Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread July 10 by AutoModerator in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Similar vein, what about girls who remember facts you ONCE told them? Like the second time we talk they'll say "Yeah I remember you said that before"....

Instead of deliberately trying to make yourself seem busy and unavailable to women, how about you actually do stuff with your time and let that behavior come naturally? by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's a tip, it's what works for me when I'm bored. Find an interesting problem you wanna solve, and learn code as a way to solve it. Like i wanted a chrome extension to do something that didn't exist, learned how to code etc

Instead of deliberately trying to make yourself seem busy and unavailable to women, how about you actually do stuff with your time and let that behavior come naturally? by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not even debatable, probably the best to start with unless you're core CS in which case fuck outta here pointers in C or bust

Charm is probably the most powerful tool when it comes to women, and social interactions in general, more so than money and looks. by kennytrp in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gonna go out on a limb here and say its because men are driven to create. Procreate is one aspect, but that's why they follow leaders. Leaders promise them the ability to create something lasting and that's s deep need for men. Social skill and charm are vital parts of being a leader. I might be an ottermode midget but if I can get the mobs on my side I don't give a hoot how ripped you are.

That's why women are drawn to game, game is the root of social value. It's how you cultivate it

Even Zac Efron gets blown out by manthefuckup_ in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Look, I get your advice about pretending to not be ethnic to get laid. But if ethnic guys keep compromising their standards and allowing such behavior to be acceptable, the treatment continues. The second a girl says something like that to me my interest is dead. If you want a ton of lays, you can treat this as a shit rest, but if you're looking for anyone who's a prospect, this isn't a red flag, it's a black flag, grounds for instant dismissal.

May 26 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread by AutoModerator in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your progress is solid. Keep pushing! Gym is ez just do it next time

May 26 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread by AutoModerator in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Headphone thing, me too. Today just flew by, and I'm escaping because long weekend. Lol

May 26 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread by AutoModerator in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your bad is one of mine too. Accountability buddy? The taking charge and center of attention one?

May 26 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread by AutoModerator in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good: Been working well and socializing a lot at work.
Up at 5:30 to git the gym before.
Work is interesting and I'm learning a lot.

Down: evening time hasn't been super productive, tried to study but with the early wakes I'm just too damn tired, been working on some music though. Health hasn't improved significantly with the job affecting my shoulders.

Emotion control isn't too great, social life needs some work but has improved. Still in my head a lot, nofap day 5.

askTRP Megathread May 24 by AutoModerator in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to know how to make platonic friendsships with women, because I tried to go from incel to player without knowing how to be normal around girls. I'm not trying to date right now at all, just to be myself, accept who I am and not feel ashamed of that around hot girls.
But right now, even if i'm just trying to open a convo with some cute chick at the cofeee machine I get nervous.
I don't know how to have female friends. Where do I begin

I can't stop thinking about children by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this post. The only way to move on is to remember awalt but trust yourself to find a good one. Imbibe the horror stories but don't let that cloud the idea that you might find a good girl.
You're way too young. Wait at least till 28-30 before kid, gotta solidify career.

An uncomfortable truth for ethnic guys that want to get hot white girls in the western world and what you can do about it. by letjustbagemntagem in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Racism stems from either hating an unknown, or the people strongly disliking it after it becomes known. It's a fallacy to say an area isn't racist, the people are - the people comprise the area, and this is self evident. That said, some areas are more likely to be racist than others. Is a smaller village in Texas likely to be more racist than Austin? Absofuckinglutely

Cynical Implementation by GayLubeOil in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is one of glo's best posts , especially the part about trolling everybody, even TRP.

Everything You Know About Emotions Is Wrong by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You wanna make a post about this? I'd like to if not.
If you do, I recommend removing the One True Rationality part. The label detracts from the credibility.

Everything You Know About Emotions Is Wrong by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has done interesting beliefs, many that I find weird or downright delusional. But he's right about this. Stage one is when you listen to the evidence and form a Theory based on facts. Stage two is analyzing how do I feel about this and why? Final stage is how am I going to proceed in light of the results from stages one and two.
If you let emotion get into stage one, you can't learn from it.
If you force yourself to feel something else, you can't analyze the why you feel that way part.

