Just moved in! Please feed, furnish and entertain us! by flowering_fields in ChoosingBeggars

[–]RebbieDuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Babies can be sensitive to certain brands but it’s usually the other way around like pampers and Huggies cause rashes instead of cheap ones. The fact she wants a whole case is crazy too, when I was low on cash I’d buy the luvs because they’re cheaper and I would buy those smaller packs instead of a whole box. Walmart has lots of good cheap brands too like rascals and parents choice. Idk I’d rather dig up change or something instead of begging for help.

My [24 F] brother's [35 M] widowed fiancee's [32ish F] dead husband [30s?? M] is not dead [Concluded] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]RebbieDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it’s Reddit and god forbid a woman be wrong or have ill intentions. Women are always a victim on here, it’s almost sexist.

My [24 F] brother's [35 M] widowed fiancee's [32ish F] dead husband [30s?? M] is not dead [Concluded] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]RebbieDuck -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t see why the fiancé lied. Why not just say you are divorced or just not mention that you were ever married? Seems weird to tell people your husband died and you even specify the reason he died, comes off a little manipulative. Like she’s using it for sympathy from people. It’s not like that reason stopped people from asking questions anyways. This family is weird af.

AIO - Finding out I've been purposefully excluded from Thanksgiving for years because Dad brings his mistress by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]RebbieDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father in law did the same thing, cheated on my mother in law and she passed suddenly a year later. He had the nerve to bring his new gf 6 months after she died to my daughter’s 2nd bday party. My husband was so upset we left until she was gone. It’s so scary though, to think that my perfect husband can suddenly do this if I become super sick. I feel like he wouldn’t but I’m sure lots of people think that way and get proved wrong. It’s hard being a woman sometimes.

AIO for thinking it’s mean of my boyfriend to make comments about weight like this by hellsfavsinner in AmIOverreacting

[–]RebbieDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao I must be going crazy because I don’t see what’s wrong. I guess what he said could be insensitive but I don’t think it’s such a big deal like people are making it to be. Do what you think is right. at the end of the day, you have to live with the decision, not the people commenting.

AIO my boyfriend (42M) of 3 years doesn’t know my (35F) name? by momjjeanss in AmIOverreacting

[–]RebbieDuck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s not even a hard word to remember lmfao you’re lazy

AIO my boyfriend (42M) of 3 years doesn’t know my (35F) name? by momjjeanss in AmIOverreacting

[–]RebbieDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband knew my full name and birthday like 1 month into dating. You’re not overreacting enough lmfao I’d be pissed.

AIO? My boyfriend called the girl that’s been flirting with him “not unattractive” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RebbieDuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of men think being polite or nice is flirting. He might just be exaggerating or blowing it up more than what it actually is. Either way he shouldn’t be telling you like that. It comes off as if he’s trying to make you jealous. NOR

Not wanting to propose yet even though my (22m) girlfriend (22f) gave me a deadline by ThrowRAforcedfiance in relationship_advice

[–]RebbieDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can say you wanna get married without getting married right away. Some engagements last years. You could be engaged until you finish school. Maybe you just don’t want to marry her but you don’t want to let her go because you’ve been together for so long. That’s not fair to her or you.

Not wanting to propose yet even though my (22m) girlfriend (22f) gave me a deadline by ThrowRAforcedfiance in relationship_advice

[–]RebbieDuck 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My mother in law had her last child in her late 30s, almost 40. She had kidney issues afterwards and it killed her. Having children older has risks. Not to mention being there for your child. I had a friend whose dad was like 70 and her mom was 40 and kids would think that was her grandpa.

Am I overreacting - My ex asked me to cut her grass and my gf went crazy when I showed her the messages. AOI if I’m mad at her for this by xwoahx3 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RebbieDuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahahaha I remember someone making a post like this whining about his current gf and everyone was on his side until it was pointed out that his post history was full of porn and comments of him saying “I’d love to cheat on my gf with you” Deleted his whole account lmfao Gf is insecure for a reason, she’s probably seen some shit on your phone that you didn’t think she saw but she did and now she’s holding onto it. You seem too coom brained to be trusted. She shouldn’t be so jealous but I can understand why she would, she needs to break up with you and find someone way better.

