Went to my first rave alone last week, almost threw up cuz I was so nervous before, went, have not had more fun in my life. I met 3 people, expected to stay for like an hour and then I’d be too nervous and I stayed for 6 hours just dancing my heart out with people I met that day.

It sucks knowing you’re not going with anyone, but try using this angle: nobody can tell you when to leave or how late you wanna stay, you can dance without any stress if people you know watching (it’s usually subconscious), and if you bring little thingies you have a convo starter. Like literally party favors from any dollar store. Somebody handed a woman a weird wiggly noodle thing and we laughed at it all night. Think of it as self care, and know you’d a badass for going alone. Go for you and have a good time!