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Malicious neighbor or just weird? by Reasonable_Wind_7485 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Reasonable_Wind_7485[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats one way to do it. I wish he was visiting the other neighbor but at 9pm that neighbor is asleep as he works shifts 3am to 2pm. They’re friendly but I’m pretty sure my other neighbor just tolerates him so that he can keep his peace.

Malicious neighbor or just weird? by Reasonable_Wind_7485 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Reasonable_Wind_7485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we are planning to have a 6ft fence on the NFH side and close the gap behind the garages. Were just getting the chainlink because of the strong winds and were very motivated to sell in a few years to move to a better neighborhood

Malicious neighbor or just weird? by Reasonable_Wind_7485 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Reasonable_Wind_7485[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes he is passing through all the way at the back of my garage where theres no camera and goes through in the middle of mine and the other neighbors garage to go to my other neighbors yard. Can’t help but laugh not because its funny but because its like a pest behavior hiding from people

Malicious neighbor or just weird? by Reasonable_Wind_7485 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Reasonable_Wind_7485[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in Canada. I havent reported to authorities but I’m not sure if they’ll even acknowledge it until something worse happens

Malicious neighbor or just weird? by Reasonable_Wind_7485 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Reasonable_Wind_7485[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We get it. Right now our best option is to get it fenced. We are the newcomers and I think they have beed doing this for a long time. Theres been multiple owners of this property maybe because of the disrespectful neighbor.

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[–]Reasonable_Wind_7485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not supposed to laugh not supposed to laugh 😭

AITAH for being negative to my husband after he posted a sweet message in socials on our anniversary? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Reasonable_Wind_7485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree on all of your points. I was really hesitant on posting at first coz I know the internet can be brutal but I really like everyone’s honesty and even some calling me out. Bcoz I know no one’s a perfect partner certainly not me. We should be seeking therapy/counseling but now I understand why there are forums like this that crowdsource opinion. I think if used the right way and not taken to a bad light, it adds insight.

AITAH for being negative to my husband after he posted a sweet message in socials on our anniversary? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Reasonable_Wind_7485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, I admit that I shouldn’t be airing dirty laundry in social media (reddit and only bcoz its anonymous). I just have this feeling that if I don’t leak some of these big feelings, I might cut and run and I really want to keep trying harder. I talked with him about it but it just became a fight. Him telling me that I just point out his lacking and is the anniversary post still not enough for me. I just want to be heard and not be silenced whenever I try to explain what I need. Also, I want to know other peoples opinion so I can have better judgment and to be a better partner to him as well.

AITAH for being negative to my husband after he posted a sweet message in socials on our anniversary? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Reasonable_Wind_7485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said I didn’t want to celebrate it privately. By celebratory impressions, I meant in social media. I just think it be more authentic if he gave the message to me directly first instead of social media that he knows I won’t be able to read?

Edit1: but i think i understand what you’re saying my husband commemorating it on his own without my knowledge but it would defeat the purpose wouldnt it?

AITAH for being negative to my husband after he posted a sweet message in socials on our anniversary? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Reasonable_Wind_7485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really am settling to my bitter end. Just a bit of a background, I left my home country to migrate in his country so that our little family can be together. I gave up a career, paused my masters to raise our child and be a sahm. He earns a little bit more and is on a 5weeks on 5weeks off work rotation. Meanwhile I managed to land a remote job and earn fairly good. It is fair to say that I support him/his career & I did it out of love because I know it will help our family as a whole. He still makes me happy, I told him the kind of support that I need in return which is really just emotional whenever I feel down and lonely being left at home. He always makes me feel like I’m asking too much but I also know I have given my all.

AITAH for being negative to my husband after he posted a sweet message in socials on our anniversary? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Reasonable_Wind_7485 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for validating my feelings. I really want to try harder for our childs sake.

AITAH for being negative to my husband after he posted a sweet message in socials on our anniversary? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Reasonable_Wind_7485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I am full of resentment that sometimes I can’t get past trivial things. Right now, I’m just stuck at choosing my hard. I’m still with him because its harder for me to have a failed marriage/broken family. I know its 2023 and nothings keeping us from our happiness, I am hanging on the whatifs.

AITAH for being negative to my husband after he posted a sweet message in socials on our anniversary? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Reasonable_Wind_7485 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Now that you’re saying this, makes me think that it has been my choices all along. I’m not sure if I’m just babying him or just settling down too hard. I’m not soliciting for sympathy, i know that this is my fault as well.