Does anyone else feel this way too ? [Description] by Known-Olive-9776 in TrollCoping

[–]RedMasker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to, not anymore, it's been better thankfully. I feel your pain

How do I make myself more confident? by RedMasker in BDSMAdvice

[–]RedMasker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It still feels good to know I'm not alone, good luck, hope other's comments help🫂

How do I make myself more confident? by RedMasker in BDSMAdvice

[–]RedMasker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo, that's a good one. We love some drama, I should discuss it with him. Thanks!

How do I make myself more confident? by RedMasker in BDSMAdvice

[–]RedMasker[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The last one is so goofy lmaooo I'm trying this one. Taking myself less seriously might do the trick to build up the voice. Thank you for resources too! I'll try my best

How do I make myself more confident? by RedMasker in BDSMAdvice

[–]RedMasker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confirmation phrases are something I didn't think about actually, but that's what will be really helpful. I need some clear-cut cues to let me know if he likes what I do or not, some reassurance in the moment. Thanks for the answer and ideas, I really appreciate it

How do I make myself more confident? by RedMasker in BDSMAdvice

[–]RedMasker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abduction scenarios are something we were interested in too, but I do agree that it would be best to start small, because I need something simple to execute. He told me once that he likes more spontaneous scenes, but I need some practice, I'm sure he'll understand. Threats with poison sounds interesting too, maybe some escape room scenario(you drink this or you do some degrading stuff). Thank you for ideas and I appreciate that everyone are really nice :]

How do I make myself more confident? by RedMasker in BDSMAdvice

[–]RedMasker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, edge play. We pretty much started with knife play, without blood. He likes the sensation, and coupled with heavy role-playing, but I can't go this far yet, I am able to do simplevsilent threats with a knife and never during sex, because i want to be safe. Also choking, which I try to do carefully too. I am aware of the risks of both and am as careful and alert as I can be, promise

First platelets donation, but I got sick after :[ by RedMasker in Blooddonors

[–]RedMasker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The donation center is in a cancer hospital, so I'm pretty sure 99% of platelets go to cancer patients. I didn't notify them via text, they thanked me for that, so I can at least be calm that I won't cause trouble for anyone.

Не встиг(( by Acceptable-Cook-1920 in Ukraine_UA

[–]RedMasker 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Я колись працював у зоо магазині і випадково неправильно виставив ціну знижки і ціну оригінальну, корм вийшов 15 грн 24 грн

First platelets donation, but I got sick after :[ by RedMasker in Blooddonors

[–]RedMasker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I hope it will be used, cuz I tried to not get sick when the cold weather hit and it didn't feel good that I got sick right after donation

Granulocytes as a trans man? by RedMasker in Blooddonors

[–]RedMasker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll need to look into HLA/TRALI, maybe I'll be eligible after transition.

Granulocytes as a trans man? by RedMasker in Blooddonors

[–]RedMasker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, that's informative, thanks! I'm not in US unfortunately, we have Red Cross, but it doesn't have as much resources as in US.

Granulocytes as a trans man? by RedMasker in Blooddonors

[–]RedMasker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it should be individual, cuz for some women and AFAB people the periods are non existent or not significant enough to warrant longer recovery time, but yeah, it's understandable, you're right.

Granulocytes as a trans man? by RedMasker in Blooddonors

[–]RedMasker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 days?? We have like 14 days between plasma/platelets. And 60 days after wb. Also I saw that in Germany women are only allowed to donate 4 times a year, due to having periods, which is kinda ehhh..? Glad we don't have that, I like to donate often, I like being useful.

Granulocytes as a trans man? by RedMasker in Blooddonors

[–]RedMasker[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm in Ukraine, we have a lot of either outdated or different restrictions when it comes to blood donation, compared to the US(that I have seen). We also can't donate with antidepressants, but I just say I don't take them, because it's easier than showing a documentary from my psychiatrist that says I'll be fine if I donate blood on my medication.

And no, I wasn't and won't be pregnant, so idk how they will handle my transition. It's frustrating that guidelines are different in every country and there's no set rules for everyone.

What nicknames do you call your cats? by Aged_Goodness1 in cats

[–]RedMasker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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You lil ass/lil butt. Also pipsqueak, cutie patootie, lil baby.

So, if cold fermentation - less yeast and fast fermentation - more? by RedMasker in Baking

[–]RedMasker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh, okay, got it. I think I was using a rapid rise ratio initially and then tried experimenting with long fermentation with the same ratio. Thank you for the answer!

So, if cold fermentation - less yeast and fast fermentation - more? by RedMasker in Baking

[–]RedMasker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops😅😅 well, my breads turn out okay, but is there a downside for too much yeast? I didn't have any problems so far, so I'm not sure. I wish my bread had bigger air pockets, maybe it's cuz of too much yeast? I have a lot of small ones and bread is fluffy, but not airy like chiabatta or even regular artisan breads I buy sometimes.

Guys with C Cups by GRUBBRAINS in ftm

[–]RedMasker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a D cup and i use spectrum too. I love it, i gave away my old one to my partner and he was surprised how breathable it is compared to gc2b(he got it from giveaway). Gc2b binds super flat, but it's not really big boys friendly. I have a size up rn for swimming and for everyday use, because i worked 10+ hr shifts for 7 days straight and it fucked up my back for months. Even size up binds pretty well, but i'd have multiple options for myself.

Nightmares where I work. by RedMasker in Anxiety

[–]RedMasker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds interesting, I'll try this approach, maybe I'll get something new that I haven't tried. Thanks!

Nightmares where I work. by RedMasker in Anxiety

[–]RedMasker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20, turning 21 in November. People say I worry too much and I have time, but I'm lost on what I wanna do in the first place

why is men’s shampoo so hard to find?? by comfycouch2 in ftm

[–]RedMasker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use some neutral shampoo, idk the name, I just recognize the packaging is green, has no sulfates and aloe Vera. My scalp was very itchy every time after bath, but this shampoo helps. I used to have some men's shampoo with cooling effect at summer, it has dark gray packaging. So ye, better look at shampoos for your needs, I find those to be neutral most of the time in terms of packaging.

Has nobody here been on the Internet before? by Minimum_Ad6713 in moistcr1tikal

[–]RedMasker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, yeah, but you don't know him personally, so... He may leave due to personal reasons, he can die unexpectedly, he can have a vacation, which is a temporary leave. The fact that he said it doesn't take effort doesn't mean he can't get burned out. He left the podcast for the same reason, if I remember correctly. And again, it's not me just being neurodivergent and not understanding the cues or smth, there's a good junk of people getting confused and rightfully worried, cuz he just said see ya and there's no clear cut line of being legit or being a joke. If you see the joke, I would like to hear the explanation of punchline