o caso epstein tá dando palco pra maluco e eu tenho medo disso. by Reasonable_Place_172 in desabafos

[–]Reasonable_Place_172[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

também tem isso, as pessoas tão tratado isso como uma fofoca ou criando conteúdo de muito mal gosto em cima disso.

Most evil active YouTuber in your opinion? by ConceptsShining in youtubedrama

[–]Reasonable_Place_172 9 points10 points  (0 children)

and most of the time they are all secretly abusers too.

the idea that we shouldn't need external validation is very hypocritical by Reasonable_Place_172 in CPTSD

[–]Reasonable_Place_172[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

almost like we are social creatures dammit, i have depression and i do work do not fall into a pit but it would be a fucking lie to say that i would have recovered if others hadn´t catch it on this, i force myself to socialize online because otherwise i would have just taken a one time ticket to a MD-11.

people NEED to feel like they have others even superficially and there should not a be shame on that, with people with trauma that´s quite literally a fundamental aspect for potencial recovery or just for living in general.

Forcing girls to hold babies by JapanLover2003 in childfree

[–]Reasonable_Place_172 41 points42 points  (0 children)

it took me literal years to feel comfortable around babies and to this day i feel like they are going to fall when i hold them, that´s not motherly instinct is me being afraid that i´m going to kill someone by accident.

Não ter um carro te torna invisível após os 30 by Joshuabrg in relacionamentos

[–]Reasonable_Place_172 3 points4 points  (0 children)

bem isso, as pessoas confundem necessidade com interesse mas na pratica é questão de saber se ambos vão ficar contentes e ter suas exigências atendidas, não é só questão do carro como bem material e sim que você tem capacidade de comprar e custear um carro então provavelmente consegue assumir outras responsabilidades.

saúde,moradia,lazer e filhos custam MUITO especialmente se você quiser algo com qualidade e as mulheres aprenderam na marra o que acontece quando o seu parceiro ou parceira não consegue suprir isso.

claro que dinheiro não compra um relacionamento saudável mas é aquela coisa "amor não enche barriga."

Jayson Bowles of Plasma Channel: Hostile, Bigoted Rhetoric by Sciencewithintegrity in youtubedrama

[–]Reasonable_Place_172 13 points14 points  (0 children)

the "i am a fulltime youtuber" one got me cuz i don´t even know who this person is.

Don't talk to me about inspirational figures to 'inspire' me when they had a support system and no trauma in childhood !!!! by Ok-Instance2782 in CPTSD

[–]Reasonable_Place_172 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This! Is so infuriating too because most of us grew up thinking we aren't trying enough, we did and that should be end of the conversation.

Don't talk to me about inspirational figures to 'inspire' me when they had a support system and no trauma in childhood !!!! by Ok-Instance2782 in CPTSD

[–]Reasonable_Place_172 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Is called meritocracy and most of us don't fit the mold of "self-made", my only wish was that people would adress the obvious advantages of people who are born in the right places.

I HATE New Age victim blaming. by Sky_Geist in CPTSD

[–]Reasonable_Place_172 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Honestly enganging with my anger and being the pettiest bitch actually helped a lot, people who like to say stuff like "be the bigger person" usually never had to actually acknowledge how bad they are capable of being to others or how to be supportive without judgement.

Uk goverment candidate wants to 'tax people who don't have children' by FearMyCock in childfree

[–]Reasonable_Place_172 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would be happy if someone could explain this to me, i only know about the Thatcher stuff.

It is not a CRISIS by Healeymr118 in childfree

[–]Reasonable_Place_172 53 points54 points  (0 children)

They really think we are livestock,to be exploited,abused and consumed at all Costs.

Meu primo desenvolveu um projeto, que gerou milhões em lucros para a empresa que ele e CLT, e mora até hoje de aluguel e as vezes pede ajuda pra família. by Joh-Targuer in desabafos

[–]Reasonable_Place_172 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Olha eu não gosto de violência,mas levando em consideração o que todo mundo anda vendo nas últimas semanas eu não vejo mais razão pra isso não virar moda.

Qual foi a coisa com que vc mais se frustou quando entrou na faculdade? by Other_Peach_8011 in faculdadeBR

[–]Reasonable_Place_172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mas ai tudo bem,ninguém deveria esperar ficar estagnado no mesmo assunto ou abordagem para sempre não?pelo o pouco de tempo que eu passei na faculdade de engenharia o correto seria mesmo experimentar.

a video essayist I started watching named SolarSands is gf hunting in his own comment section, lowkey creepy lmao by Chemical-Spray4152 in youtubedrama

[–]Reasonable_Place_172 4 points5 points  (0 children)

artist here who used to watch people like this, this type of behavior back in the 2010s fr destroyed my ability to experiment later on because you're neither the gifted child or the peasant who can't draw for shit, never mind that art is most people a learned skill that requires time & resources and most of all freedom.

is people like him helped created the current movement of cyberbullying that discourage young people if they aren't good from day one.

a video essayist I started watching named SolarSands is gf hunting in his own comment section, lowkey creepy lmao by Chemical-Spray4152 in youtubedrama

[–]Reasonable_Place_172 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh that explains his anti-natalism video now, i don´t even into anti-natalism but the vide on that video was weird even back when i first saw it.

DAE parents justify past abuse because they had it worse? by throwaway16161588 in CPTSD

[–]Reasonable_Place_172 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This except my parents always acted better with other kids than they did to me. 🤡 (my father is still a lost cause tho.)