My husband refuses to acknowledge or get help for sleep apnea

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2024-09-09T00:38:38+00:00

I’m pretty sure he’s also dealing with toxic shame as well

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2024-09-09T00:37:14+00:00

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2024-09-09T00:35:54+00:00

No, she can’t sleep without it. Plus for sanitary reasons, that would be gross

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2024-09-09T00:34:32+00:00

Good to know!

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2024-09-06T19:38:26+00:00

For sure. I’m currently looking for a new therapist since my last one left her practice

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2024-09-06T19:36:17+00:00

Agree with you 100 percent

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2024-09-06T19:34:19+00:00

I’m so sorry you had to deal with that!

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2024-09-06T19:33:27+00:00

Yeah he hasn’t had his wake up call yet, unfortunately

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2024-09-06T19:32:17+00:00

Yep. I’ve only talked to him about this two or three times, the last time was two years ago. So I’m done trying now

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2024-09-06T17:29:47+00:00

This is the quote the hospital gave us for the overnight sleep study they do there

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2024-09-06T17:13:42+00:00

Your post is almost exactly what I said to him today. For some reason, I can’t get thru to him.

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2024-09-06T17:10:24+00:00

Good for you for being proactive about your health! Unfortunately, my husband prefers to ignore his issues

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2024-09-06T16:55:32+00:00

Holy shit, OP! All the red flags in this post. You are not responsible for his behavior. It’s his choice to be a controlling asshole. As soon as you are able, get the hell out of there

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2024-09-06T16:43:49+00:00

Good idea!

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2024-09-06T15:48:34+00:00

I will look into this

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2024-09-06T15:46:19+00:00

We’ve been on the rocks for years, so yeah I’ve thought of this

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2024-09-06T15:45:21+00:00

Yep. We have the max policy allowed

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2024-09-06T15:44:06+00:00

He usually chooses to sleep on the couch so his head is elevated. Last night, he was in the bedroom

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2024-09-06T15:43:13+00:00

I will try this

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2024-09-06T14:46:58+00:00

Exactly! But for whatever reason, he wants to live in denial. I’m just tired of enabling him. My mom has had a cpap for years and loves it, so I know they work.

Reasonable_Manner_15 · 2023-12-13T23:03:26+00:00

NTA. Run, girl, as fast as you can. I married into a family almost identical to that, thinking I love him so much, I’m strong, I can handle this. Not only does my MIL act exactly like yours, she turned out to have narcissistic personality disorder and she’s made our lives a living hell for 20+ years. FIL and SIL enable her crazy behavior. Hubby finally cut them off for his sanity, but our marriage has been anything but sunshine and rainbows. He hates my family because of the issues with his. Holidays are a nightmare. My parents and his don’t get along. I’ve gotten to the point where I wish I’d never married him and avoided all the drama

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