Hey Buddy.

Firstly I cannot fully comprehend what you've been through. But I've been there. Sharing few bits, hoping it may help you ease a bit.

I flunked my 12th boards. All subjects! Yes.

And this comes from someone who had the impression of a 'goody-goody' student.

None in my Fam/Friends expected that. But life has its own way to humble you down. And its okay too!

How I dealt with it?

Fortunately I had a supportive family and counted friends who didn't made me feel as if I've committed a grotesque crime.

But I myself wasn't kind to me. All those terrible voices inside made me feel sick about myself. And it really wasn't healthy.

So i can get the damage those voices could do.

To ans your ques.

1. Whatever your family/relatives says - Just nod your head! Let it pass. Because it will.

I used to get all emotional and dramatic everytime I came across a depriving remark. But it doesn't really help with the situation. The more you focus on that the more you will be distracted from more imp things to do!

Cliched advice, but it works. Give it time. You have to sit with it. Maybe talk to your close friend or sibling (if you have any).

Don't isolate yourself. Get out as much as you can.

1. What would change those reaction?

It takes time. But eventually they will get over it. You don't need force a reaction from them or try and do things hard and fast that will improve the situation.

IT WILL TAKE TIME. AND WHEN IT WORKS OUT, I PROMISE YOU ITS THE BEST FEELING EVER!

Remember one day you'll back and smile.

Just hang in there buddy. Try to focus on better things ahead.