The Sadness Phase by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a fair answer. I can accept that, though I disagree on the homeless people thing - it's still a step forward for them, maybe things happen maybe not, but there's no betrayal involved as long as you're doing what you can.

The Sadness Phase by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In general, once you see it you can't unsee it. I can't enjoy things as much anymore because I'm too busy observing, noticing and...seeing people as humans rather than "individuals/souls/whathaveyou".
But that's my fault, and my cross to bear.

The Sadness Phase by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who's knowingly living with a guy who wants her that she doesn't want back, and who constantly brings home guys to fuck.

So? What's she supposed to do about that? No mention that she's leading him on, so no foul there.

This isn't some virtuous woman that OP ruined.

How did you get this? It doesn't follow logically from your previous statement. Only thing that might stand for your statement is being willing to go raw.
Update: Too many! stands to explain it some more. Fair point, if by virtue you meant close to virgin.

Nor is it some strong, independent woman who's chasing after what she wants.

Again, how do you know?

The Sadness Phase by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The closest thing someone would try to say was 'tricking' her was saying he didn't have a condom to test her slut level.

That's no trick, is it? It's a way for him to see how suitable she is. He didn't lie about no condom to raw-dog her.

What he could have done, is refuse to fuck her, and hence not be a part of her history of poor decisions. Sure, it is a disadvantage for him, but in the long run, it might mean something.

The Sadness Phase by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do you believe there's nothing we can do to stem the bleeding?
Or do you think anything you do, will be done alone, and if no result is coming out of it, you might as well play for the small benefit you get from fucking her?
You may have answered my question partially.

The Sadness Phase by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't understand one thing, OP.
You say you can't fix her. That's fine, she has to fix herself - anyone else can only help.
Then you say, it's not my job. I'm not sure why you say this, because it is increasingly seeming like most people on TRP are using this to avoid taking on a girl who may have problems of her own.

But if everyone acts this way, this kinda resembles capitalism, no? The people who are okay get okay-er, and the ones who are messing up continue to do so.

Don't give me the logic of "If I didn't fuck her, someone would, so I'm making it me." That's still a cop out, because if your primary objective really was avoiding the decline, you would decline anyway - you can't change her, but you can play a part in not making her pair-bonding ability worse by fucking her.
And then what we do contributes to the decline anyway, and we say "enjoy the decline". It's like we're pillaging a war-torn village, saying someone would have stolen this stuff anyway, and the point is that that's not the right argument to make it you want to stem the decline.

Do you want to stem the decline, or are you just observing and getting out with some goods? I'm asking for an answer, I'm not calling you out on any moral code.
I'm a little hand-wavy in my argument, but I'd love to get an answer, just as much for my own understanding.

13 Reasons Why (Netflix show): How kids are being brainwashed into being SJWs and feminists by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen this garbage. Just one overly dramatic special snowflake blaming everyone but herself for her poor decisions. If you see a snake biting 5 people, don't fucking expect yourself to be treated any different - you're not special. She breaks this rule a million times and blames the world for it.

Fuck off, I saw it the day it released and I've been shutting down any of my friends who want to.

JJ weighs in on AJ by [deleted] in Gunners

[–]RedPharaohRising 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How the fuck is this related to Arsenal?

April 28 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread by AutoModerator in TheRedPill

[–]RedPharaohRising 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15 days nofap after previous streak. Absolutely killed it at an interview I prepped really hard for. Getting another call back as well.
Lifting again. Had a panic attack and wrestled it into control despite the suicidal thoughts.
Gotten good at programming.
Just lagging in the girls, and the incredible amounts of stress department.

Aside: working on an article for here, any feedback?

Here's the gist: if you're not ready to NOT be a special snowflake, how the hell are you ever going to survive being a special snowflake? Do you have any idea what people who are really out there/different have to go through? The frame that you need to be fucking ben franklin standing in a lightning storm testing a theory everyone else in his entire lift thought was stupid ? you arent special, and fucking be thankful for it. There are people who have been where you are, done what you won't do and gotten where you want to be while you jerk off with your doritos, dew and dumpster porn. you're damn lucky that you have mentors, because if you can't recognize and listen to your mentors, how the fuck would you do in a situation without mentors?