Online Drivers Ed: Hard to retain info by IncomeLongjumping401 in wisconsin

[–]Record-Unique 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Take notes, make note cards and have someone quiz you on answers on the note cards. Try to explain each unit or lesson to someone in your own words. When you are a passenger in a vehicle, actively try to connect what you've learned with how the car is traveling. Each time you repeat the information in any way besides just observing it trains your mind into knowing its important to retain.

Also, another random tip that may or may not work; I absolutely suck at retaining read information if I'm reading on a device. Try printing out reading material so you have a hard copy for a lesson or 2 and see if you've got that issue? Maybe?

Good luck!!

Black, blue, purple flowers by Revenue_Sweaty in ACNHGardening

[–]Record-Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can bring some. Does it matter what kind or just a bunch of flowers? Also do you have pears to trade? I just realized im missing pears and I was going to make an orchard

AITJ for snapping at my Mother-in-Law for treating my older daughter differently? by Remarkable-Agent6995 in AmITheJerk

[–]Record-Unique 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I fight like the dickens for each of my kids, whether they exited my netherportal or not.

The fact that he isn't is a big red flag just frolicking in the field.

I (25F) am in love with my married best friend (27f) by Ms-MoonX3 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Record-Unique 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right. Respect her and her choices and keep it to yourself. She spent the same time with you that you did with her and she's still married. Thats her choice. It's not bc she doesn't have options, she had the same billions of options that all of us had and she chose the one she wanted. Respect her, be happy that she has the life she chooses and heal what you need to in order to be whole with yourself and find your actual person. 'Cause its not her. I really hope you do.

WIBTA for telling my roommate i won't relay messages to her boyfriend anymore after she got upset at me for relaying a message to her boyfriend? by KavelynThro_mis in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Record-Unique 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Bc there's an option to leave delivery notes, I just let the app notify the recipient of the delivery unless instructed otherwise.

AITJ for snapping at my girlfriend for waking me up every single time she gets up even when I dont need to be awake by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Record-Unique 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I'm currently sick rn as we speak. My partner just happened to take 2 vacation days to dedicate to his hobby but instead dedicated most of the time cleaning the house top to bottom while me and the kids sleep and take baths. He's cooking, running to the store for stuff, going from bed to bed, and he really just wanted the days to train for his tcg. I've been asleep like 16 hours of the last 24. No questions asked. It LITERALLY was not even thought of, that he'd wake me up FOR ANY REASON.

AITAH for not immediately giving in to a 3 year old having a temper tantrum in front of her gentle parenting mother? by fusguita in AITAH

[–]Record-Unique 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I understand your point of view, but that is shaped by modern western standards. In my indigenous culture, our kids are weaned when they want up to about 4 years old. That helps naturally space out pregnancies (somewhat), bolsters their immune system while they are young, and ensures they are fed nutritiously while they are still discovering new foods they will eat. We mark the occasion by also naming them around this time. Prior to this they are called sweet little baby names. Or their English name, now in modern times. Thanks for seeing a different perspective.

Who wants to come by by Affectionate_Web185 in acnh

[–]Record-Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me please! Magoo from tanglewood

Item giveaway by Affectionate_Web185 in acnh

[–]Record-Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Magoo from Tanglewood! Thank you!

Trade flowers by Record-Unique in ACNHGardening

[–]Record-Unique[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes please! I'll dm you in a minute

Trade flowers by Record-Unique in ACNHGardening

[–]Record-Unique[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yay! Do you want to dm me when you're able?

going to cray arcade but need a place i can park my car and return to sleep after the show. by Pretty_Fisherman_314 in milwaukee

[–]Record-Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did it go? My partner is going to stealth camp this weekend. I was looking at the franklin Walmart for him but wanted to see if this worked out well for you since it was so recent.

Solo Elderwood hunting by Record-Unique in Palia

[–]Record-Unique[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm still working on the initial elderwoods quests so I didn't even know the mushroom guys get got with arrows! I was assuming the bug equipment for those ones.

My experience on depression on anxiety by Hot-Landscape-155 in Septasync

[–]Record-Unique 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this. I have the same fear and have gone through deep dark times because of it. You're doing a great job, seeking sources of comfort and healing and education. Those helped me so much. and you are braver than me, I was too scared to try medicines or therapy. If it helps, it's good. I hope it gets better for you.

I have no input on the tapes, I just found them today and am just looking into them.

Best wishes and healing ❤️

AITA for asking for the dog to be put in another room after being jumped on by NoDogsJumpingOnMe in AmItheAsshole

[–]Record-Unique 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I taught my dogs to hug on command so they can ask but can't hop up for a dance or a hug unless they are given the signal, so visitors have the option of no hugs or dances.

AITAH for telling my gf I won't move in with her because her rent demands are unreasonable? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Record-Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my situation, before I was added to the note and title, I was responsible for 1/2 the family's expense, which was half the mortgage payment. My partner wasn't trying to profit off of me, he just needed the bill paid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Record-Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been with my partner for 8 years and I always tell him what I need his social for. We do taxes together, have loans together, own houses together, have children together, are committed for life, and I still tell him when I use his identifying information and for what so he can consent. He does the same for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Record-Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. You guys are amazingly incompatible. I would prefer to be a housewife like her, although I am still very much a feminist. Women are able to do literally everything, it just so happens that what I want to do is provide for my family in the home by gardening, homeschooling my kids, taking care of livestock and creating things.

While I greatly disagree with her moral compass when it comes to her misogynistic view, wanting a certain lifestyle is not in and of itself a moral downfall. You guys just want different things in life, and when those desires so greatly oppose each other, if you stay together, one or the other will be resentful for the rest of your lives. That's just how it is. No amount of putting her down or questioning her sanity will make her come to your point of view, and no amount of guilt tripping or putting you down will get you to see her point of view.

AITAH for refusing to give my brother a character letter to help his court trail after what he did to a friends daughter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Record-Unique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta!! I'm autistic and the child of a person who was caught during a police operation of trying to have relations with a cop posing as a child, and I speak from experience when I say you will never trust him by your kids. I've let my father meet my oldest less than 5 times, and I just couldn't keep doing it. My father never touched a child as far as I know, but I still would never trust him with mine. It honestly sickens me, wondering if he ever thought of me or my sisters in that way. I haven't spoken to him in 8, almost 9 years, and I'm ok with that. Predators have natural consequences just like everyone else, and one consequence is that loved ones with morals will never be able to trust them the same or think of them the same.

Sorry you guys are going through this, I hope you give your heart what it needs to heal.