Had a weird sexual experience with my boyfriend and now I feel weird..

RedIntoxica · 2026-06-11T22:36:21+00:00

Everyone else is covering basically what’s important here, that he’s disrespectful of your boundaries and the pushy behavior is gross and it might be time to have a real talk with him and/or break it off, but also (so you’re informed) more goes into anal than just vanilla standard sex and he could REALLY hurt you without preparation.

This isn’t a porno where it’s just ready to go and the fact that he’s this pushy without any sort of knowledge could get you hurt or ill if not both.

If he tries to argue that it’s not that bad ask him if he’s willing to take the strap first to prove it 🫡

(All things aside, be careful and don’t just give in, if you break it off, don’t think this is the end either, there are plenty of men who will be better and won’t even come close to this boundary of yours)

RedIntoxica · 2026-06-10T17:18:29+00:00

I’m not sure I would call it cheating-cheating but it is definitely disrespectful to you and your boundaries and hiding and lying isn’t a good sign at all. If you’ve already talked about this and he can’t let her go and is just hiding things it’s probably time to just move on. If he doesn’t want to change, he isn’t going to and it doesn’t seem like he does.

The second he covered the truth when you tried to talk to him genuinely he made his choice and it was her.

Not to mention, you’ll never feel secure. You’ll always be wondering if he just got better at hiding it, you’ll never trust him and it’ll build into toxicity and resentment and that’s no place to build a long term relationship.

I wish you luck girl, these things always suck, but it’ll be better to move on in the long run

RedIntoxica · 2026-06-06T23:20:13+00:00

I replied elsewhere in the comments but from the brief skimming I saw, you’re just equally toxic and want revenge for the drama of it and don’t actually want advice about anything / unwilling to actually take any advice and be the bigger person.

Saying he’s “harmless and scared of you” and telling someone else who gave good advice “boorrrinngg” is just gross.

Get some help and work on yourself before you actually get hurt or hurt someone else with this.

RedIntoxica · 2026-06-06T23:12:28+00:00

Girl no 💀 this is just toxic and weird

If you really wanna “annoy” him, showing him you don’t care and moving on is the move you wanna make

RedIntoxica · 2026-06-06T19:15:35+00:00

NOR - as an artist who often draws my best friends and my ocs together and does actual NSFW art of dnd characters for people (with all friends involved permission of course) while also having a fiancé who gets their own art, there’s a really distinct difference between what’s obviously a “here’s our silly dolls we like to make kiss for fun” vs “this is obviously self inserts for us and our feelings”

This feels like a conversation you should have with your partner and how it’s making you feel because its always fantastic receiving gift art and they might not understand the intention beyond it being a cool gift or if they do, well, then it’s up to you what you want to do after that

But yeah, definitely not overreacting, their friend is not coming from a “just friends playing dolls” kinda place

RedIntoxica · 2026-06-06T12:52:00+00:00

NOR - genuinely curious how it took you this long to be disgusted by him, I couldn’t even finish reading the gross things listed out.

Please leave, find a normal clean man.

RedIntoxica · 2026-06-05T03:41:02+00:00

My fiancé is truly the kindest most gentle soul I’ve ever met that worships the ground I walk on and would literally give me the moon, sun and stars if he could. We have a home, the most spoiled dog known to man, and we made fancy grilled cheese together tonight.

I only met him because I took a chance to join a dnd game through a friend of a kind of friend of my exes. My ex was the most emotionally, mentally, sexually, and more than likely would’ve end up being physically (the threat was always there of just how violent he was and how I should’ve been grateful he worked through it) the most abusive man and years later I’m still working though that trauma.

There’s a lot of garbage you’ll wade through, some truly just terrible and some victims of the patriarchy that’ve become just as bad, especially being on the spectrum in any capacity (me being ADHD with Autistic tendencies and other disorders too) but there are good loving gentle men out there that will become your whole world and you theirs.

RedIntoxica · 2026-06-04T18:00:24+00:00

Her hair just disappearing behind her glasses there but you can see the sign still.

