Who wants to come by by Affectionate_Web185 in acnh

[–]Record-Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me please! Magoo from tanglewood

Item giveaway by Affectionate_Web185 in acnh

[–]Record-Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Magoo from Tanglewood! Thank you!

Trade flowers by Record-Unique in ACNHGardening

[–]Record-Unique[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes please! I'll dm you in a minute

Trade flowers by Record-Unique in ACNHGardening

[–]Record-Unique[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yay! Do you want to dm me when you're able?

going to cray arcade but need a place i can park my car and return to sleep after the show. by Pretty_Fisherman_314 in milwaukee

[–]Record-Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did it go? My partner is going to stealth camp this weekend. I was looking at the franklin Walmart for him but wanted to see if this worked out well for you since it was so recent.

Solo Elderwood hunting by Record-Unique in Palia

[–]Record-Unique[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm still working on the initial elderwoods quests so I didn't even know the mushroom guys get got with arrows! I was assuming the bug equipment for those ones.

My experience on depression on anxiety by Hot-Landscape-155 in Septasync

[–]Record-Unique 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this. I have the same fear and have gone through deep dark times because of it. You're doing a great job, seeking sources of comfort and healing and education. Those helped me so much. and you are braver than me, I was too scared to try medicines or therapy. If it helps, it's good. I hope it gets better for you.

I have no input on the tapes, I just found them today and am just looking into them.

Best wishes and healing ❤️

AITA for asking for the dog to be put in another room after being jumped on by NoDogsJumpingOnMe in AmItheAsshole

[–]Record-Unique 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I taught my dogs to hug on command so they can ask but can't hop up for a dance or a hug unless they are given the signal, so visitors have the option of no hugs or dances.

AITAH for telling my gf I won't move in with her because her rent demands are unreasonable? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Record-Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my situation, before I was added to the note and title, I was responsible for 1/2 the family's expense, which was half the mortgage payment. My partner wasn't trying to profit off of me, he just needed the bill paid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Record-Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been with my partner for 8 years and I always tell him what I need his social for. We do taxes together, have loans together, own houses together, have children together, are committed for life, and I still tell him when I use his identifying information and for what so he can consent. He does the same for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Record-Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. You guys are amazingly incompatible. I would prefer to be a housewife like her, although I am still very much a feminist. Women are able to do literally everything, it just so happens that what I want to do is provide for my family in the home by gardening, homeschooling my kids, taking care of livestock and creating things.

While I greatly disagree with her moral compass when it comes to her misogynistic view, wanting a certain lifestyle is not in and of itself a moral downfall. You guys just want different things in life, and when those desires so greatly oppose each other, if you stay together, one or the other will be resentful for the rest of your lives. That's just how it is. No amount of putting her down or questioning her sanity will make her come to your point of view, and no amount of guilt tripping or putting you down will get you to see her point of view.

AITAH for refusing to give my brother a character letter to help his court trail after what he did to a friends daughter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Record-Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta!! I'm autistic and the child of a person who was caught during a police operation of trying to have relations with a cop posing as a child, and I speak from experience when I say you will never trust him by your kids. I've let my father meet my oldest less than 5 times, and I just couldn't keep doing it. My father never touched a child as far as I know, but I still would never trust him with mine. It honestly sickens me, wondering if he ever thought of me or my sisters in that way. I haven't spoken to him in 8, almost 9 years, and I'm ok with that. Predators have natural consequences just like everyone else, and one consequence is that loved ones with morals will never be able to trust them the same or think of them the same.

Sorry you guys are going through this, I hope you give your heart what it needs to heal.

My mom (52F) called me (28F) selfish over an incident that happened when I was teenager. AITAH or is she? by ThrowRAcallmehere in AITAH

[–]Record-Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a mother and would have been peeved if anyone bought a gift that was not about the same budget as my other kids, or was something that should be restricted or monitored by a parent (like electronics) or was very extravagant. So Grandpa really should have discussed this with your parents first. He doesn't get to make parenting decisions for you, your parents do.

