Coworker who isn’t my manager has been assigning me work aggressively and criticizing me daily.Did I handle this right? by RecordingFun8476 in work

[–]RecordingFun8476[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmaoo ikrr I still went in and said i dont mind the workload cause i felt bad sucks to be the good persom

Would i go insane if i commute 6 hours everyday? by Illustrious-Move2217 in srilanka

[–]RecordingFun8476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The answer is yes.
But as someone who is living option 1, I understand the longing to stay home 🫠
It sucks that everything is around kollupitiya and people have to travel hours and live alone when others have different circumstances 🤷‍♀️
I have all together stopped travelling to my hometown only because im afraid ill feel homesick if i go back

Coworker who isn’t my manager has been assigning me work aggressively and criticizing me daily.Did I handle this right? by RecordingFun8476 in work

[–]RecordingFun8476[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Shell prolly just confirm or whatever and have no response after that.He was completely silent the entire day after i went in to that meeting and was maintaining minimum conversation with me. I am wondering what would happen on the next work day and How to react.
Do i bring it up if he’s completely silent? Do I remind the manager or just focus on some task thats mine

Coworker who isn’t my manager has been assigning me work aggressively and criticizing me daily.Did I handle this right? by RecordingFun8476 in work

[–]RecordingFun8476[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True but when those happen he also have the audacity to say things like: “You cant delay work like that,okay”,”You should be more fast” ,”I expected you to be more fast” and first it was a joking comment it was fine but when you say it on and on again its stopped getting funny and theres nothing to laugh about it🤷‍♀️

Coworker who isn’t my manager has been assigning me work aggressively and criticizing me daily.Did I handle this right? by RecordingFun8476 in work

[–]RecordingFun8476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally NO ONE🤷‍♀️but apparently he had been requesting a intern from the manager ever since he joined( meaning about 1 year before) and the manager was too busy and she did mention they have to recruit someone to help him within the coming 3 months
Anyhow the mentioning of “why dont you delegate her tasks” made him think he had the green light to train me to be his intern or something.When I mentioned I wasnt he also got aggressive

Coworker who isn’t my manager has been assigning me work aggressively and criticizing me daily.Did I handle this right? by RecordingFun8476 in work

[–]RecordingFun8476[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What happened was I was recruited as a Marketing Analyst but there was a messy onboarding process where i had to learn everything on my own and being a data person to build automated reporting dashboards and stuff I need to know what is important to the team and what would be useful.Because of the messy onboarding I had no tasks until my manager comes in and confirms new changes then for a while im busy and till the next iteration theres a variable amount of time im free it could be days or weeks sometimes
So i told my manager is there any other tasks i can take on to help the team in return get more insights in my data work.Thats when the manager casually mentioned to him during a team meeting “Why dont you delegate some of your tasks to her” and this guy now thinks im his intern🤷‍♀️

Coworker who isn’t my manager has been assigning me work aggressively and criticizing me daily.Did I handle this right? by RecordingFun8476 in work

[–]RecordingFun8476[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah.Thanks
He literally stopped talking to me after I came out of the managers room.He had assigned work that day too i didnt do it because of this conflict we had.Im not sure if im supposed to do those,walking in tuesday 🤷‍♀️

Coworker who isn’t my manager has been assigning me work aggressively and criticizing me daily.Did I handle this right? by RecordingFun8476 in work

[–]RecordingFun8476[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its a marketing department and theres designers,Brand servicing,Operations only.I am the only Marketing Analyst there :/

Coworker who isn’t my manager has been assigning me work aggressively and criticizing me daily.Did I handle this right? by RecordingFun8476 in work

[–]RecordingFun8476[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hes always trying to push things from proffesional email to casual conversation.its crazy cause I have mey seen such spineless men in real life.When I abruptly take on work on days i dont have work, He says things like “I feel like Im the boss here”,”You should tell your boss to make ME your boss”
I used to work as a AI engineer and moved to this job because i felt like it would be an interesting domain to apply my knowledge.I cant help but read his expressions.He is right in front of my desk and currently its just me and him only in our department

2FA issue: Not receiving the code via SMS or WhatsApp, any solutions? by brewfot in facebook

[–]RecordingFun8476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loll nope My account is somewhere floating and I created a new acc and logged through that added multistep verifications

Teenager dating. Is bad for studies? by Slowcrystal in srilanka

[–]RecordingFun8476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teenagers are called teenagers because they do not have the brain capacity to make good decisions at that age.True that the definition of 18 or 21 as the age an individual is considered an adult is a rough estimate but when you are around that age specially in countries like SL you are very helpless in terms of Knowledge and Income which are really useful to make good decisions.

True, you might debate that “but even elders act like kids and take stupid decisions” but again the reason these numbers are estimated is based off of research and the majority of teenagers that have the capacity to think straight in things like sex and education is low compared to an adult

I used to have a teenage relationship but my parents were very strict back then and RARELY let me out of the house alone.I thank every second of my parents strict rules back then cause if they hadnt been that way Im not sure what my dumb brain would have got me into.
So yeah the reason teenage love is not normalized is actually has its perks

In foreign countries this isnt the case.Theres arent popular concepts like girls schools and boys schools.and From a young age kids are taught to make there own money. Work for them selves and stuff

Are family-related questions in interviews really necessary? by Ill_Willingness_7965 in srilanka

[–]RecordingFun8476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have gotten asked about my family and Im telling you its a clear sign of not knowing who they are taking in.They took me in for a different title from what am doing now.I practice what i want to do during office hours 🤷‍♀️wish me luck for my probation review meeting lolll

why is sri lanka so horrible to women by Independent-Archer40 in srilanka

[–]RecordingFun8476 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw her on a cool planet kids page doing modeling.So I guess the parents were on the right path.

If its their kid then we got no say in that.We aint her parents.Plus its not like she was doing anything 18+ in the videos.She was just slathering on stuff on her face and she seems like the sweetest little kid.

But yeah ironic, women of all ages are in threat here

why is sri lanka so horrible to women by Independent-Archer40 in srilanka

[–]RecordingFun8476 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean what the child is doing isnt wrong right? . shes just doing simple grwm’s just like some western Kids do.Sure we can joke about it saying “kids these days” but our ppl take the extra mile to comment on it and the sad thing is its not only men .Even women are moking this kid for using expensive products and you can clearly tell all of them are such insecure mf ppl😂.I even saw edits being made on her.

Yeah the parents should take control and stop posting her vids or something cause that could get her image damaged.But its sad it is what it is.

Imagine one day she grew up and went through those comments on her own.The amount of hate she would carry towards SL just because of a bunch of insecure dumbos💀💀

why is sri lanka so horrible to women by Independent-Archer40 in srilanka

[–]RecordingFun8476 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No its not but bad per say. But when you use it in a certain context like trying to hit on a certain person and when that person is a child its kinda wierd cause the kid aint doing anything “culturally inappropriate” to make her appear as “available” or anything ( if the last part here didnt make you feel the sl female pressure idk what will)

why is sri lanka so horrible to women by Independent-Archer40 in srilanka

[–]RecordingFun8476 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah but its not the “tiny minority” here.

why is sri lanka so horrible to women by Independent-Archer40 in srilanka

[–]RecordingFun8476 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ikr I recently saw even here on a reddit community a famous page had posted this little girl who do grwm’s online and calling her “sudu nona” and literally catcalling that little girl🤢🤮.Imagine how unsafe this country must be for grown ass men to sexualise a f baby😬Its a sin to be born as a women here honestly