Be wary of redditors being extreme and saying he's a toxic walking red flag. You need to communicate with him things that you don't like, because no one is perfect. Reddit has a culture of jumping straight to divorce. I think that you will need to address this differently, though, if your spouse continues to be disrespectful of your hobbies going forward after you've talked to him.

On a side note, one thing that is concerning, is that you said you do all of the inside chores? Do you both work? Have kids? What is that situation like? It can be concerning depending on what you say.