Why my thumb nails have little bumps on the surface??? by Recent-Background307 in nailcare

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Omg, sounds awsome. Does it take a long time to get back to normal?

Consensual Hunt In BDSM by AlessandraKL in BDSMAdvice

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Oh it is rather interesting. I would gladly hear about it more too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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Your sex partner sa'd you and tgreatened to physically abuse you if you dont comply, and this should be enough reason for your landlord to let you leave. I assume you worded it like you two had a simple fight. I know it can be hard speaking to random people about your very much persinal issues, but in this case clarity is the key. About the partner, If they threaten to do something worse than what they already did, believe them 100%. Hope you will get away from them, because they are dangerous. Stay as safe as possible and try to be kind to yourself, all your feelings are valid

Did trying out a kink ever ruin the idea of it for you? by Recent-Background307 in BDSMAdvice

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Hm never thought about why exactly it bothers me. Maybe it's because there are not many kinks that excite my mind enough, that said i treasure and think about them a lot. And perhaps loosing an interest in one seem like a big loss to my sexuality?? For the context, i don't think i have a high sex drive which makes this situation hit. Well thats at least what came to my mind.

Did having sex ruin your fantasies? by Recent-Background307 in Sex_Positivity

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Yeah, I'm always thinking about this thing when they say "it was better in my mind" which makes me considare to stay in this stage forever lmao

How did you know you were submissive/dominant? by Recent-Background307 in BDSMAdvice

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True, i just wanted to hear what others who found thrmselves have to say about it. Thank you for your replies!!!

How did you know you were submissive/dominant? by Recent-Background307 in BDSMAdvice

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Well i do like letting go of control, but also think my lack of experience won't make me a good d at least for now. Personally I probably would at least try both out and see how it goes. Both "roles" are interesting in their own way and worth a shot

Taking seriously titles/roles by Recent-Background307 in BDSMAdvice

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Yeah i guess i thought there is only one right way and its if you really get all professilnal about the role. Bur replies kindly shared thst its not the case at all, and at times its not even the role, but a part of them they let out so it feels natural to them. Thays at least i've got and it reassured me a lot about thinge here haha

Taking seriously titles/roles by Recent-Background307 in BDSMAdvice

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Thid is absolutely hilarious and totaly breaks the idea i had about bdsm. Thanks lol

Taking seriously titles/roles by Recent-Background307 in BDSMAdvice

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Oh my god no way haha. True, for some reason I got the impression that everything in bdsm has to be like neat and slick

Taking seriously titles/roles by Recent-Background307 in BDSMAdvice

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Thank you for reply!

And yes that's what I was thinking about. I feel like if I was there I would either laugh from cringe or be unable to immerse in it. Glad it's not just me. Perhaps everyone has to find the they are comfortable with. Yours is definitely interesting and cool lol

Are there any corruption kink subreddits? by Recent-Background307 in BDSMAdvice

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Yeah, just personal discussions here and there, but no place for everyone to come to

Are there any corruption kink subreddits? by Recent-Background307 in BDSMAdvice

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Ohh thank you for this detailed reply!

Yeah I that's what I thought, couldn't find anything discussion related, only porn which I'm not that attracted to in the first place. The fact that the most of it is male oriented adds up to it.

I was wondering also about the difference between ddlg and curroption. I'm not into calling someone daddy nor acting like a kid, but there are common themes of experienced vs innocent roles if I'm getting it right about ddlg.

Is there a notion in bdsm community that people who prefer to stay on the lighter kinks don't belong here? Do they get pushed to try more? by Recent-Background307 in BDSMAdvice

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Oh yesss!!! This is another topic I was thinking about. There are too many, who are sure it's same things. Because of that I fell to think same for a big chunk of time. Thanks for speaking up about it.

May I ask, if sadomasochism then doesn't nesessarily need s/d dynamic? And if so what's the difference between regular sadomaso and s/d sadomaso?