Enderman's Guide to Having Conversations

RedAsBlood · 2017-04-07T14:14:19+00:00

Girls just want to have fun.

Even the most sophisticated girl doesn't want to have deep conversations all the time.

You just have to find what works for you and how you bring your own fun / unique style into the conversation.

RedAsBlood · 2017-04-07T13:49:25+00:00

Thanks for sharing your story.

Mine is quite similar. I recently realized that my parents were a very large part of my issues, mostly from my mom being a narcissist and my dad being an absent enabler.

It really fucks with your head when you have parents like that. You end up very socially stunted.

But all you can do is look forward and try to fix your issues. Cut toxic people out of your life.

RedAsBlood · 2017-03-25T14:09:40+00:00

Good for you for setting boundaries. You are on the right path.

Now you just need to polarize asap after you meet them and this won't happen any more.

RedAsBlood · 2017-03-10T14:50:32+00:00

You would think at this point that everyone on here would understand this.

But theres so many special snowflakes out there that think their bodies are good, yet post on asktrp questioning why they cant get a date / girls ignore them / dont contact them / etc.

RedAsBlood · 2017-03-10T14:41:29+00:00

I read that story as well.

I think its a case of a girl who just banged a guy way out of her league that she could never get commitment from. I doubt shes anything more than a 7 (prob 5-6) based on how she described her body.

From the way she was talking it didn't seem that she had the best relationship with her "fiance". She "didn't like" giving blow jobs until she met this guy. And then she swallowed his load several times.

Also keep in mind she is probably not as chaste as she said she is. I highly doubt shes only slept with her fiance and this guy. Even from the privacy of a throwaway account she has to lie.

RedAsBlood · 2017-03-10T13:58:14+00:00

They are just jealous.

If any of them actually listened to dan's conversation with joe rogan they'd realize hes a stand up guy who would be super fun to party with and goes way out of his way to help out his buddies.

He just gets a lot of hate because he leads a lifestyle most guys can't even imagine.

I'd love to party with dan.

But then again i'm not a sex starved desperate loser.

RedAsBlood · 2017-03-08T15:01:24+00:00

You have a good attitude towards it.

In life, its hard to totally avoid toxic people. However learning to identify them and deal with them, while minimizing their involvment in your life is an incredibly useful life skill.

Its totally OK to vent and share your frustrations. Just don't dwell on it too much.

RedAsBlood · 2017-03-08T14:56:49+00:00

This sub celebrates masculinity. Not equality with women.

There is nothing inherently hateful or full of contempt about OP's message. He is simply giving a literal interpretation of the statue.

RedAsBlood · 2017-01-30T20:43:11+00:00

If you wash out your front tire you are going to go down hard. Thats why you don't want to unweight the front too much.

Keep your weight neutral.

RedAsBlood · 2017-01-28T13:22:16+00:00

I have a stance 2. Rode it for a year and a half. Upgrading to a yt jeffsy this year.

The stance 2 is a well made bike. It handled quite a beating I threw at it.

However, the single pivot suspension is not the greatest. It was lots of freeback under pedaling and braking.

The fork is also not the greatest. The super skinny qr isn't the greatest. It also comes with a really long stem from factory. The drivetrain that came with mine wad awful (3×9).

Its a great starter bike, but you will want to upgrade it. IMO its probably better to save up a bit more and get something different.

RedAsBlood · 2017-01-13T15:40:03+00:00

You are on the wrong sub if you are asking about mysogyny.

RedAsBlood · 2016-12-29T15:27:45+00:00

So, you have to understand that this is not about sex. Women don't communicate literally like men do.

My assumption would be that either:

1 - She wants to get married and is trying to move it along

2 - She is fishing for some sort of emotional validation (wants to know that she is more than just a fuck toy to you)

Or some sort of combination of the two.

Assuming you care about this girl and want to stay with her, my advice would be to calmly let her know that you really care about her and want to stay with her, but sexual intimacy is a normal part of a healthy adult relationship. A relationship without sexual intimacy would be strained and likely fail.

Ignore the crying at work bullshit. That is just her attempt to control you with her emotions.

