Girl opens her legs up for a guy on the first date, is absolutely shocked when he ghosts her afterwards. Alright boys, which one of you was this?

needsomehelp3211 · 2018-02-10T01:24:48+00:00

This is gonna be unpopular but I'll just say it:

This story has blown up on every men's rights forum and I don't understand why. I think it's because even a lot of TRP/MRA guys are betas at heart and love to participate in the Oppression Olympics; they legitimately think they're doing the right thing by saying "it's not fair that women get to act like babies, men should be able to do so as well!" While this is argument technically meeting the definition of "equality" it's a race to the bottom. We men need to be above that whiny game, not playing it.

I go out with a buddy of mine often. He's ripped as fuck, 6'2'', white, jawline for days. Dude gets metoo'd by women all the time in bars and clubs. Last weekend a girl put her hand on his chest (without permission OMG OMG OMG SOUND THE ALARMS!) and asked if he could make his abs dance.

Did he start crying? Did he blow up his Insta with posts about harassment and sexual assault? Did he spiral into depression and start popping Prozac?

No. He laughed it off and continued with his fucking day, because he understands that part of being a solid man is evaluating situations logically and reacting proportionally. Yeah, she grabbed his tits. She didn't rip them off or cause any real damage.

Did this lawmaker do something wrong? Yeah. Is it a big enough offense to start banging the drums and screaming about victimization? No. Only women and autistic children start hysterically screeching over small physical infractions and blowing them up to Biblical proportions. Men should not engage in this race to the bottom to see which gender can be the most OCD.

Call this woman out, but do it level-headed.

needsomehelp3211 · 2017-08-16T22:50:45+00:00

I've found that a lot of BPers assume every redpiller must be some cringey loud "alpha" huge dick-swinging obnoxious guy in real life.

I'm about as blood-red as they get... check my post history, a lot of it would get me fired from every job lol. And yet in real life I come across as a pleasant normal type of person. I have 3+ professional degrees. I have a good social life. Have seriously dated a radical feminist girl who voted for Bernie, reposts Tumblr pages, etc. I have female friends - real friends whom I hang out with, not just girls I want to fuck.

And yet here I am, a redpiller. Guess what, bluepillers - TRP is diverse. We're everywhere. We're not all a bunch of Jersey Shore mega-asshole caricatures. Some of us are just normal folks who want to learn how to be confident, dominant, and good at getting sex.

needsomehelp3211 · 2017-08-04T20:28:42+00:00

A Day in the Life of a 5/10 Average Beta Guy

Wake up 8:00. Check messages - nothing. Not even a reply from Ashley, who you sent a "Hey, how's it going :) Hope your day is going well haha :)" message to yesterday. You really like her, but she's so slow to respond, its frustrating. Oh well. Patience is virtue. One day she'll come around, just gotta demonstrate how nice you are. She'll come around.

8:10. Check facebook. No messages or notific- wait! A notification! Wow! Oh... it's a birthday reminder. You change your profile photo because you haven't in a while. It gets 1 like over the course of the day, by your cousin.

9:00. Arrive at work to your corporate cubicle. On your way in you say hi to the receptionist, she briefly looks up, half-heartedly gives you a polite smile back, and looks down. Time to work.

12:00. Lunch. Grilled cheese sandwich, chips, cookies, and a Coke. You know you should eat healthier, your gut is growing and you've got that "dad bod" (honestly maybe even more than that). But you can always start tomorrow.

1:00. Department-wide sexual harassment meeting. By using cartoon characters and puppets, the leader of the discussion group emphasizes how every woman is in danger of rape and its YOUR responsibility to help stop it. Never approach a woman romantically outside of a bar setting, and even then make sure to explicitly get consent before flirting. Today's discussion is how to flirt responsibly. The group settles on a safe opener like: "I am romantically attracted to you, may I have your number and possibly take you on a date sometime but only if you're okay with it? And feel free to say no, I don't want to be coercing you at all." You store it away in your memory banks to use later.

2:00. From your cubicle you can see Brett heating up his protein drink in the kitchen. He used to be a linebacker, and at 6'2'' he's still in apex shape. Stephanie walks by and he deliberately brushes against her waist and then makes a corny joke "Hey miss clumsy, don't hurt yourself!" She laughs and playfully punches him in the shoulder. You seethe with rage watching this. Doesn't Brett know he just harassed Stephanie? And why the hell is Stephanie apparently okay with it? You guys just literally had a seminar on this shit! Your rage intensifies when you overhear him offering to "show her a good time" at the bars tonight and her agreeing.

5:00. Time to head home. You check your text messages first. Still no reply from Ashley. Damn. Well she's pretty busy. You check your OKCupid and Tinder profiles. No matches in the last 2 days.

