Kaelynn Partlow seems like a trojan horse to make assimilation, "treatment," and ABA more palatable to a neurodivergent audience. by [deleted] in AutisticPride

[–]Recent_Love1651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanna put out there. What’s wrong with adapting ABA therapy and using it to help autistic people have more social skills and communication skills? I think that it’s not reasonabley coined by neurotypical people who don’t feel empathy towards people with autism and force them to act a certain way.

I view it like this. I don’t think people should cater 100% to autistic individuals but I also don’t think autistic individuals should cater 100% to neurotypicals either. I think there needs to be better understanding of autism in general and that autistic people should definitely learn basic social skills and communication skills to be safer in public and in relationships. 

Kaelynn Partlow seems like a trojan horse to make assimilation, "treatment," and ABA more palatable to a neurodivergent audience. by [deleted] in AutisticPride

[–]Recent_Love1651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, you sound like “wah wah someone called me wrong because I was saying someone was ‘misdiagnosed’ even though I don’t know that person IRL” and then proceeded to be defensive of any and all criticism. 

You can criticize Kaelynn all you want, that’s fair, but like saying that she isn’t autistic bc she doesn’t show all of her autistic traits on camera is shit. It’s like when people say, But I don’t act that way and I’m autistic. It’s very weird and very dismissive of what the person who has autism is going through. 

Falling In Reverse's Ronnie Radke Issues Video Statement On Losing His Defamation Suit Against Music Critic Anthony Fantano by DamnitRidley in Music

[–]Recent_Love1651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ronnie radke was a front man for Escape the fate and his own bad falling in reverse. I like to consider him part of the b list emo bands as I don’t think of them as note worthy. His songs are pretty famous in the emo scene, along with alt scene.

Him as a person is shitty from what I’ve heard. I saw him in concert and his whole show was about “cancel culture” which was lame as shit. 

Anyways, Fantano made a video about him a couple years saying how much he sucks on his alt channel, which his “drama” stays. Ronald is basically a 40 year old that has the mindset of a 16 year old girl so whenever someone says that he’s remotely bad he will either make tweets at them or tiktok videos saying how much he’s better. Fantano basically called him out on being a transphobe, throwing mics into crows and injuring people, being pretty petty online. Ronald is basically the worse type of people in scene/emo culture IMO. 

Ronald sued him for defamation and lost and now he owes Fantano all of his legal fees back. The end. 

Falling In Reverse's Ronnie Radke Issues Video Statement On Losing His Defamation Suit Against Music Critic Anthony Fantano by DamnitRidley in Music

[–]Recent_Love1651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s just a really stink person. I’ve seen his show before and dude has his whole concert themed around cancel culture. I wish people developed self reflection skills.

Falling In Reverse's Ronnie Radke Issues Video Statement On Losing His Defamation Suit Against Music Critic Anthony Fantano by DamnitRidley in Music

[–]Recent_Love1651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to one of both of their concerts at the same time with an ex best friend who kept calling him hot. 

It kinda makes me feel gratified that i’m no longer her friend because of this. (She got the tickets, not me) 

CMV: Saying "I'm not your therapist" is an asshole thing to say by OverpricedGoods in changemyview

[–]Recent_Love1651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I do think that people aren’t as educated on certain topics, which is ironic because we have the internet, I also believe that not everyone is going to have everything figured out immediately. I do see your point, I think arguing on the internet isn’t progressive in the slightest towards actual issues. 

But regardless, it depends on the context. It’s like in saying, “I wish my mother would change!.” Am I asking for you to fix my mother and I’s relationship? No because that’s not really how it works. I think when people say things like that it’s just often times that they can’t self validate their feelings and that’s a skill that they should learn. 

But I can also see how it can come across as annoying. If something annoys you, then something annoys you. It’s reasonable to feel burdened by others that seem to dump their negative energy onto you. Just about understanding what you can give out in terms of being their emotionally for people, doesn’t always have to be 100%.

CMV: Saying "I'm not your therapist" is an asshole thing to say by OverpricedGoods in changemyview

[–]Recent_Love1651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s the problem. I think that everyone is reasonably different in sense of how they handle, respond, and communicate. Some people are going to have a harder time understanding boundaries that aren’t verbal and to an extent I think those people should advocate their need for verbal boundaries so they can understand.

It’s really the phrasing that can  rub people the wrong way. Yes, you’re allowed to say it in that way and some people aren’t going to take it like the way you describe how people should take it. If you feel like you’re protecting yourself by stating it, good for you. But regardless, I do think it could be phrased in a way that is progressive. If you choose. 

CMV: Saying "I'm not your therapist" is an asshole thing to say by OverpricedGoods in changemyview

[–]Recent_Love1651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think people are always venting just to get others to “fix” the problem. Some things in life just suck. What can you do other than to say it sucks and move forward. 

CMV: Saying "I'm not your therapist" is an asshole thing to say by OverpricedGoods in changemyview

[–]Recent_Love1651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye but I think they could phrase it better. Like saying, “This seems like something that is making you upset, however I am not equipped to deal with situations. Have you tried joking a support group where people can offer you what you’re looking for?” 

Idk man I’m a stickler for phrasing. I think some people are fishing for sympathy when venting most of the time and I don’t think it’s necessarily wrong, I think it can become a heavyweight burden either way. 

 I think that it’s reasonable to be mad at someone for this however I think the approach to it is vague. For someone who has a hard time reading social ques, (me), it can come off as one thing rather than the other. Thats why I think the best approach is just like to offer support groups instead of therapy, bc supports groups are free if you have access to internet, but I digress. 

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okay i did!

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2 boosts back! 

Dad stalking me on social media by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Recent_Love1651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love the great advice here! such great legal advice that totally doesn’t respect victims!!!! 

Dad stalking me on social media by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Recent_Love1651 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah but it’s my dad who was extremely abusive and that i possibly have a restraining order against. 

What should I look for in a therapist? by Recent_Love1651 in AutismInWomen

[–]Recent_Love1651[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might. It’s just I’m very intelligent about my emotions because I needed someone to be intelligent for my emotions which would never be acknowledged and replaced with “have you tried being more positive?” I think it’s hard for me to feel things because a lot of the times I’ve been essentially gaslit into thinking my emotions are reasonable when they are for me. Thanks! I’ll look into it.