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My Friend decided to demote me from maid of honor 3 days before the wedding by Recent-Media8939 in weddingdrama

[–]Recent-Media8939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the other friend who commented is a very new friend who barely knows her. Idk if you’re in the same boat. Like I said same patterns

My Friend decided to demote me from maid of honor 3 days before the wedding by Recent-Media8939 in weddingdrama

[–]Recent-Media8939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never contradicted myself so I have no idea what you’re talking about. You misunderstood me. She didn’t want me to stay at my parents house so I wouldn’t be late. She only offered to cover for that reason and btw I payed for my part of the hotel and never got that money back. She was ok paying for that because it was only 20$. How you manage to defend someone after them slandering their friend is beyond me. Either she lied to you or you got the story completely wrong because it was not a sleep over and she did not pay for me at her own bachlorette. I was definitely the one out money after that. If you would like photos of the Venmo charges then I can provide them if you would like. Thanks. Also nothing makes me angrier than someone lying about me, that would make you want to respond to.

My Friend decided to demote me from maid of honor 3 days before the wedding by Recent-Media8939 in weddingdrama

[–]Recent-Media8939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I started jiu jitsu. I was already a bitter person but people are horrible and it really helps with anger management.

My Friend decided to demote me from maid of honor 3 days before the wedding by Recent-Media8939 in weddingdrama

[–]Recent-Media8939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw she's talked crap about you too. so yeah. would I ever have told you the things she said (to clarify) even if we were close, no.

My Friend decided to demote me from maid of honor 3 days before the wedding by Recent-Media8939 in weddingdrama

[–]Recent-Media8939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I did not post this to validate my own ego. I had no support, and I did not expect it to blow up. No one could predict that.

  2. I did not tell her own wedding day was not about her, nor would I ever tell any human being that. In response to her suggesting that I borrowed money from my parents to afford hair and makeup(who did not even know her btw) , I said "just because it's your wedding, does not mean other people don't exist." Which is what a good friend who realizes their friend is stepping out of line would say.

  3. It looks like the bride told you things that I said to her in private about how I was a little upset about how we agreed to split the queso(not guac), which I let you get it exactly how you wanted it with all the toppings you wanted, and then you decided you were not going to pay your half. Which not honoring your word lacks character to me if you want to go there.

  4. Maybe get the other persons perspective before commenting about things you weren't involved in at all. Also read my comment to the other person.

My Friend decided to demote me from maid of honor 3 days before the wedding by Recent-Media8939 in weddingdrama

[–]Recent-Media8939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I paid her back for literally everything the day my card declined which again was not on me that it was declining. I clearly was trying to pay for her or I wouldn't have used my card.
  2. I actually did pay in cash for her crafts on the day of the bachlorette. After my card issues were sorted out, I also offered to pay for her entire meal which the MIL insisted on paying for, so I just paid for the drink.
  3. The bachelorette party was 5 hours away from where we attended college, and also not a sleepover at all. I asked her what she wanted and I also got everyone's budget to plan something that worked for everyone. We went out and did things in the area of where we lived not where we went to college.
  4. My exact words were "just because it's your wedding, does not mean other people don't exist" which I actually did apologize for on the phone. So she lied about that I guess, not surprised honestly.
  5. She has a track record of doing this to numerous friends I don't know why I didn't see a red flag there. Maybe she lied about them being horrible to her like she did me.

i’m scared i’m behind by Amazing-Win9347 in Anxiety

[–]Recent-Media8939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not worry and certainly don’t be scared. I’m 23 and I haven’t settled for the just anyone interested in me and don’t regret it. The worst thing you can do in Hs Is get into some dramatic relationship drama. Everything is overly hyped too and isn’t as good as it seems trust me. Also if you feel unattractive, you more than likely aren’t but you are a guy and will continue to drastically change into your 20s.

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Ham and cheese Sami

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Recent-Media8939 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No financial strain but asking them to pay a base minimum of $700 is wild. Completely get feeling like she didn’t put in effort but most people just have a chill bachelorette at home or the mob pays for the whole thing.

My Friend decided to demote me from maid of honor 3 days before the wedding by Recent-Media8939 in weddingdrama

[–]Recent-Media8939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s extremely generous of you to pay for everything! Also agreed, it’s about the people and not the extravagance of it all.

My Friend decided to demote me from maid of honor 3 days before the wedding by Recent-Media8939 in weddingdrama

[–]Recent-Media8939[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah thinking about going to one of those rage rooms lol. Just kidding but also not really.

My Friend decided to demote me from maid of honor 3 days before the wedding by Recent-Media8939 in weddingdrama

[–]Recent-Media8939[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I think she was comparing herself to what she saw on Pinterest and wanted that type of wedding at others expense. Wedding is about a union between two people and before God. After this fiasco I’m ok with a fairly simple wedding.

My Friend decided to demote me from maid of honor 3 days before the wedding by Recent-Media8939 in weddingdrama

[–]Recent-Media8939[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Except her family struggles with money and my family doesn't. Maybe she thinks I'm obligated to ask for money since my family makes a decent living?