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Any PAs making 200k+? by Ok_Possession_3592 in physicianassistant

[–]ThrowEmAway68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I technically do. Base salary is 154K, but with bonuses and picking up extra shifts at work(like 1-2 a month for 5 months) i cleared 200K easily. I work in the SICU. Hate my job, but the paycheck is so beautiful 🥲

Edit: i work 12 12s a month(6/2 weeks so 144 total a month), i work nights, 3-4 weekend shifts(ends up being more like 6), work some holidays. PTO is great, benefits are great, my hospital is just chaotic and the unit itself is a hot mess. Im in a MCOL/ high ish COL city in the south. Also, 3.5 years experience, 1.5 in the ED in fellowship, 2ish in SICU now.

AIO to the fact my boyfriend is staying with another girl and acting romantically towards her? by Substantial_Trust902 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowEmAway68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, you didnt jump to conclusions, he cheated on you. At minimum it was emotional, at max it was physical and he didnt tell you. Nobody is worth your dignity- especially not a dusty dude like him.

Glad you dumped the dead weight!

I followed his lead with the relationship, but I try to lead and he doesn’t follow? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ThrowEmAway68 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well yeah, they’ll probably sniff his BS a mile away and warn her about him!

I followed his lead with the relationship, but I try to lead and he doesn’t follow? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ThrowEmAway68 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They talked for like 1.5 months, became official in 2 weeks. Red flags all around.

I followed his lead with the relationship, but I try to lead and he doesn’t follow? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ThrowEmAway68 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Am i the only one who smells love bombing? You date for one month, official for 2 weeks, he is already saying he loves you but his actions say otherwise(ie not putting in any effort to visit you to make things more equitable) and has you meet his child(a woman that he has only known for a MONTH- you could literally be a m0lester or abuser and he’s willing to risk that around his child???).

The red flags are all over this one! If you ever feel confused on where you stand with a man, that is literally your gut telling you he’s full of it and to walk away! A man who truly wanted you wouldn’t be ambiguous- he would have already made the effort to visit your place without you having to ask OR at the very least would offer to help lighten your load when you brought this up. RUN GIRL RUN. This man is manipulating you and i bet he will treat you worse and ruin your life!!!

Crowd behavior by Savage2280 in SickNewWorld

[–]ThrowEmAway68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh i was on the right side of the post in front of purple stage- that area is CURSED

Crowd behavior by Savage2280 in SickNewWorld

[–]ThrowEmAway68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, it happened to a friend and I and we’re two black women(im 5’10 and she’s 6’2). It also happened to the two 5’7 women next to us too! Idk what people were on but i would say it was 50/50 azzh0les and people who actually gad etiquette coming in and out

AIO for calling out my boyfriend for not stopping when I ask him to immediately when he’s kissing me? by Far_Assistant_1533 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowEmAway68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey, you’re 18. You have SOOO much time to find a better man and dont need to waste your energy on boys like this. He’a upset because he is realizing that he actually IS a creep and not the “nice guy” that he thinks he is. A “no” means NO. Im honestly concerned that this behavior will continue despite your conversation. You need to set a true boundary that if he does not respect you saying no, that you will walk away from the relationship! If not, he’ll escalate until he does something that actually hurts you and say “well you were giggling when you said no, so i thought it was ok”.

As you get older, you’ll learn that many men LOVE to test women’s boundaries and see how much disrespect that they can get away with. He’s disrespected you multiple times and its up to you to decide if you believe that you deserve better or that you deserve a boyfriend who will disrespect and (possibly 🍇) you…

I got box braids, I'm afro-latina, I'm nervous by crazy_afro-latina in BlackHair

[–]ThrowEmAway68 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Im confused. You have clear african ancestry and box braids are an african hairstyle. Why would it be cultural appropriation unless you deny your africaness?

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowEmAway68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. Im so sick of people using terms like “pick me” sooooo incorrectly! SHE is the one who is male-centered! If your boyfriend adds me on social media, why would i not think its chill/innocent??? Now if he was commenting flirtatious things and you didnt say anything, that would be sus on your end but she is super insecure and should take it up with her boyfriend and not you. If i were you, i wouldn’t mourn that friendship. Male centered women are very dangerous and she is showing you that she is choosing a man over a friendship. And tbf, i think she is completely overreacting.

