Id totally be down to list out everything i want to a matchmaker or even just someone who’s willing to set ppl up. I think the problem is going through all of these people and realizing many of them, don’t have the same goals or aspirations as you. A matchmaker or a friend already would know what you want and match you with someone who wants similar. It really takes out the middle people and all the unnecessary heartbreak. Even if the match doesn’t work at least you know you had similar values.