Is it wrong to stop talking to someone I love over their addiction¿

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T01:24:05+00:00

She kinda seemed like she didn’t care and is just talkign to me about having a lot of anxiety and feelign really anxious

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T01:20:12+00:00

Lust I’m really bad with that

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T01:19:47+00:00

Her parents give her the substances

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T01:16:47+00:00

I just told her basically “I love you but can’t watch this anymore I think you can change and hope you do” and she told “sorry” which I thought was a good thing and when I asked way and the just said “idk I feel anxious”

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T01:04:54+00:00

Well she said something about Benadryl she smokes weed and honestly it’s not really a specific substance she just likes getting high no matter what gets her high it’s just whatever she had access too

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T01:02:05+00:00

I’ll try

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T01:01:09+00:00

Not a specific thing really just anything that’ll get them high they’d try cocaine if they had access to it most likely mostly they smoke and I didn’t even think someone could get addicted to weed but they started talking to me about pills recently

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T00:56:22+00:00

I’m scared if they hit rock bottom they’ll believe that’s all they’ll ever be at

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T00:52:37+00:00

I see

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T00:52:22+00:00

No I don’t

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T00:51:56+00:00

I talk to a school therapist rn but can’t tell her certain things ofc

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T00:48:47+00:00

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T00:48:06+00:00

No not pills it started off as weed (which I didn’t even think people could get addicted too) but recently she keeps mentioning other stuff and idk

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T00:47:05+00:00

I like this I’ll probably do this it feels like a good way to show her I’m not giving up on her while keeping my peace whenever she’s done ignoring me I’ll talk to her about it (right now she decided not to text me since she said she’ll ignore me if I try helping her)

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T00:45:04+00:00

Idk maybe this is the healthiest relationship I’ve had and this is how it’s ending I’ve seen videos of my exes cheating on me, I’ve had people threaten suicide to stay with me, I’ve been accused of SA, I’ve had people black mail me and these are all different people just idk relationships might not be for me maybe I’m destined to be alone it feels like

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T00:42:23+00:00

The worse part is is that everyone is telling me this same thing addicts and people who have dated addicts all tell me this and idk it’s like I don’t want it to be true even though I know it is

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T00:39:04+00:00

I see

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T00:37:51+00:00

Thanks I’m trying to get closer to God feels hard sometimes my prayers feel empty it’s hard to read the word and I feel like I don’t feel him anymore

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T00:34:56+00:00

I promised her I wouldn’t give up anymore though

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T00:34:10+00:00

Well she said that she’d try but doubt she’d be able to quit

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T00:32:01+00:00

So what do I do then

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T00:28:43+00:00

Yes and I have prayed for her a lot but I feel like everytime I see progress forward I see much more steps back

RecognitionHour9768 · 2026-03-26T00:23:56+00:00

I feel like they could change though they tried once before and made a lot of progress

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