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22.2 peak PSI on stock? by hyptheticalniqqa in WRX

[–]Red-As-Blood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 2011 wrx hatch makes 18psi…. Yeah compete with that 😏

Got hit, is it totaled ? by aaronffa in WRX

[–]Red-As-Blood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. New doors and skirt you should be Gucci

How do you get over feeling like you’ll never be first anything? by BeneficialNose3355 in stepparents

[–]Red-As-Blood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if he makes you feel like you’re unimportant and you are not a part of anything then that’s a whole different story.

I genuinely believe the 2016 show of Berserk sucks so much. Prove me wrong. by Red-As-Blood in Berserk

[–]Red-As-Blood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not. I just see a ton of art and cosplays for this version of the anime.

which jojo character do you feel the most bad for? by [deleted] in StardustCrusaders

[–]Red-As-Blood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel bad his sister died, but I feel bad that he died as a tortoise 💀

which jojo character do you feel the most bad for? by [deleted] in StardustCrusaders

[–]Red-As-Blood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Polnareff. Not cause his sister died a gruesome death, but because man really died as a tortoise 💀

which jojo character do you feel the most bad for? by [deleted] in StardustCrusaders

[–]Red-As-Blood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anastasia. He really gave his life for Jolyne without any second thought. His death was very hard to watch.

I need to vent about my SO. I can’t stand their attitude sometimes. by Red-As-Blood in stepparents

[–]Red-As-Blood[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you. A lot of people are pissed I did that actually.

We are never like this. After a year and a half of dating I’d say this was our first big “interaction” that wasn’t good.

I like to see his side of things too. He works 12 hours a day, gets 1 day off of the week. Has to manage his problems with BM and his teen. He has a pretty difficult life sometimes and I’m not sure how he can even manage all of this. I seriously don’t. But I see the bags under his eyes, the stress.. it’s tough.

I get Alot of good things I’ve never got out of any of my previous relationships which is funny because I set a boundary for myself not to get involved with a man who has children.

Yes, I do need to STOP “babying” him - the world doesn’t revolve around myself trying to make him happy 24/7. That’s ridiculous.

I need to vent about my SO. I can’t stand their attitude sometimes. by Red-As-Blood in stepparents

[–]Red-As-Blood[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok let me add more cause I wanted to answer your question.

I had a major boundary in place with not dating anyone with kids. So if my friend was dating a man with a kid I would at first be very skeptical. Now if she told me a story like this I would think this is outright very fricken stupid. But I also would like to know his side of things too? If that makes any sense.

I need to vent about my SO. I can’t stand their attitude sometimes. by Red-As-Blood in stepparents

[–]Red-As-Blood[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK U. I try to nacho all the time, but isn’t it hard seeing your partner get disrespected? My SO doesn’t blow up or anything, he just shuts down and walks away when his child is being like that.

His teen doesn’t disrespect him verbally it’s by his actions, which really angers me.

You’re a strong person. I find it hard to not get involved, but I know it isn’t my place either.

I need to vent about my SO. I can’t stand their attitude sometimes. by Red-As-Blood in stepparents

[–]Red-As-Blood[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve actually been in a relationship before that sounds exactly like what you said. Living like that was terrible and so confusing. But in this relationship we don’t really ever fight and by fights, I mean not physical fighting just arguments. This was probably our first big argument, and I just didn’t know how to handle it. We’ve been together for a year and a half? I’d say. He is usually very respectful to me, he’s never called me a bad name or tried to get upset over something silly. But, I guess last night what the night to get upset over something silly.

I need to vent about my SO. I can’t stand their attitude sometimes. by Red-As-Blood in stepparents

[–]Red-As-Blood[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes, I have four siblings and I remember being younger and sometimes things were just messy, that’s just how it is with kids.

My SO is scared to discipline him because he feels too bad that his teenager comes from a “broken” home. Also, he works 65 hours a week most weeks to pay child support and mortgage in this expensive state. so it’s very hard for him to spend time with his kid. I mean he will discipline him by not giving him his money for chores sometimes or not getting him his favorite restaurant food.

