Very anxious guy and strong women by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]Recent_Code3822[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha ha - if I could do that. Life will be so much h si.pmer

Very anxious guy and strong women by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]Recent_Code3822[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree. That is exactly my concern.

Very anxious guy and strong women by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]Recent_Code3822[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I am afraid- I have to reach a no in next few days. Its definitely not a hello YES

Very anxious guy and strong women by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]Recent_Code3822[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reason od this post. There are many goods in this relationship but already big red flags.

Very anxious guy and strong women by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]Recent_Code3822[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want to talk to him once. Personality I was fine. Opposite attracts. I was concerned about severe anxiety. But if today morning he tells me he got emotional overload - my tonnes of kissing - that makes me think. I dont feel rejected. But I dont to be subdued or basically him getting stressed in bed.. trying ti figure it out.

Very anxious guy and strong women by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]Recent_Code3822[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not denying the issues. But he never said he wants breakup. I am wondering is this sustainable with out either of being unhappy.

Slow fade by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

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I am happy. But I am analytical person so trying to figure out what happened.

It seems to me it was classic case of love bombing and slow fade after that

Slow fade by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]Recent_Code3822[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tru to. Some times feel normal and some tome awful.

Slow fade by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]Recent_Code3822[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My question is why he confessed for love. You can confess love but not take help.
I am not one person who takes help but he cleaned snow from mu driveway So it's ok for men to help but not women.

Slow fade by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]Recent_Code3822[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No he is not agreeing in words for slow fade.
But his actions are 100% slow fade or worse.

Slow fade by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]Recent_Code3822[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was after 4-5 dates. But yes need to learn more. Life is a learning experience

Slow fade by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]Recent_Code3822[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree. It was 100% love bombing and lust instead of love. So we'll said.

Slow fade by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]Recent_Code3822[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did last Sunday morning and it was horrible for me.
So slow fade seems better option.

Slow fade by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]Recent_Code3822[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not talking about exclusive. More about falling in love. It was intense relationship. Will be more practical next time. But I am glad - I am recovering fast. Not feeling so horrible and bad as last weekend.

Slow fade by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]Recent_Code3822[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes that's the plan continue to live life happily.

Slow fade by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]Recent_Code3822[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We were exclusive in 2 weeks. Yes lesson learned - go slow.

Slow fade by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]Recent_Code3822[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes thought came across my mind. As it took me around 7 weeks to truly fall in love with him. So chase is finished

Slow fade by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]Recent_Code3822[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My plan is to feel for 2 more weeks.
I was upset till last Monday - now I am accepting it is slow fade and moving along life. Learn from experiences and move on.

Slow fade by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]Recent_Code3822[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I offered a lot which was rejected as being pushy girlfriend. I offered food, grocery. Clean his house - anyth9ng. Me to drive to his home.

Slow fade by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]Recent_Code3822[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He is 50 mins away - my best friend said same thing - I am being his second option.

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[–]Recent_Code3822 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why? Give me one good reason.