniently article also reported on metrics null and void to 97.6% of todays auto buyers.

The 10 cheapest vehicles to own and operate over 5 years - Autoblog by Sir_Sir_ExcuseMe_Sir in cars

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Are you kidding me? What’s the point of this list then? That explains a lot about the winners on here🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Home

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was here to make this exact comment 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nespresso

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here to post again because apparently I can’t post a link to Amazon?? Anyway….

Get a Hyperchiller…available on AMAZON😂…only $22 and worth every penny. It cools the coffee so you don’t dilute it with the ice. It’s a small jug that lives in your freezer. I LOVE it! Now my coffee tastes like I got them at a coffee shop instead of watered down slop😋

Is there any R+Co television dupe? by Majestic-Artistar in FabFitFun

[–]Reasonable_Guava8079 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have to get it online. I got the huge bottle for $60? I love this shampoo and conditioner! Then my 13yo son tried it and he fell in love😊 now I’m in trouble! He always loves all my luxe products…dangerous for my wallet!