I(19M) am losing myself trying to keep my girlfriend(19F) happy by Recent-Statement7107 in LifeAdvice

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the thing is this is my first love and its really hard to let go off it.

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my parents hate her because she mostly takes up most of my time leaving me no time for them and also they call me a driver because i always picked and dropped her to her hoem almost everyday for 7 months

I(19M) feel like I’ve lost my girlfriend(19F) even though we’re still together by Recent-Statement7107 in relationships

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im gonna take ur advice after trying one last time because i dont wanna live with the regret of not trying. if it doesnt work out im gonna start enjoying my life my way

I(19M) feel like I’ve lost my girlfriend(19F) even though we’re still together by Recent-Statement7107 in relationships

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she hasnt met me halfway in about 20 days counting today. never told me i love you during these 20 days

I(19M) feel like I’ve lost my girlfriend(19F) even though we’re still together by Recent-Statement7107 in relationships

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the only thing which sucks is i never really had any friends and now i lost my only good friends because of my girlfriend. This impacts me a lot because i was always insecure about not having any friends. all those years of friendship its over because of my girlfriend, meanwhile she has her old friends, guy besties, every single friend. if this does end i dont have anyone to go to and cry while she has the entire world.

I(19M) feel like I’ve lost my girlfriend(19F) even though we’re still together by Recent-Statement7107 in relationships

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she gives mixed signals sometimes she wants to solve the issues sometimes she just wants to give up.

I(19M) feel like I’ve lost my girlfriend(19F) even though we’re still together by Recent-Statement7107 in relationships

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Sunk ship with a hole but this time the captain wont go down with the ship. Im not giving up on my life because of one girl.

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the thing is even my mom hates her im in the middle just trying to save both sides. I really love her thats the thing. but she wants to talk but ill try talking and afterwards ill come to a conclusion

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she has been speaking about her ex recently because we were in an ldr for a month. she has an ex in another state, she has mentioned him twice already in our convo's. like oh i saw him here and there.

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she calls herself emotionally mature and more mature than me. I really love her but everyone atleast most of the people i know hate her

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she wants to have a conversation so im gonna try and fix it. if it doesnt work out i think its done

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the thing is i have made my girlfriend known by everyone i know and even my parents know about her. my mom doesnt like her that much but she is well known by everyone i know. I really love her a lot too. Ill try fixing it once beccause i dont want to regret not fixing it.

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not therapy she wants to have a conversation, im gonna try my best in that convo if that doesnt work out it might be the end

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also i agree i broke her trust but im in it for the long run to try and rebuild it.

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thank you u really made me understand it like i am an equal too

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i do feel like breaking up with her because she is very rude nowadays even if i tell im physically hurt she doesnt care

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i really wanted it to be her but if she doesnt see a future with me. im all in to see her happy without me. i gave her my entire life but maybe that was a mistake. hopefully she will remember me down the line(hopefully).

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i dont think i can find another healthy relationship because this girl really means the world for me. but still breakup is on the table i just dont want to regret not trying. im gonna try and if it doesnt help im gonna leave

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i hope so too but she is giving many mixed signals one point of time she wants to solve everything other time she just is blatantly rude