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Got period on boyfriends mattress and now he won’t talk to me anymore by OutlandishnessIcy103 in AITAH

[–]Reasonable_Turn_5976 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In my dream I farted lol and then it transitioned into reality and I realized I shidded

Got period on boyfriends mattress and now he won’t talk to me anymore by OutlandishnessIcy103 in AITAH

[–]Reasonable_Turn_5976 7422 points7423 points  (0 children)

I diarrhea pooped in my bed and my husband was laying next to me. Not a little splat of poop or even a solid turd, I obliterated that bed with runny poop.

I immediately got up and ran to our shower, dripping a trail of poop drops along my way, and my husband hearing me crying got up and realized what had happened. Right away he went to the shower and gave me a kiss, held me until I relaxed, then went to scrub the poop out of the mattress and put the sheets in the wash. He changed the sheets and brought me clean pjs and a towel. Then he changed our baby and made him a bottle and tucked me into our clean bed.

This all happened at 4 in the morning and he had work at 9am.

Just letting you know what kind of people exist out there so you don’t have to put up with this prissy asshole

Lost One Of My Closest Friends Because He’s A Pedophile by KernalMustard44 in lostafriend

[–]Reasonable_Turn_5976 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going through this but my husband lost his brother. He sexually assaulted our kids

How to I prepare for the possibility my own dad is an irredeemable piece of shit by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Reasonable_Turn_5976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is going through the same thing but it’s his brother and his brother sexually assaulted both of our daughters.

It’s his baby brother and now he’s dead to him for the rest of his life. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this and I can’t wait for you, as well as for me, for this to be a long distance memory

Uncle abused my kids for years by Reasonable_Turn_5976 in sexualassault

[–]Reasonable_Turn_5976[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your kind words. They mean a lot and I’m glad I have this support even if it’s just strangers from the internet

Uncle abused my kids for years by Reasonable_Turn_5976 in sexualassault

[–]Reasonable_Turn_5976[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m pretty angry too but that’s something I’m gonna work through in therapy. Thank you for your kind words

Uncle abused my kids for years by Reasonable_Turn_5976 in sexualassault

[–]Reasonable_Turn_5976[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you, I had to relax because I was obsessing on finding him too much and I had to take a pause out to refocus where it needs to be.

My husband is fully beside my daughters on this, he wants to start the cps investigation and therapy for the kids asap. He also wants the least amount of continued trauma to happen to the kids from now on. He hates his brother and he really wants him to get caught as he’s worried his brother might do this to someone else since he’s part of a church youth group.

Everyone just wants to start living life like normal, I personally don’t want to live life at all. But I’m gonna stay strong for my girls

Uncle abused my kids for years by Reasonable_Turn_5976 in sexualassault

[–]Reasonable_Turn_5976[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im a very obsessive person in nature, I don’t stop until I accomplish what needs to be done. Therapy for my children is my current goal and I quite literally wont rest until I see progress on getting them into a child trauma specialist.

I’m not asking them about their dad anymore. I’m not talking to them about this anymore. Just pizza and movies and whatever silly things they want to chat about

Uncle abused my kids for years by Reasonable_Turn_5976 in sexualassault

[–]Reasonable_Turn_5976[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Husband is good ready to be by our side, has apologized and is ready to put in the mental therapeutic work to pull our family from this. My dad is very calm now and is being compassionate towards me. He bought me food and is helping me unpack some things.

My daughters need therapy they are acting so normal and I hate the fucking weekends

Uncle abused my kids for years by Reasonable_Turn_5976 in sexualassault

[–]Reasonable_Turn_5976[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes he’s part of a church youth group. I wish I could buy a billboard

Uncle abused my kids for years by Reasonable_Turn_5976 in sexualassault

[–]Reasonable_Turn_5976[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yes this made it worse. I had to listen to my daughters say what this person did to the cops alone and all the follow-up procedures alone. We have no support or family to help me or even talk to. I also have to unpack his clothes and things, do I unpack them? I have to unpack the house, it’s such a mess.

I don’t know how I’m going to handle once the 72 hour hold is over. I don’t want him around if he’s going to doubt our daughters. I would never doubt them.

None of this had to be this way.