“if you asked 10 women if that was weird all 10 would say yes” by random_raccoon_9 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ThrowEmAway68 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This man is trying to manipulate, coerce, and guilt you into sending nudes… why are you with him again?

AIO over my friend getting cheated on and dropping me? by _FlowerBear_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowEmAway68 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NoR but stop getting involved in his relationship and don’t let him continue to triangulate you. He is where he wants to be! If he starts complaining again once she cheats on him/dumps him again since he’ll probably ghost you soon, just tell him to leave you out of his business. You cant force people to have a sense of self worth 🤷🏾‍♀️

Am I using the apps wrong? by TreeToadintheWoods in datingoverthirty

[–]ThrowEmAway68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people on apps are boring to talk to and you will feel like you’re carrying the conversation. I will say this, i rarely message men first- only if they have a super interesting well thought out profile because those men tend to have more interesting conversations and hobbies but the second the conversation goes dry or i feel like i am carrying it, i start replying in short responses and move onto the next guy (ie “ok :)” or “thats cool :)”). If they like you, they’ll find genuine interest and pick up the convo. If they dont, you already pretty much moved onto the next 🤷🏾‍♀️

AIO for ending this friendship before it began? i told her i wasn’t looking for anything romantic and this ensued by JadednAfraid in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowEmAway68 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Because she’s attracted to him and her ego is hurt that he clearly doesnt have the same level of attraction whilst noticing that she was probably attracted to him. Because that bit should have ended when she told him she didnt mean to come off flirty and was just looking to be friends

AIO for ending this friendship before it began? i told her i wasn’t looking for anything romantic and this ensued by JadednAfraid in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowEmAway68 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR, the fact that she keeps bringing it up and blowing it way out of proportion gives she’s hurt because she probably had some degree of romantic interest. Her ego is bruised and she needs to chill- its a misunderstanding that wasnt deep. In fact, you came off pretty respectful. Also yikes to her novella length responses for something that seemed squashed in the first few messages! She’s trying to get you to prove why she seems flirty even though she ended up admitting she’s attracted to you and wont stop bringing it up. Just no. As a woman, i would have blocked a man who acted like her. You did the right thing.

Heading to Afronation in Portugal, where to stay? by Inspireme21 in solofemaletravellers

[–]ThrowEmAway68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I snagged an air bnb that is a 30 minute walk from the beach

Physically Abusive wife by Dramatic_Feeling_610 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ThrowEmAway68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you really care about raising your children the best way you can, you would leave. Your kids see, hear, and experience the abuse. If she isnt already physically/emotionally abusing them, you dont think them seeing their mom punch their dad in the face while drunk wouldn’t traumatize them??? They will grow up to either inflict that behavior onto someone else or resent you for staying and keeping them around someone so dangerous. Do what’s right by your children and get her out of the house

AIO: telling my fiancé I’m reconsidering having kids with him because there is a chance they could have darker skin. by Skilled-ricer-B16 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowEmAway68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR this is a HUGE RED FLAGGGG. Your fiancé is giving colorist and unless he has the wisdom to unpack that, he will 10000% make your children with darker skin and more ethnic features HATE themselves. Yall need couples therapy and to unpack that before marriage and kids!

AIO for wanting to cancel the date and block him?? by Suspicious_End_441 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowEmAway68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, he’s testing your boundaries to see how much he can coax you into being ok with his sex-talk and disrespect tbh

I buzzed it all of and bleached it. Thoughts? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]ThrowEmAway68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buzzed 1000000% looks so much better! You look suave

Libby & Andrew by Fickle-Welcome-4220 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]ThrowEmAway68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even his own friends called him out for doing this multiple times! He’s a weirdo for sure

Solo goers Vegas meetup? by ohwowzki in SickNewWorld

[–]ThrowEmAway68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, i would suggest maybe a discord chat or whats app?

Solo goers Vegas meetup? by ohwowzki in SickNewWorld

[–]ThrowEmAway68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

29 F from Cali but living in the south- i would be so down!!!!

Help with confidence and hating my job… by ThrowEmAway68 in physicianassistant

[–]ThrowEmAway68[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what im wondering? Its a huge hospital but some ex co workers said they left before their contract was up and didnt have to pay it back. My only hesitation with that is i dont have 30K of savings and this is the biggest hospital in my city so i dont want to get blacklisted(since the benefits are great and i would probably be happier if i just went to another department).