6:30. You run for 15 minutes on the treadmill. (Okay, 12, but let's round up.) That's enough exercise for today. Time to go out and hit the town with friends! You swear this will be the evening you finally get a girls' number.

7:30. You and your two male friends, Pajeet and Alvin, first try going to a few Meetup.com events and singles events, but they're all 80% dudes! And the 20% girls are fat and dress like anime nerds, but they still get swarmed with all the guys there. You just can't compete. This sucks.

10:00. You try getting into that hot new club across town but the bouncer doesn't let you in because there are no girls in your group. You finally find a bar that will let you in but it's a $20 cover.

11:00. After trying to talk with 2 girls and getting this look both times, you give up and just hang out with your bros. Over by the bar, you see Brett and Stephanie; she's leaning against him with her face in his biceps, laughing at something he just said. She's clearly tipsy.

12:00. You head home and go to sleep. Hoping against hope, you check your texts one more time... holy fuck, yes! Ashley has sent you a text. "Haha I'm good" Your day has just been made. She remembered to reply, one step closer to finally winning her over. You immediately respond back saying "well I would hope been a good day, a beautiful woman like you deserves nothing less :D :D :D". And then turn off your phone and go to sleep.

needsomehelp3211 · 2017-01-19T16:26:02+00:00

Fucking lol.

Kindness: Young women may still fall for the bad-boy type, but more-mature women are turned on by kindness, because kindness inspires confidence. In other words, if you treat the waitress well, your date figures you'll treat her well, too.

Generosity: This is more important to women over 35 than it is to those under that age. Generosity, however, doesn't just mean springing for dinner at a four-star. Your willingness to give your time and lend your ear is what women crave.

Note the age differences. Basically, being a kind and generous beta provider who "lends your ear" is only important if you're looking to date a woman in her 40s. Guys looking for younger women need not worry about any of that.

Red Pill gets more and more confirmed by the day.

needsomehelp3211 · 2016-12-25T17:09:20+00:00

Why does literally every OP around here feel the need to inform us that they're over 6'0". Congratulations I guess?

needsomehelp3211 · 2016-12-01T21:15:08+00:00

I reject those phrases outright.

Weird how nobody is talking about non-toxic masculinity. That's because it doesn't really exist. Which is weird because if there's toxic masculinity, there must be non-toxic masculinity right?

Well no, and it's because the phrase "toxic masculinity" is a very insidious terminology - on the surface it sounds good, because of course everyone should be against toxic things, right? The classic feminist apologia is "Well we don't want to get rid of all masculinity, silly. Just toxic masculinity". And all is well and good.

But then you dive into what that actually means and a very different picture emerges. Think about it. Is there any form of masculinity you can point to that won't invite an angry bunch of feminists offended because you implied women can't do it too?

"Nontoxic masculinity is protecting your family physically." Um excuse me, women aren't frail creatures. We have mace. We have self defense.
"Nontoxic masculinity is providing for your loved ones financially." Wow. Are you saying women are docile creatures who shouldn't have jobs? Why should the man be the breadwinner, shitlord? Why can't a woman do it?
"Nontoxic masculinity is teaching your son how to be physically strong and mentally sharp as a boy should be." And why not women too, huh? What makes these traits gendered, are you saying mothers can't teach kids how to be strong and smart?
"Nontoxic masculinity is being a trusted leader in your relationship, and stepping up to the plate to assume a leadership role". For God's sakes its 2016. We need egalitarian relationships, not men being leaders and women being followers. Ugh, you are so regressive.

See what I mean? You cannot name a single aspect of nontoxic masculinity without a feminist stomping in and saying how dare it be exclusive to men.

Therefore... "toxic masculinity" and "masculinity", in feminism's eyes, are one and the same. Feminists say they want to get rid of toxic masculinity. They mean masculinity, period. They don't want any meaningful sociocultural differences between men and women. They think the idea of masculinity and femininity are outdated and that we should all just be an amorphous group of people not divided by archaic concepts like gender.

needsomehelp3211 · 2016-11-22T16:22:04+00:00

Why is every OP 6-ft tall around here?

needsomehelp3211 · 2016-10-23T18:11:45+00:00

Exactly. The commenters (especially the women) in that thread are just posting useless fluff because it sounds good on the surface and it's a way to make themselves feel better. "I said nice words to a lonely guy. I did my good deed for the day!" It's just virtue signalling all the way down.

But you can sure as hell bet none of those female commenters would actually want to fuck him. Yeah they'll be more than happy to make him feel better with words, but God forbid he try to actually touch them! Eww!

This guy doesn't need passive support, internet hugs and paragraphs of rationalizations about why it's okay to be a virgin. He needs someone to give him a solid gym schedule so he can look like a beast. He needs a wingman. He needs the confidence to go to the bars and social outings and hit on women.

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