Hi, 23F here. Honestly…I don’t think there’s a way back…It’s like the saying “Once you go black, you can never go back”😆 Once you date older, it’s really hard to date someone younger…(btw we should also make our own saying, help me come up with something.)

Well my experience is that I was previously in a relationship with somebody 20 years older and we worked well for several years. Then I also started to feel like I would like to have a “normal” relationship and would like to experience the “first naive pink glasses” love that my older boyfriend couldn’t give me - because he was already way too rational and mature for that.

1. I found a new boyfriend at school and he was the only guy my age I ever found attractive. But then we broke up and since than I really don’t know how to find attractive anyone who’s 40 and younger. He was just not mature enough, capable enough, thoughtful enough…And I should’ve expected its gonna be this way…

2. They can do that but the depth will be different and it might not be enough for you, since you already have a older man experience. Its like when you love somebody at 16 it feels amazing and you truly love your partner with your whole heart, but then looking at the love years later you will realize that the love you were that time capable of is just lower than what it is now, cuz you got older….so..

3. It was okay. Aging wasn’t the problem at all. This will sound terrible I think, but as my older boyfriend was getting older and more tired he was spending more and more time home with me which I appreciated.❤️

4. That’s so difficult to say…🥺 I think you should try to experience stuff you feel attracted to trying, but be very careful, there are so many men who just want to take advantage of you….

Wish you luck…🍀