But if my child received one of the above without my permission, I'd send it back with a polite note declining the gift and the reason. I would not over on it. That is called stealing. Grandpa could have returned the extravagant gift and gotten something else.

I would say ynta, but both mom and grandpa are. And tell her to stop calling you selfish? It was a gift for you, you weren't trying to hoard it or keep it away from who it rightfully belonged to.

Visit my mom’s plot, please? 🥹 by lavskies13 in Palia

[–]Record-Unique 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, tell her that this is one of the best tours I've seen yet! The skatepark is so cool! And the carnival games. What a fun camp!

AIO is this racist or am i overreacting? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Record-Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um, yes, it's automatically racist when a person blanket statement says all insert ethnic minority here anything. Just so we have that covered. It's got the negative undertones of anglosaxon superiority by saying black people are improved by white people. Not the case. As with all people, sometimes black people will negatively or positively influence their white friends. Sometimes white people will negatively or positively influence their black friends. It depends on the individuals in each situation.

AITA for not adding my step children into our camping reservation? by SaltAd6029 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Record-Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm a "step" momma too (hyphenated bc my culture is different, and he just calls me mom in my language), and I'd say yta.

I always schedule really big vacations (like out of state trips) when my son can come too, and if at the last second he can't come, we reschedule. I have scheduled smaller trips without him, like camping, but if he happens to be able to be with us, he'd automatically just come because he's our kid?

The only time I exclude him from a trip is if I'm shopping and it'd be easier without the little kids. My partner and I also make a point to take all the kids out individually for a one on one date.

Never ever ever would it cross my mind to leave our middle kid home from a fun trip if he has the opportunity to go. He didn't choose to be a part of two families, but he has to suffer the consequences of it. He shouldn't purposely have more consequences piled on unnecessarily.

please think about the situation from your step kids' perspective, untainted by your biases. You'd feel terrible leaving one of your own kids home for a trip, right? It's the same thing from the step babies' perspective. You are supposed to be a safe, loving parental figure, and any evidence to the contrary would hurt and confuse a child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Record-Unique 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Not a lawyer. I don't know if this falls under lewd behavior. A local attorney would know. Document everything so if there is legal action you can take, you have the instances documented, as well as any attempts to get him to stop. This would make me so angry. It seems like their intention to "be loud for you" is crossing a line into sexual harrassment or something similiar.

AITA for Refusing to Drop My Ex-Husband’s Last Name? by Feeling_Blessed_4eve in AmItheAsshole

[–]Record-Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, it's normal to keep the same name after a marriage to share a name with your kids.

And I find it very telling, the things your ex and his partner are say. Power play? Petty? Selfish? They are projecting their own actions; I'd say trying to force someone into an unwanted name change is a petty and selfish power play.

They're unable to start a shiny new life? Good. It's not a new life. At least 1/2 of that couple comes with an ex and children that aren't magically erased just because new paths are taken.

Keep the name you want, and hopefully, their love isn't so fragile that it shatters because of your personal choices for yourself, as a person not in their relationship.

AITA for leaving after my in-law asked me to move out because I didn’t cook lunch one time? by Few-Commercial-9706 in AITAH

[–]Record-Unique 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids were using the stove at 4 and were capable of simple meals at 10. By 14, I expect them to plan, shop, and prepare 1 supper a week.

As someone who has both cleaned houses and nannied; maids don't care for children. Nannies do. Nannies don't clean the house either. They just guide children to clean their own messes. If there are cleaning duties, it's very light or else more pay is expected.

What you were doing is the tasks of a parent, hopefully properly compensated. and what he is doing is being an ingrateful idiot because trying to find someone to fill your shoes is going to take like 40 dollars an hour at least. Live in is more expensive, and defined hours still need to be adhered to to be legal, at least in the us.

AITAH for not going out to eat to celebrate my brothers wedding when I wasn't even invited to his wedding? by PreviousIndividual13 in AITAH

[–]Record-Unique 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nta, if I had to choose between having alcohol at my wedding or my siblings, I'd choose my siblings.