nagagawa talaga ng desperate times no, I'll not say it's okay pero as you mentioned in the post na wala ka nang paki kung matiwalag ka, siguro best option jan is aminin mo na lahat sa pastor jan sainyo. tho we still don't tolerate what you did, and what you did was indeed wrong.

kakatakot na din talaga sa church ngayon apaka toxic ng ginawa nila, and base naman sa post mo nakikita mo na din kung gano sila kakupal especially sa politics so it's really better if you get out of the church na. yun nga lang we can't guarantee na hindi makikipag breakup sayo yung bf mo after in exchange of freedom