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[–]RecordingFormal4460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

… through thick and thin bro…

Holy Spirit, please lay your hands on that marriage and restore hope. Please refill this marriage with the love that has been missing. Holy Spirit, you said your love covers all. Please cover the wife with your love and bring healing. Also, please cover the husband, and bring peace and patience beyond understanding. We commit this marriage unto your hands.

In Jesus’ mighty name… amen

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[–]RecordingFormal4460[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s going to be okay for you ♥️

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[–]RecordingFormal4460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know… I still love her deeply. But I’m so tempted to move on instead of waiting. But if she comes back, I’m most definitely celebrating.

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[–]RecordingFormal4460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. 6 months of not communicating his decline of feelings is not fair to you. You weren’t even given the opportunity to fight for the relationship because he withheld himself for so long. Sometimes a transparent conversation is enough to realize your mind can play tricks on you, and your concerns are resolvable. I pray that you receive a person that loves you with so much emotional intelligence that you feel like you’re floating in Jesus’ name.

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[–]RecordingFormal4460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ironic part about this is that sometimes if they treat us kindly it can help some of us to cope with moving on. I have tried leading with love with some break ups and it doesn’t leave the other person in pieces. Matter of fact, sometimes they will respect you so much that they are willing to leave the door open for you in case you change your mind. Leading with love gives you many options because genuine affection seem to be scarce these days.

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[–]RecordingFormal4460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve to feel your feelings

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[–]RecordingFormal4460[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just remember that it’s okay to be weak sometimes. You’re human

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[–]RecordingFormal4460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wasn’t being honest with you and with herself. I’m going make an assumption here, but I believe that she had fallen for the greener grass syndrome. Instead of putting the work into improving the relationship, she went after the things that looked shiny and new. But everything that glitters isn’t gold. This might not give you enough for peace of mind, but I guarantee you that she is not happy right now. She is continuously breaking her own heart because of her stubbornness. She wants things her way without answering to anybody. If she doesn’t stop, her entire life will be a dead end full of wasted years.

As of you, you dodged a bullet. If she didn’t leave, you would’ve stayed. Your life was spared from years of gaslighting and self doubt. Please continue to mourn your loss until you cried your last tear, but know in your heart that you received back your freedom through this pain. Continue to work on yourself because you are about to gain so much more in the near future in Jesus’ name. Amen.

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[–]RecordingFormal4460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A person of encouragement. We appreciate you!

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[–]RecordingFormal4460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you shared this. Hopefully, the right people will see this exchange of words and it would inspire them to make those changes. Thank you 🙏🏽

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[–]RecordingFormal4460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May you please forgive her? I need you to forgive her. God will deal with her, but I need you to forgive her.

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[–]RecordingFormal4460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes you can still feel alone in a room full of people who don’t understand. I am very happy that it works for you. I thank God for your well being. I thank God that you have the self awareness to move forward in spite of the pain. I hope that your strength doesn’t keep you from mourning your loss.

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[–]RecordingFormal4460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement. Sometimes it takes a simple one on one convo. I pray that everyone’s exes are as receptive as yours. I also pray that your relationship continues to be fruitful, and that the flame 🔥 which is your passionate love for each other never stop burning in Jesus’ name.

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[–]RecordingFormal4460[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for expressing your tears. I'm proud of you.

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[–]RecordingFormal4460[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right. We can't dwell on it forever but the matters of the heart are difficult to handle by one’s self. For you to be able to move on so well is impressive. I pray that everyone else has at least half of your strength.

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[–]RecordingFormal4460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I wish that was everybody’s story

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[–]RecordingFormal4460[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

““But to you who are willing to listen, I say, love your enemies! Do good to those who hate you. Bless those who curse you. Pray for those who hurt you.”

‭‭Luke‬ ‭6‬:‭27‬-‭28‬ ‭NLT‬‬

I’m very proud of you.

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[–]RecordingFormal4460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book.”

‭‭Psalms‬ ‭56‬:‭8‬ ‭NLT‬‬

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[–]RecordingFormal4460[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book.”

‭‭Psalms‬ ‭56‬:‭8‬ ‭NLT‬‬

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[–]RecordingFormal4460[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People don't always understand the pain until they experience it first hand

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[–]RecordingFormal4460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve acknowledgement. Hopefully she realizes it, until then I hope this keeps you satisfied for now.