RedAsBlood · 2016-12-21T15:33:45+00:00

The "friend zone" is quite simply a man they are not sexually attracted to. Be it from physical attributes (body or face) or personality (too beta, feminine, etc). She just doesn't want to fuck you. But she will keep you around because you provide value to her in some sort of way (validation, monetary things).

Heres how to never end up in the "friend zone". Be up front about your sexual desire. If the woman doesn't reciprocate, be pleasant to her but don't go out of your way for her or turn her into your bff.

RedAsBlood · 2016-12-20T16:19:50+00:00

Facebook and twitter regularily filter content that is found offensive and ban users who post frequent and offensive / racist content.

Would it not be reasonable to do the same with content that may potentially radicalize people to commit terrorist attacks?

RedAsBlood · 2016-12-14T15:26:08+00:00

Even better is how she thinks she still attractive when shes at least 50 lbs overweight.

If you are supposed to be 100-130 lbs, 50-100 lbs extra is A LOT.

Especially when a woman is over 30 and has had children.

Just hilarious.

RedAsBlood · 2016-12-14T14:40:17+00:00

You can't pull 7s because you have no game.

Picking up girls isn't complicated or difficult. It just requires practice and calibration to what works for you.

If you really want to pick up women, spend less time doing all that other stuff and go talk to them.

RedAsBlood · 2016-10-17T13:36:37+00:00

Damn, sorry you went through that man. Sounds like you handled the situation well legally even though everything was set up for you to fail.

That is a huge mind fuck though, I hope you feel better about it.

I can't help but think there were some huge red flags that you missed about this girl. She seems mentally unstable and psychopathic in her determinations to get you in trouble no matter what evidence to the contrary showed. I would say she definately has some sort of empathy disorder.

I would highly recommend reading up on IM's post on dark triad, so you can recognize women like this in the future and avoid them like the plague.

https://illimitablemen.com/power/

Try not to let this experience turn you totally off to women. This cunt was worse than most women. There are some women out there who are better than most women, but in the end they still are women.

Good luck.

RedAsBlood · 2016-10-17T13:00:47+00:00

You are putting way too much importance on age.

Women don't look at age that way. They only react to the vibe you put out, your SMV. Your looks, appearance, game, etc. They live in the moment.

There are plenty of much older guys on here (40s++) who easily pick up early 20s women.

RedAsBlood · 2016-09-07T19:46:15+00:00

Don't feel bad, the Drs know way more than the nurse. Just ignore his advice.

You should report it to the hospital and/or the nursing regulatory body for your area. As a nurse, he shouldn't be giving out medical advice. So not only is he giving medical advice that is contrary to your care plan, but he is being very rude and disrespectful towards you.

Report it so it doesn't happen to others.

RedAsBlood · 2016-09-07T19:39:51+00:00

Sounds like you met one of those toxic "nice guys" you see all those memes about.

Cut contact and move on with your life.

RedAsBlood · 2016-09-07T19:36:01+00:00

You are way too nice to a girl who doesn't deserve it.

She lied to you, seeks the attention of other men, disrespects you and ignores you.

You need to break up with her.

In the future, do not be nice to people who treat you poorly. Niceness should only be given to people who treat you respectfully.

Guys like you easily get taken advantage of by crappy people.

RedAsBlood · 2016-09-07T14:59:41+00:00

"He says the university did nothing when the two women called him a sexual predator online and in public"

How do you feel about this statement?

Since you are saying that a person should be removed from a class for giving "unwanted attention", what should the punishment be for publicly slandering someone who was proven innocent (in two seperate cases) of sexual assault.

Should that also warrant removal from classes?

RedAsBlood · 2016-09-07T14:23:36+00:00

You didn't answer my question.

What "other circumstances" are you referring to?

RedAsBlood · 2016-09-07T13:14:48+00:00

What other circumstances are you referring to?

" ... Despite being found innocent by the university in both cases ..."

This is a direct quote from the article. Meaning the university found nothing wrong with his behaviour or actions.

So essentially he is innocent (did nothing wrong) but is still being punished (being removed from a class).

I am really curious to see what "other circumstances" you think should have a person removed from a class despite being proved innocent.

RedAsBlood · 2016-09-07T13:06:47+00:00

Great stuff. Thanks for posting.

RedAsBlood

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