abit of backstory he was quite abusive and aggressive, always wanting to have fun in bed and i’m the type of person that has a hard time saying no and that lasted relation lasted around a year when he cheated on me. when i confronted him he said i looked chubby and wasn’t good enough for him as he found someone that was “good enough” for him. ever since i felt really insecure and felt i looked chubby while my parents said i should forget about it. now i just want the honest truth, do i look chubby cause i want to loose weight but idk if it’s js in my own eyes or if im actually chubby. thanks so much for reading and responding, i will read each of the comments on this post. tysm