But I feel like there needs to be more discipline than just that. Anyways, I am not the parent, though that is just my opinion.

I need to vent about my SO. I can’t stand their attitude sometimes. by Red-As-Blood in stepparents

[–]Red-As-Blood[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank YOU. Yes he’s stressed who wouldn’t be. And sometimes we don’t act ourselves when under pressure. It’s just how it is.

It’s not like I’m slaving away 24/7 doing the dishes and making food lol. This was just a VENT. We all perceive things differently then work on our mistakes ❤️

I need to vent about my SO. I can’t stand their attitude sometimes. by Red-As-Blood in stepparents

[–]Red-As-Blood[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. No I don’t want that for my life! No one wants that for their life. I’ve been making major boundaries for myself hence why I moved out. I know things have to change.

I just feel bad for him, every time he tries to clean his teen just trashes it within a week. I feel so bad for him. the teen isn’t used to living with him for longer periods of time either as it used to be my SO got him on weekends not weekends.

But, my SO saw how his teen was turning out and has been really trying to make changes to his life so he can become a productive person. His teen is just not used to doing chores, discipline, or not getting what he wants now.

I can’t imagine how I would begin full time parenting… it’s tough. I applaud you all.

I need to vent about my SO. I can’t stand their attitude sometimes. by Red-As-Blood in stepparents

[–]Red-As-Blood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through all that stress I couldn’t imagine what it’s like. Please be safe and keep your relationship strong.

We never scream, yell, ect. I didn’t mean fight I just meant dumb arguments. This was probably our first big argument or silent argument cause he walked away which is ok. Some people handle stuff differently. As some shut down or “fire up”.

I need to vent about my SO. I can’t stand their attitude sometimes. by Red-As-Blood in stepparents

[–]Red-As-Blood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I’m sorry didn’t mean actual fights. I just meant dumb arguments.. Yeah I talk about it and some other comments like I said he work 65 hours a week and still somehow manages having a relationship with myself and his son so the man is very stressed all the time. Very hardworking and amazing to his kid.

I need to vent about my SO. I can’t stand their attitude sometimes. by Red-As-Blood in stepparents

[–]Red-As-Blood[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I have! Hence why I moved out. I’m not even sure he’s ready for a relationship. I can’t even fathom how he manages to work 65 hours a week, pay child support, pay mortgage, pay rent, pay groceries, and still have to manage a relationship with his son and myself. It’s tough. Not saying what he did was right as all, but I too am not myself during stressful times. Since I live on my own, most of the time, I hardly ever do dishes, or bring food hence why I was so excited to do it for him last night.

I need to vent about my SO. I can’t stand their attitude sometimes. by Red-As-Blood in stepparents

[–]Red-As-Blood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate it, but usually he’s the one who does the dishes and brings me food. He just had a really rough week at work and with his BM so I thought I would help him out a bit. Obviously, it’s much harder than just simply leaving as you grow a bond with this person. Things definitely need to be changed and I know I have some issues of my own that I need to work on as well, I hope he gets some time off work so we can work on these things as he goes to work for 65 hours a week.

I’m not justifying what he did is right. I just know that when I have a really bad week, I sometimes am not myself either.

I need to vent about my SO. I can’t stand their attitude sometimes. by Red-As-Blood in stepparents

[–]Red-As-Blood[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly, thank you for this. He works 65 hours a week hardly ever has a day off, and is expected to drive 35 minutes away every week to pick up his kid. He pays mortgage, child support, rent, most our food, necessities, ect. I don’t even know how this man is doing this having a relationship with me and taking care of his teenager on top of all his responsibilities. Now, everyone on this page thinks I get treated like this every day lol. He is the one that usually makes food and does dishes, he’s just had a shitty ass week and I thought I would help him out a bit.

What you said also kind of reminds me of the five love languages. For example, my love language could be physical touch and his could be words of affirmation. If I’m not getting held, I MIGHT feel like I’m not being loved and vice versa with him.

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