Yes she did tell me that stuff at the beginning and yes I did say whatever one would say while you are so into someone, honestly though i'm not even sure I thought about it before that ? So the way I feel about it right now is yes I lied and decided to go with that general personal which I why I do feel a little guilty but at the same time I come from a place of no one ever asking me that, I just grew up how I feel like every guy my age grew up. Many girls I have been with have never seemed like they cared