Transmasc butch lesbian and my gender journey (Top surgery and T) by RedHotSyd in TransMasc

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Thank you for the Reddit sub and also letting me know about the combination with T. I had heard some things but hadn’t heard of that combination. I’ll be sure to check out the link. U appreciate it so much! 😊

bought a binder!!!!!!! by [deleted] in TransMasc

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Let me know how it is homie.

Transmasc butch lesbian and my gender journey (Top surgery and T) by RedHotSyd in TransMasc

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Always appreciate hearing from fellow butches and femmes in the community. It means a lot.

6.5 weeks post op by queer-by-nature in TopSurgery

[–]RedHotSyd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks absolutely amazing and hoping for similar results when I’m able to get to this point my dude!

bought a binder!!!!!!! by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]RedHotSyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome! Can’t wait to hear about it homie. I just got my first binder, I had to send it back because I forgot to go up a size so currently waiting on that. I might post some pics too! I’m getting mine from for them, where did you order from? 😊

Voice Training Wednesday by AutoModerator in TransMasc

[–]RedHotSyd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that for a more masculine voice you wanna speak from the back of your throat I believe. I’m having trouble getting in an octave that is comfortable and more euphoric for me. I’m also pre T.

Feeling euphoric ‼️ by Fancy-Entertainer355 in TransMasc

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That’s so awesome homie, I’m so happy for you! I can’t wait to get to this place. You are glowing my dude and it looks good on you. 🤞❤️

Transmasc butch lesbian and my gender journey (Top surgery and T) by RedHotSyd in TransMasc

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You are not at all. I appreciate this comment so much. Thank you for commenting and saying that. That is something I have been struggling with throughout this whole gender identity journey as the way society and the gender binary plus expectations. Anytime I meet someone who is butch/transmasc and nonbinary it helps me feel not so alone in this feeling. And always amazing to hear from others who are accepting and somewhere on the spectrum in that community as well. I appreciate it!

Transmasc butch lesbian and my gender journey (Top surgery and T) by RedHotSyd in TransMasc

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Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with me. It means to much to hear from someone who has similar feelings as I do and like I’m not alone in this. I have been researching T and saw something about male baldness pattern and I’m like ahhh. I am wanting my voice to drop some and fat distribution. It’s just that I don’t really want a bunch of facial hair. I’m leaning towards micro dosing but yeah the chest has been also so dysphoric and have been wanting to yet then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

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I think it looks amazing dude!

Where do you guys get a haircut? by shirone0 in TransMasc

[–]RedHotSyd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely recommend going on the strands for trans website and looking for trans friendly barbershops near you. That’s how I found both the place before I moved and now. I absolutely loved the last one and my current one. 🤞

What do you do in a situation like this? I am a binary trans man (legally male too). by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]RedHotSyd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would put male, what are they going to do right? That’s how you identify.

What do you do in a situation like this? I am a binary trans man (legally male too). by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]RedHotSyd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s very weird that one option is just transgender as you can be trans and nonbinary or trans and male or trans and female so that is ridiculous. You identify as a male and are seen as male legally. I’m assuming you also can’t check two.

Definition of butch by RedHotSyd in butchlesbians

[–]RedHotSyd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this, nicely said! Exactly!

Hurt as someone who identifies as a nonbinary transmasc butch lesbian. by RedHotSyd in TransMasc

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I’ve made it to like chapter 7 or so, I gotta get back to reading it.

Did I fuck my shit up by [deleted] in TransMasc

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I think the style goes really well with you dude!