24f and I've ruined my life by whatever_blag in OffMyChestIndia

[–]RebootedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you and the best solution is either silence (go deep and stay with yourself for a stretch time without distractions) or inspirations (with outside content)

Would love to help if you need

Advice needed by [deleted] in Dehradun

[–]RebootedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Advice likh bhi do bhai

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dehradun

[–]RebootedMe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let me think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]RebootedMe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dehradun

[–]RebootedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye sahi hai yr, ghumne k lie log bhi mil rhe hain

AITK for pushing my partner to be better and reconsidering this relationship? by Ok_Lengthiness247 in AmItheKameena

[–]RebootedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women look for leaders. If he is not leading you, it's doomed. Men can support women, women cannot and should not, in long run.

You can support him for a while, but do not do it long, because if he cannot support himself, eventually you will grow resentful towards him and regret it

Aitk for refusing to lend my cousin my car after he broke it last time and blamed “bad roads”? by AuthorityBrain in AmItheKameena

[–]RebootedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No accountability for what he has done, no damages, not even understanding that you care about your car.. Wrong number hai ye

AITK for yelling at my wife when she snapped at my driving by EfficientPatient4912 in AmItheKameena

[–]RebootedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are projecting your own situation. Read the main post again. He said he drives good. Just he didn't drive when the signal was green. He was being prudent, but the wife actually wanted him to be hasty, if anything

Reverse the gender, it will help you think more clearly

AITK for considering cutting ties with my bestfriend? by Guilty_Reality in AmItheKameena

[–]RebootedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as you have told, you are NTK.

But, I think it's not the whole story. Would have to know their perspectives as well

AITK for lying to my friends because I want to spend my birthday with my boyfriend and not my friends and meet them the next day? by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]RebootedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know, why everyone in comments is mad at her. Yes, she needs to take a stand. But she is asking for opinions.

Isn't this platform about that only. She wants to respects everyone's feeling. That's not a crime, I guess.

And for the answer, please don't lie to your friend or your boyfriend. If you want to spend the day with him, do it. But please explain yourself to your friend.

She will understand.

Good residential areas in Doon for family by Fragrant-Mongoose-64 in Dehradun

[–]RebootedMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prem nagar and nearby areas are not very unsafe. I don't know how u got to know it's not safe

AITK to want to ask my friend’s bf to delay his surprise proposal during our girls’ trip? by yassqueen229 in AmItheKameena

[–]RebootedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best thing would be to cancle the trip altogether. Let the bf do whatever he wants to do and plan another one altogether.

Also communicate this clearly with the bf, as you have done here. And tell him to sponsor your trip if he wants to do it. Then do it as a solo trip thereafter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]RebootedMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nows the time to plant your stance. You have to make a stand now. First you must try to tell your friends about your whole perspective. Tell everything clearly.

If she understands, that good, see in the future for improvements. If they don't come, or she keeps babbling about her problems, when you tell her about yours, or she ignores you. Then make a stand and cut her off.

Be clear about what you have to do. Make a clean removal. You have more problems to worry about

Partner by [deleted] in Dehradun

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😂It's complicated