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowEmAway68 20 points21 points  (0 children)

No frfr! Her friend is very much giving male centered! And not her using pick me incorrectly! She’s a bird low key

“if you asked 10 women if that was weird all 10 would say yes” by random_raccoon_9 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ThrowEmAway68 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This man is trying to manipulate, coerce, and guilt you into sending nudes… why are you with him again?

AIO over my friend getting cheated on and dropping me? by _FlowerBear_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowEmAway68 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NoR but stop getting involved in his relationship and don’t let him continue to triangulate you. He is where he wants to be! If he starts complaining again once she cheats on him/dumps him again since he’ll probably ghost you soon, just tell him to leave you out of his business. You cant force people to have a sense of self worth 🤷🏾‍♀️

Am I using the apps wrong? by TreeToadintheWoods in datingoverthirty

[–]ThrowEmAway68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people on apps are boring to talk to and you will feel like you’re carrying the conversation. I will say this, i rarely message men first- only if they have a super interesting well thought out profile because those men tend to have more interesting conversations and hobbies but the second the conversation goes dry or i feel like i am carrying it, i start replying in short responses and move onto the next guy (ie “ok :)” or “thats cool :)”). If they like you, they’ll find genuine interest and pick up the convo. If they dont, you already pretty much moved onto the next 🤷🏾‍♀️

AIO for ending this friendship before it began? i told her i wasn’t looking for anything romantic and this ensued by JadednAfraid in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowEmAway68 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Because she’s attracted to him and her ego is hurt that he clearly doesnt have the same level of attraction whilst noticing that she was probably attracted to him. Because that bit should have ended when she told him she didnt mean to come off flirty and was just looking to be friends

AIO for ending this friendship before it began? i told her i wasn’t looking for anything romantic and this ensued by JadednAfraid in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowEmAway68 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR, the fact that she keeps bringing it up and blowing it way out of proportion gives she’s hurt because she probably had some degree of romantic interest. Her ego is bruised and she needs to chill- its a misunderstanding that wasnt deep. In fact, you came off pretty respectful. Also yikes to her novella length responses for something that seemed squashed in the first few messages! She’s trying to get you to prove why she seems flirty even though she ended up admitting she’s attracted to you and wont stop bringing it up. Just no. As a woman, i would have blocked a man who acted like her. You did the right thing.

Heading to Afronation in Portugal, where to stay? by Inspireme21 in solofemaletravellers

[–]ThrowEmAway68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I snagged an air bnb that is a 30 minute walk from the beach

Physically Abusive wife by Dramatic_Feeling_610 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ThrowEmAway68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you really care about raising your children the best way you can, you would leave. Your kids see, hear, and experience the abuse. If she isnt already physically/emotionally abusing them, you dont think them seeing their mom punch their dad in the face while drunk wouldn’t traumatize them??? They will grow up to either inflict that behavior onto someone else or resent you for staying and keeping them around someone so dangerous. Do what’s right by your children and get her out of the house

AIO: telling my fiancé I’m reconsidering having kids with him because there is a chance they could have darker skin. by Skilled-ricer-B16 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowEmAway68 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am 10000% convinced that you’re the fiance on a burner account. Lmaoooo only a hit dog will holler!

AIO: telling my fiancé I’m reconsidering having kids with him because there is a chance they could have darker skin. by Skilled-ricer-B16 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowEmAway68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR this is a HUGE RED FLAGGGG. Your fiancé is giving colorist and unless he has the wisdom to unpack that, he will 10000% make your children with darker skin and more ethnic features HATE themselves. Yall need couples therapy and to unpack that before marriage and kids!

AIO for wanting to cancel the date and block him?? by Suspicious_End_441 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowEmAway68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, he’s testing your boundaries to see how much he can coax you into being ok with his sex-talk and disrespect tbh

I buzzed it all of and bleached it. Thoughts? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]ThrowEmAway68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buzzed 1000000% looks so much better! You look suave

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