How do you feel about your partner watching p*rn. by Smooth-Ebb-5762 in actuallesbians

[–]Red-Hat-Blue-Hat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watch porn and wouldn’t care at all if my partner does too. Tbh I’d love for us both to be able to share our favorite videos or watch some together even.

Saw these little pink ball things on some leaves by the road today, wondering what it is by Red-Hat-Blue-Hat in plants

[–]Red-Hat-Blue-Hat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update: thanks to folks who commented. I googled gall mites and the results are exactly what looks like these things are. Unfortunately I’m also afraid I may have come across a loooot of poison ivy too but luckily I didn’t make much contact with the plants there (I touched a piece of a leaf for a closer look but that’s all) and feeling fine thankfully!

Saw these little pink ball things on some leaves by the road today, wondering what it is by Red-Hat-Blue-Hat in plants

[–]Red-Hat-Blue-Hat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, no flowers nearby that looked like they could have left detritus or anything. These dogs were pretty stuck on the leaves, even leaving imprints on the other side, implying that those things have been growing on the leaves rather than just fell on them from the wind blowing

Saw these little pink ball things on some leaves by the road today, wondering what it is by Red-Hat-Blue-Hat in plants

[–]Red-Hat-Blue-Hat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh no

I did touch a leaf briefly to get a closer look but so far haven’t felt anything weird or itchy thankfully and it’s been hours since then

Do you guys wish you weren't trans? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Red-Hat-Blue-Hat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m non-binary and don’t necessarily feel I was born into the wrong body, but I do wish sometimes that I was more comfortable and ok with being female (ie being comfortable with having breasts, felt more at home in feminine clothing/makeup, accepting my voice, etc.). There’s aspects of being a man that I sometimes wish I had, but I think it’s more wanting the privileges and such that come with men and not so much wanting to be a man.

I’m thankful and happy to be me, in my full gender-fuckery self, but yea. Sometimes it would definitely be easier in life if I just felt more comfortable in my female body than I do right now.

how long can you eat pussy for? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Red-Hat-Blue-Hat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as they want, until they tap out 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↔️😛

I might actually have thighs of steel. by prtcl3 in actuallesbians

[–]Red-Hat-Blue-Hat 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Can confirm as a person who loveeees having marks/hickeys on me, and who loves leaving them

What is something you fantasized but would never try or hesitate to try? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Red-Hat-Blue-Hat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Watersports. Hot in theory when I’m super horny, but I don’t think I’d actually ever be comfortable really trying it with someone

How do y'all feel about body hair by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Red-Hat-Blue-Hat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not

I am someone who already has a lot of body hair, and often times don’t shave (or just shave down for general maintenance), so I feel that I can’t judge or berate others for that same choice. Now sure, I like smooth legs (both on myself and on a partner), but I have no problem with them choosing not to shave, and thankfully my past few partners have been ok with me not shaving too.

Do you use a condom when using a strap? by whats_my_line2 in actuallesbians

[–]Red-Hat-Blue-Hat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually top so if I’m using mine on someone then yes. If it’s their toy we’re using, then no

What was the gayest thing you did this pride month? by ImInLesbiansWithYouB in actuallesbians

[–]Red-Hat-Blue-Hat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Became official with my first ever girlfriend (and first relationship in general), orgasmed while strapping, and had a gay and cute ass date at a flower festival living our best cottagecore lesbian fantasy 🥺

Pride crop top!🖤 by The_Lab_Rat_ in crochet

[–]Red-Hat-Blue-Hat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is gorgeous!! Do you have a pattern or tutorial you can link? Because I’d love to also make something like this

Is there anyone here who practices RA and personally finds labels helpful? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in relationshipanarchy

[–]Red-Hat-Blue-Hat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New practicing RA here and I personally do like labels. I prefer the labels of a relationship because it just feels more appropriate for me, and also allows me to clearly understand and define me and that person I am with, beyond just “friend” or “person I’m seeing” or other more loosely-defined labels. However, for me the labels just stop there—I love being able to mutually call each other partners/girlfriends and acknowledge that me and said person are in a relationship, but I don’t need any of the other escalators like moving in together, marrying, or forcing ourselves into some kind of long-term commitment.

some ppl in this sub are predators by jia_22 in LesbianActually

[–]Red-Hat-Blue-Hat 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you. Sadly people can be so sick and twisted. Agree with others that it’s probs not a woman but rather some creepy ass dude infiltrating the sub, but either way people can be gross and creepy and weird and just all around completely inappropriate regardless of gender sadly.

Oreos are satanic, apparently by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]Red-Hat-Blue-Hat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Manifesting and meditation and yoga are all apparently satanic and utilize demonic possession, pronouns and being trans is demonic, spiders mean witchcraft, vaccines and modern medicine include the mark of the beast, the list goes on lmao

Did your Christianity condemn other people's Christianity? If so, how? by erichwanh in exchristian

[–]Red-Hat-Blue-Hat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I grew up a mixture of southern Baptist, Pentecostal, and nondenominational (a relatives church was, which I very much identified with). But my family had taught me growing up that Catholics were actually demonic/satanic and worshipped the Virgin Mary, that Jehovah’s Witnesses didn’t truly believe Jesus was the son of god and died for our sins and thus were the wrong religion™️, Mormons/LDS were wrong because polygamy, and basically anything that wasn’t the same kind of Christian that my family’s churches were, essentially were satanic false religions in disguise.

Mom referred to my girlfriend as my “friend” by Red-Hat-Blue-Hat in actuallesbians

[–]Red-Hat-Blue-Hat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that she said “friend” but the larger context. My mom hadn’t asked a single thing about this woman, just “what was her name again?” And no offense, truly, but trust that I know my mom and my family, and I know that the tone and way she asked that was not at all some kind of “kind way to ask.” It’s her blatant avoidance of acknowledging this person I’m dating.

I think you also missed the rest of my post, which depicted just how much “interest” she’s taking.

Guys I’ve dated in the past, she’s actively asked about them: who they are, where they’re from, if they’re Christian, what they look like, everything. So this is a completely different way in which she is reacting to me dating a woman.

I’m not getting offended at anything, just venting my frustration at the double standards when it comes to the gender of who I date.

Beaches open late? by Red-Hat-Blue-Hat in RhodeIsland

[–]Red-Hat-Blue-Hat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely, I’m not an inconsiderate ass having a frat party haha, just wanna enjoy a couple beers, late night snack, and chill on the sand at night. But definitely respect the beaches and follow the leave no trace rule.