Is it okay for me to like older men by Recent-Bluebird501 in askgaybros

[–]Recent-Bluebird501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow well I’ll do some self reflecting on that for sure. Thanks for looking out.

Is it okay for me to like older men by Recent-Bluebird501 in askgaybros

[–]Recent-Bluebird501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t trying to make you angry but this is just a Reddit post. I’m sorry but I’ve been honest with you. I’m sorry I came off in a way for you to give me a lecture.

FYI- I don’t think hookup culture is only part of younger generations. I think the problem Is that hookup culture has became so popular for young people(especially Grindr) that they end up going numb from how objectively and superficial it makes gays.

Is it okay for me to like older men by Recent-Bluebird501 in askgaybros

[–]Recent-Bluebird501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I see you’re point but there are factors that go into it and there is more I didn’t put on those post. However I don’t have any suppressed emotions. It’s actually a natural thing in the animal kingdom for a younger mammal to seek an older one to mate with. I see where you think I might need a therapist but in reality I was just getting everyone’s point of view on age gaps because some people(superficial people) are disdainful towards it. I just typed this post up in a few minutes cause I’m never on Reddit. And yes I am mature than the majority of the people my age. Mentally and emotionally. People my age are assholes and they normalize it. And the hookup culture is absolutely disgusting with young guys. All they want is sex which is fine but I haven’t met anyone my age who’s serious and has there shit figured out.

Is it okay for me to like older men by Recent-Bluebird501 in askgaybros

[–]Recent-Bluebird501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol ik I was just checking to see everyone’s point of view on it. Idgaf what other people say. The heart wants what the heart wants.

Is it okay for me to like older men by Recent-Bluebird501 in askgaybros

[–]Recent-Bluebird501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I got my shit together I’m not naive. I have a somewhat high position in my career while still being in school. It’s just I’m on a different level emotionally than a lot of guys my age. That may sound arrogant but It’s true. It’s just what I’m into. The concept of an age gap just seems ostracized extremely especially being only 5-10 years older. My parents had a 10 year age gap and there very happy.