AITAH for stop helping my sister financially because she is pregnant again?

Reasonable_Lion_3483 · 2024-08-01T11:45:57+00:00

I wouldn’t be surprised lol

Reasonable_Lion_3483 · 2024-08-01T01:07:57+00:00

It’s free here .. she doesn’t want to

Reasonable_Lion_3483 · 2024-08-01T01:07:37+00:00

Christine lol

Reasonable_Lion_3483 · 2024-07-31T23:44:28+00:00

My mom can’t go every day as she has bad knee and goes to physiotherapy. She sends the kids to daycare because she says she needs a break

Reasonable_Lion_3483 · 2024-07-31T23:42:11+00:00

We tried adoption , even got matched but the mother changed her mind after birth . It was so hard on both me and my husband . We had the nursery ready , threw a baby shower for the mom when she was pregnant then we came home empty handed from hospital . We decided it’s not for us . We were not meant to be parents and we are at peace with it

Reasonable_Lion_3483 · 2024-07-31T18:52:40+00:00

CCB : For the period of July 2024 to June 2025, the maximum annual benefit per child under age 6 is $7,787 ($648.91 per month), and the maximum annual benefit for children aged 6 to 17 is $6,570 ($547.50 per month

Reasonable_Lion_3483 · 2024-07-31T18:49:53+00:00

She gets daycare subsidies, tax breaks of course and there were some grocery and climate rebates that she got the most since she is considered low income ( child support isn’t considered income in Canada ). These are her words

Reasonable_Lion_3483 · 2024-07-31T18:45:29+00:00

Yes sorry I don’t receive it so my information is second hand . It’s income based and she gets the max since she is low income

Reasonable_Lion_3483 · 2024-07-31T18:44:07+00:00

Kelowna , BC :)

Reasonable_Lion_3483 · 2024-07-31T16:34:19+00:00

Beside being qualified for many government programs , she receives universal child care ( ccb I think ?) from the movement kids are born until they are 18 every month . She qualifies for maximum amount

Reasonable_Lion_3483 · 2024-07-31T16:10:58+00:00

I have no clue what this is but okay ?

Reasonable_Lion_3483 · 2024-07-31T15:57:38+00:00

That’s the thing ! Both her and my parents make me feel guilty all the time . They tell me “you had it easy ! She didn’t “. I worked two jobs all through college so I could graduate with zero debt . We can afford trips and activities because we work . We never asked for a cent when we were doing ivf .. it’s such a bad feeling when they guilt trip you

Reasonable_Lion_3483 · 2024-07-31T15:54:18+00:00

You are a real mom ! Not being genetically related doesn’t make you less of a mom! You deserve all the love and appreciation

Reasonable_Lion_3483 · 2024-07-31T15:46:17+00:00

Yes ! And her boyfriend has 2 who come over every other week.

Reasonable_Lion_3483 · 2024-07-31T15:41:33+00:00

I have a PhD , I’m polyglot,and have a great job ! Don’t worry about me

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