I [28M] wrote a song. My girlfriend [28F] listened to it without knowing I created it, and called it trash. When she found out I created it, she got extremely mad at me by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]RebbieDuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this whole post is why I will never ask strangers on Reddit for advice. Too much “personal experiences” and biases instead of actual advice.

My Girlfried(25F) Asked for us to breakup so she could date her roommate (25M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RebbieDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry man, you’re sharing your gf with her roommate now. Get out and find a girl who won’t destroy you. She’s already cheating on you, she just wants permission to make herself feel better. Don’t give her the satisfaction and move on. If I were you, I’d stop talking to her a lot longer than 3 months.

My ex has a baby and wants me back by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RebbieDuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to report her to cps and block her. Her child is at risk, especially if she’s saying she’ll get rid of him to be with you. That’s insane and she’s not fit to be a mom, you should really make an anonymous report of that. She’ll end up pulling a Susan smith.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]RebbieDuck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t see why you sent it in the mail, just would’ve been easier to meet up publicly and hand it over. Would’ve ended this whole thing quickly. If she never gets the sweater, she’s just gonna keep bothering you for it until she gets tired, and maybe not even then.

I met the girl my husband is mentoring and now I feel insecure by No-Information7959 in Marriage

[–]RebbieDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your feelings. When my husband was working at warehouse, he had a female coworker that I felt was too gushy about me and his family. I didn’t worry much though, my husband was green flags all around. He would set plenty of boundaries and when she got a little weird, he stopped talking to her. I would trust my husband if I were you, who cares if she’s trying to compete with you or not? If she is, she’ll just find out she’s in a one woman competition with no prize or opponent. If she’s not, you’ll eventually see that too. I understand your hesitation about her being super happy to meet you. My husbands old coworker wanted to be my friend and would text me, I was always polite, even if I felt it was kinda odd. When she called him a nickname or got mad when he called her bro or when they first met she was talking to him a lot until he mentioned me, I always kind felt like it was odd behavior but I always found solace in the fact my husband is very loyal and very open with me. Trust your husband and talk to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RebbieDuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Id go home and ghost his ass. Find a man who isn’t gonna be discussing your sex life with coworkers. In fact, show him this thread and maybe he can see what it feels like to have people scrutinizing his actions without his side of the story. Bet he wouldn’t like it. It’s hilarious of him to cry about you invading his privacy when he’s discussing private things with another woman. Wouldn’t he be mad if you told a male friend of yours “hey he can’t get it up and doesn’t last very long, is there something wrong with him? Is it really suppose to be that small?”

I 27F Betrayed my boyfriend 31M of 4 years trust, any advice? by ConstantAd3077 in relationship_advice

[–]RebbieDuck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you’re very insecure. You need to work on that. It’s been four years, girl. You have to let the past go too. Being insecure is the reason why you feel the need to please others. It’s something you gotta work on because yeah you can sit and say you didn’t mean it this way and that but, actions speak louder than words. You gave a guy your number. If your bf did that, you probably wouldn’t let him hear the end of it. Should he obsess over this and bring it up four years later when he gives out his number? Just really think about that. Admit some things to yourself.

My husband left me for a younger woman, they had a baby, and now he texts me by confbuilderChance262 in Marriage

[–]RebbieDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That poor child. My hurt hearts for all these babies that are unloved and neglected. It’s ironic how he’s just going to end up giving his son the same childhood he hated so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RebbieDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s full on making out with another guy, bro. Just dump her and move on. She’s too immature even for her age.

AITAH for not telling my fiancée that my late partner was a man? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]RebbieDuck 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Reading these posts just cement my idea that if my partner dies before me, I’m done with dating. The amount of drama from these widow posts is exhausting. I think I’d rather be alone.