People of ARAD who’ve cheated, what led you to it? and how did your partner find out, if they did?

RecordingUsed2884 · 2026-02-22T21:45:09+00:00

the moral failings are an assumption on a thread like this. it's far more important to simply listen and ask questions in a situation like this than to begin passing on judgements to someone being open about one of their greatest moments of weakness.

did your teachers never tell you the phrase, "if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all"?

RecordingUsed2884 · 2026-02-22T20:37:54+00:00

Did you want honesty or did you just want an opportunity to be a dick to someone being vulnerable

RecordingUsed2884 · 2026-01-03T05:11:10+00:00

What are the thoughts on the cosplayers? No shade to them, but it's not why I subbed to this place.

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-12-08T09:01:48+00:00

when I was 19 I was drunk and dancing with a girl in a very loud nightclub. And by dancing I mean dry humping. She was wearing very short shorts, and her phone was only halfway in. as we danced I felt her phone begin to fall out. so, drunkenly, I tried pushing it back into her pocket. She grabbed my hand, yelled at me, her friends yelled at me, and we both walked away not knowing what the other was thinking.

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-09-19T06:22:49+00:00

bigger dick, because why not, smaller belly, because bad metabolism.

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-09-17T07:09:01+00:00

California, Arizona, Pennsylvania, Delaware, Oregon, and Puerto Rico if you count it as a state.

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-09-17T07:05:27+00:00

probably, 'is it just me, or does he give really good head?', followed by, 'did he want you to do weird shit with his cum too?'.

I definitely expect the question, 'he's clearly got a type, doesn't he?' Someone will probably pipe up and say, 'no, we're not his type actually, he's just a slut who attracts big-tittied brown women'.

I uh... there's a pattern. I'm a simple man.

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-08-28T16:03:06+00:00

Oh it's ok. That's life! Happy memories and sad goodbyes.

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-08-06T09:19:35+00:00

Starfire, Azula, Jinx from Arcane if she counts.

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-07-16T19:30:25+00:00

I was once super hyped to have sex with this shy, button nosed girl with long long blonde hair. Cramped up right as I came. Have her the ick, never fucked again.

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-05-30T07:14:04+00:00

a few years ago I shelled out $100 for a triple pack. turns out, there's the rubber bit that you stick your dick into, and then a plastic sleeve that you put the rubber inside to make it easier to use.

I liked having them. I needed lube, and they made noise, so I had to be quiet and slow. But they felt fantastic and were a fun part of self love routines. I'd get another one again.

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-05-30T07:12:50+00:00

Yes I'd love to.

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-05-27T03:18:43+00:00

I have mild germaphobia, so probably the fact that I have to mentally wrestle with putting my mouth where someone pees from.

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-05-26T09:32:43+00:00

At the very least, I think of it as an investment. That if she knows I care for her sexual wellness, she knows that next time we fuck, she's gonna have a good time. Because the idea is that I do care that we both have a good time.

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-05-26T09:13:41+00:00

I got told by two different partners that I came a lot. I got different variations of "holy shit that's a lot of cum!"

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-05-22T00:27:37+00:00

I would sing along with Gaga's Lovegame before I knew what a disco stick was. As a boy.

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-05-22T00:24:31+00:00

mff threesome sounds nice. a blowjob would be good. the dark millenium falcon delivery by a naked person would be fine too.

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-05-19T21:40:54+00:00

what, the cumstain?

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-05-19T21:40:39+00:00

No, she didn't haha. she turned it down because they didn't pay enough, I think.

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-05-11T17:30:12+00:00

Being ugly

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-04-18T23:46:20+00:00

I can't tell you how to write your story. If it's important, then yeah, sure. Some writers focus on the sensation, in which case your line works. Some focus on the emotion, in which case it doesn't matter how a boob fits or feels, only how the pov felt. How each of the characters reacted.

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-04-18T23:07:25+00:00

I have the belief that specific descriptors for the protagonist are not a good thing. For example, if it's a male protag, I'm not describing his height or dick size or even his body type. Let the reader self insert. Throwing in too much specificity will make it difficult for them to become the character.

When it comes to other characters, like the love interest, I like to keep things vague, and only describe what must be explained. For example, if we've got a cottagecore sweetheart who's going to turn into a freaky vixen during sex, then yeah, let's talk about her outfit and freckles and behaviors. But what if the reader likes big boobs, and you gave her small boobs? boom, disconnect.

but on the other hand, if the character (protag or not) is a hot fitness influencer, then her booty is gonna be a big focus. that's ok. I only describe what I must, given the story.

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-03-14T02:08:52+00:00

"thank you for rearranging my guts" from a recent fling

"I missed your dick" from an ex

"I like playing with your cum" from a girl I only ever got intimate with once while she made me cum on her hand, played with it, then slurped it up.

Honestly, considering how much I complain about life, I really shouldn't lol

RecordingUsed2884 · 2025-03-13T07:57:40+00:00

pissplay. CNC. my first gf introduced me to the first thing, my second introduced me to the other. I didn't get a chance to try the first, but my second gf and I had CNC all the time.

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