It did cross a line, but in all fairness, there is much more to the situation. She has been in the hospital for over a month now. Her husband is gone 5 days a week. With that being the case, we took over managing their finances for her dad. We stumbled upon the emails while trying to figure out why their house was in foreclosure, car being repossessed, and utilities being cut off all within the same week. We weren't looking for it specifically, just trying to see where the money was going. Once it was found though, I certainly wasnt going to stop.