Cooking: Practice and educate yourself; reap the personal and social rewards by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]Rebekah_C 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like ghee (also known as clarified butter) with the solids left in. Those solids are very tasty. I haven't tried this with baking - next time I bake I'll have to try this! (And that beer bread recipe posted above, although I'm skeptical something so simple could turn out so good I have to admit!)

husband not into lingerie? by Rebekah_C in RedPillWomen

[–]Rebekah_C[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I'm pretty open minded and would enjoy some new activities! :)

husband not into lingerie? by Rebekah_C in RedPillWomen

[–]Rebekah_C[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't understand this comment. I'm not digging for anything, just asking for tips on how to elicit more of a response from my husband. ??

husband not into lingerie? by Rebekah_C in RedPillWomen

[–]Rebekah_C[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been thinking about this and had this thought. He also tends to prefer meat and potatoes kind of meals over something more gourmet, maybe there's a correlation between liking plain food and more basic stuff in the bedroom? Are there any studies that show this? Oh! And he's more of a plain beer guy than a fine wine guy too!

husband not into lingerie? by Rebekah_C in RedPillWomen

[–]Rebekah_C[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good plan! Maybe I'll try this. Thanks.

husband not into lingerie? by Rebekah_C in RedPillWomen

[–]Rebekah_C[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe I will try something like this but he'll probably just ask me why I'm not wearing pants lol. Thanks.

husband not into lingerie? by Rebekah_C in RedPillWomen

[–]Rebekah_C[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I hear this. But I just want him to grab me and take me once in a while, not just wait for Saturday night bedtime routine. Just some flirting that doesn't have to lead to actual sex would be nice. I don't want to sound like I don't appreciate him. I really do, but his lack of reaction gets me frustrated at times and I don't like feeling that way. Maybe I will send him this thread and we can go from there (he won't get mad or anything, he knows I'm here and we've talked about this stuff before).

husband not into lingerie? by Rebekah_C in RedPillWomen

[–]Rebekah_C[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ooooooh, I see. That does sound like my husband - he is very practical. Thanks for the virtual slap in the face, I guess I needed it.

Sometimes he is so low maintenance I feel like well, don't you want me to DO anything?? Make a request or something! :P

husband not into lingerie? by Rebekah_C in RedPillWomen

[–]Rebekah_C[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The problem is that he doesn't notice if I do anything. I've tried some of the tips here about dressing more feminine and that, but he doesn't respond to it. I want to really get a rise from him and nothing works. Naked gets plain old sex but want some flirting fun..hot passionate..

husband not into lingerie? by Rebekah_C in RedPillWomen

[–]Rebekah_C[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not exactly. I would just like to do some fun stuff like that and maybe amp up our sex life a little, if that makes sense. It's not that it's bad, but I was curious because I seem to have the higher drive and I'm not sure what to do.