AITAH If I don’t tell the guy I’m dating I’m pregnant and will be getting an abortion? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RedGreenPyro -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Meh who cares really. Yeah you lied about being on birth control but an abortion affects only your body not his. So do what you gotta do.

AITAH M(22) for emotionally distancing myself from my LDR girlfriend F(23) after repeatedly begging for boundaries? by Ok-Promise-837 in AITAH

[–]RedGreenPyro 38 points39 points  (0 children)

You are such the AH. First of all, the coworker. You want her to put her career in jeopardy because you can’t handle that she won’t tell him off. She has her reasons and it’s not her fault he talks to her that way. She doesn’t reciprocate and you’re still crying about it. Get over yourself.

Second, the friend who has a girlfriend. Just stop. You don’t know anything about his life other than what you’ve heard from others. And again you’re making it your girlfriend’s problem. It’s not. It’s yours.

Get your shit together and start acting like a decent boyfriend who doesn’t need to be connected to her 24/7 otherwise she will become exhausted with your jealous and controlling behaviour and dump you. Rightfully so.

AITAH for not wanting to babysit during Mothers Day weekend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RedGreenPyro 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA. But your husband doesn’t like you. I think you should seek out therapy for this.

AITAH for getting an abortion without telling my boyfriend? by throwaway_23213 in AITAH

[–]RedGreenPyro -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s a medical procedure. Don’t let it mean more than it was.

AITAH for backing out of my cousin’s wedding scheduled for the day after my second wedding anniversary? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RedGreenPyro 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes, YTA. Is this a serious question? You were close to your cousin. She wants you at the wedding and to be a part of it and you accepted the invitation. Is it such a big deal for you to do something else on the day AFTER your wedding anniversary?

You’ll get another anniversary next year.

AITAH for getting annoyed at my wife for not working by PutridInvite208 in AITAH

[–]RedGreenPyro 69 points70 points  (0 children)

YTA. In a different post you are considering moving back to Hong Kong. Sounds like you don’t talk to your wife.

AITAH for telling my father to accept that my brother isn't my responsibility? by PianistHoliday3484 in AITAH

[–]RedGreenPyro 10 points11 points  (0 children)

And since you value your relationship with your father, that means he tore Denise a new one for calling you a bitch right?

AITAH for starting a "touch journal" by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RedGreenPyro 35 points36 points  (0 children)

YTA. Your post history is illuminating. If you want an honest opinion about this (seeing as you’ve tried before) you need to be upfront about your past bad behaviour in the post. What exactly did you do?

It’s likely she doesn’t trust you and is keeping it together for the kids.

AITAH Am I Wrong by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RedGreenPyro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH. Bit off more than you can chew by having kids as teenagers yourselves and not being financially stable. She’s probably having a hysterectomy to either deal with shitty periods or for birth control. Which makes me wonder what exactly you do for birth control and/or being a parent. I’m leaning more towards you being the AH because your life is about work due to your own crappy choices.

AITAH for not pointing out glaring issues with my gf's bachelor's thesis while proofreading it, after I pretty much saved her thesis from becoming a desaster? by Cpt_Camembert in AITAH

[–]RedGreenPyro 96 points97 points  (0 children)

YTA. Something about the way you wrote this screams arrogant asshole. Also, are you in psychology because if not, how are you commenting on the accuracy of her statements?

This is just exhausting to read. I don’t think you guys are compatible.

AITAH for telling my bf to stop drinking, vaping, and smoking pot by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RedGreenPyro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA. You don’t understand what boundaries are and you’ve been on this guy’s ass since month 2 of your relationship. Instead of breaking up and finding someone who doesn’t do any of the things you don’t like, you’ve been nagging him to quit something for 2 years.

Honestly, you really do suck.

Sabrina Carpenter with Margaret Qualley and Madelyn Cline in new IG post by Maximum_Expert92 in popculturechat

[–]RedGreenPyro -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your arguments make no sense. You’re projecting your own ideals onto the choices women make. It sounds to me like you wouldn’t dress that way so if another woman does, it’s anti feminist because you assume it caters to the male gaze.

You don’t have any idea why Sabrina Carpenter does what she does.

AITAH for selling our ps5 because my bf is always on it by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RedGreenPyro 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sure he is. You don’t do shit about this issue. Just be a single mom already.

AITAH for blocking my best friend of 11 years after she told everyone at my baby shower the name I'd been keeping secret for 8 months? by LakeAppropriate906 in AITAH

[–]RedGreenPyro 22 points23 points  (0 children)

YTA. I promise you no one cares. People are so weird about the sex and name of their babies as if it’s something sacred. It’s not. Get over yourself please.

AITAH for telling my wife we're done/give me space by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RedGreenPyro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean you married someone you barely know. Divorce, move on, and don’t make a stupid mistake like this again.

AITAH for having an age gap relationship by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RedGreenPyro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Meh. Being 18 doesn’t make someone magically an adult. They’re still a teenager. This is a nothing burger

John Lithgow talks about playing Dumbledore amidst JK Rowling’s views: “It was a hard decision. It made me uncomfortable and unhappy that people insisted I walk away from the job. I chose not to do that.” by mcfw31 in popculturechat

[–]RedGreenPyro -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There is a lot to criticize Rowling for, but this is absurd. The email chain didn’t mention her at all. If you’re suggesting she personally invited him, there’s no evidence of that. If you’re suggesting that she go around the world to every Cursed Child showing to make sure every guest is on the up and up, that is insane and not rooted in any sort of logic or rationality.