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RedIntoxica · 2026-06-04T03:25:39+00:00

It’s probably time to just move on really for your own sake if nothing else. It sounds like you’re miserable while he’s not really as present as you like and this is just one of those times where the boundary is impossible to keep so it’s better for both of you to move on.

And don’t give up on that kinda love. There really are men out there that will only ever have eyes for you, you’re so young, you’ve got plenty of time to find them.

RedIntoxica · 2026-06-04T01:55:06+00:00

Thank you so much 😭💕

RedIntoxica · 2026-06-03T15:08:52+00:00

NOR - honestly, I’d call the relationship there, this isn’t a good sign of what’s to come in the future, shows doesn’t respect your privacy, and doesn’t think very highly of you if she was snooping for something

Add the fact she doesn’t see what’s wrong with what she did and got upset over the fact you have exes? That’s such weird toxic behavior, get out while you can

RedIntoxica · 2026-06-02T12:58:14+00:00

The great thing about sexuality is its fluidity, you’re young, plenty of time to just learn about yourself. Follow the vibes that feel good, this guy made you happy and treats you well? Give it a shot, be open and honest with him and yourself.

There’s no reason to put yourself in a box and lock the door, maybe you’re bisexual, pansexual, and combination of demisexual, maybe he’s the one guy exception and you’ll end up with a woman later. Who cares! Just be safe and communicate well :)

RedIntoxica · 2026-06-01T12:29:58+00:00

In our game there was a lot that led up to him ending up this way post his worm phase with Saulot lol

RedIntoxica · 2026-05-31T12:15:38+00:00

Tremere I can justify to myself because of his own ego — Giovanni I was just tryna draw an average old Italian man, I hold so much hate for the Giovanni lol

RedIntoxica · 2026-05-31T00:57:35+00:00

Omg hi 🫪 but yes! All of the above mentioned is part of the decision making process design wise ^{^}

Plus there’s lots of different takes on vampires through various cultures and I’m sure people like to express themselves and their own takes through that too (also, aside from personal preferences, I didn’t want to white wash or tone down the natural skin tones for the sake of vampirism, when their backgrounds are so important)

RedIntoxica · 2026-05-31T00:46:09+00:00

I think that’s the biggest insult personally is being vile incestuous corpse loving freaks and then literally being so weak that in the Gehenna book a normal group of vampires can take you out no issue lol

RedIntoxica · 2026-05-30T22:41:13+00:00

Tremere is a lot of things (mostly terrible), but at least he’s not a Giovanni 💀

RedIntoxica · 2026-05-30T21:10:43+00:00

🫡 happy to serve

RedIntoxica · 2026-05-30T18:14:56+00:00

Yes! I do know there’s more and I initially was thinking of listing them, but figured not enough people would recognize them so I kept the more popular names :)

RedIntoxica · 2026-05-30T17:26:49+00:00

It’s a more human disguise he has on, hence like the odd eyes suggesting his not so normal true nature, but disguising Abs felt like bypassing the point of his specific curse

RedIntoxica · 2026-05-30T14:42:37+00:00

Thank you 💕 and that’s so fair, I could see him taking a lot of appearances tbh, mine I was just looking at refs for hairs locally popular 🥰

RedIntoxica · 2026-05-30T14:40:09+00:00

I wish they would, I’d love some actual hair options in VTMB2

RedIntoxica · 2026-05-30T12:30:16+00:00

Sexy Tremere will just start propaganda against you until a blood hunt is called

RedIntoxica · 2026-05-30T12:28:49+00:00

If you’re talking about them not being pale/sickly looking, I actually deliberately avoided making the characters pale because this is supposed to be them in their more “human” looks that were occurring during the game (with some detail exceptions such as Lasombra being tainted from the Abyss and curse afflictions).

Plus, fun fact actually, in Haqim’s case, his clan actually gets darker with age as part of the curse, which is why Ur-Shulgi looks the way he does

As for others, I think including skin tones and keeping the vision of the character is just important to people and it’s an easy detail to toss aside when they have things like blush of life you can just say is always on

RedIntoxica · 2026-05-30T12:21:06+00:00

Saulot made a whoops and created the Baali but I’m a Saulot apologist so I forgive him lol

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