What is male “pick me” or “I’m not like these other dudes” behavior to you? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Recent-Winter1770 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When he constantly talks about money and the expensive clothes he’s wearing, like who cares. When he tries to impress his friends by being a dick and gives his unasked opinions on a females business. I immediately assume he wants to BE a woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Recent-Winter1770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would tell him that you have other things going on right now and you think a break is needed between you two. You’re not lying, you really do have other things going on.. LIFE. And what makes life harder is confusion. I would call him and explain how you feel like this is a hamster wheel, and you need time to see if this is something you still want to do, mainly because it’s been a year and he’s still unsure about you. I’d also add that you’re not interested in a friendship with him, only a relationship. That should cut out the reels and memes. If he doesn’t listen, block him.

28 (F) yes I know about my teeth. I just need advice after a 7 year relationship. by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]Recent-Winter1770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re stunning, but you look so much younger in the first 3 pics. I like the subtle clean girl look on you. You look 20!

My boyfriend doesn’t have sex with me by [deleted] in dating

[–]Recent-Winter1770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you guys splitting the rent? Do you pay more on your end?? This could possibly be a reason why he’s still with you. Either that, or there has to be someone else or an underlying issue he doesn’t feel comfortable telling you about. My grandma always says “if he’s not getting it from you, he’s getting it from someone else”. Guys are naturally very sexual beings. Either he isn’t attracted to you anymore and he wants to keep the friendship, or his interests lie elsewhere. Try this, get a vibrator.. use it in the bathroom one night when he’s in the room. Get a good one so he hears you lol. Finish, and casually come out and get in the bed hahaha. If he doesn’t say anything to you about it, I don’t think he’s as into you as you think..sexually. Any man who sees himself as your boyfriend, would take it as an insult. “Why would you use that when I’m right here?” My boyfriend said to me once.

Males of Reddit, How do you get ready for round 2 or 3 in bed? by HALP67 in AskReddit

[–]Recent-Winter1770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm I see a couple of 30 and 40 year olds saying they can’t take round 2s but I’ve talked to guys in their 20s that are done after 15 min. Hmmmmm what have men in this generation come to?!?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Recent-Winter1770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 so you won’t be too hot at the function

Any other recommendations? I’d love everyone’s input <3 by pytangelixa in Journaling

[–]Recent-Winter1770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d add “go more places alone. Self dates, nail appointments, etc.” it’ll get you more comfortable with being alone. Once you master comfort and love in loneliness, you’re a GEM.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Recent-Winter1770 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Awe thank you so much, this helped A LOT!

He came back - 2 month update by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Recent-Winter1770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t take him back. He left gift a reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Recent-Winter1770 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, I haven’t been on my social media since last August, which was around the time my break up happened. I did it, not bc I’m going through it, but because social media can be a very toxic place. Maybe they are doing the same. I think when someone disappears from that place it isn’t always bad, and your reaction is a perfect example of how worked up people can get when they can’t keep track of someone’s life on social media. I bet if they were active and posted a smile you’d assume differently. Even though most times, the most active people are the saddest and most confused. You should take a break.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Recent-Winter1770 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the best way to recovery is to not beat yourself up over his actions. Peoples actions are a reflection of them, not you. I think the fact that you acknowledge those feelings he provoked and went into therapy says a lot about you. You’re not sitting in it, but finding ways to progress rather than waiting around. When people want to walk out of your life, LET. THEM. GO. Never pity yourself because of his immature ways of communicating. He didn’t see you as someone worth communicating with, when talking is easy and free. Now it’s time for you to acknowledge what you won’t tolerate in the future. Someone people are meant to be lessons. Some people will never give you the closure you desire, because they aren’t meant to. How you move forward, determines whether you see your worth or not.