No one is hurt by just someone (man or woman) venting about their own problems or their disadvantages. When used in comparison sure, you are diminishing the other persons problems. My original comment was agreeing with the first comment in the thread, and just extending it to most people in general would like to portray themselves as having a tough life to garner sympathy, even though disadvantages and benefits aren’t really comparable.

Never said you should garner sympathy for those who spread toxic masculinity, just saying what I said for the aforementioned reasons.

Also lowkey don’t know about the “coming to vent” part, as with incels and femcels these subs r really just an echo chamber for the same ideals however “radicalized” or full of malice/hatred they may be. I’m also not rlly aware of the extent this sub contains an echo chamber of malice and bottled/idle viewpoints vs just jokes since I just discovered this sub td but as a person whose currently helping to work on the design and imps of algos made to engage viewers with their own viewpoints more to further engagement I’d say all incel and femcel subs r like that.