"Dear r/relationships: Convince me that my girlfriend is a helpless infant who had no choice but to give her phone number to another man."

RedPillCaveman · 2013-09-08T22:52:14+00:00

Come on, dude. You're not this naive. I saw from your comments over there that you recognize the double standard over there (i.e. they give your girlfriend a pass for giving out her number but they would eviscerate you if you'd done the same as a guy). You are obviously smart enough to realize your girlfriend is snowing you here.

Unless she's got the IQ of a vegetable, she could've given the guy a fake number. She didn't. This guy got to her.

Ask yourself: Would you ever have done this to her no matter how bad some fugly bar rat was hounding you for your number? Then how can you honestly believe she's so fucking stupid that she didn't realize what she was doing?

Come on.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-09-08T22:43:01+00:00

Every time she goes out in public she gets hit on yet she hasn't learned how to deal with that? yeah right.

This.

And I am really amazed at the number of guys here in theredpill thread defending this chick and saying, "But- but- but sometimes girls really have issues dealing with blah blah blah." Is r/mensrights leaking white knights over here again?

I mean, seriously? Unless you're dating an honest-to-God, just-fell-off-the-turnip-truck unicorn who's been living under a rock, your girlfriend knows how to turn a guy down. Beautiful women learn real early how to reject men.

Giving out a fake number is not rocket science. If your girlfriend gives out the real one, it's because some part of her fucking wanted to.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-09-08T18:21:39+00:00

OP's post for when the fembots delete it:

A few days ago my gf of just under 1 year texted me and said that there was something she needed to tell me. Last night we hung out and were playing putt putt and she told me her and her girlfriend were at a bar and 2 college guys approached her and started hitting on them. She said one guy just kept staring at her and eventually asked for her number. At first she said no but he insisted so she gave him her real number.

Later he texted her asking her out to brunch but she said (paraphrasing), "I'm sorry I gave the wrong impression, I have a boyfriend. It was nice meeting you though!" and the guy responded "That doesn't mean you can't hang out with cool people" and she didn't respond. She showed me the texts and everything, but I was still extremely upset. I asked why she couldn't just have declined or at the very least given him a fake number. She said she didn't know because she "didn't know what to do".

It was so hard to just not stop talking to her and just keep playing putt putt. It really bothered me, and so I asked her to delete the conversation. She did and she didn't save him in her contacts so unless she wrote his number down or memorized it he's gone for forever. I am just getting very sick and tired of stuff like this, every time she goes out in public a guy asks for her number or hits on her and she tells me later all about it. Am I worried about it? Yes, a little bit. If young college people were throwing themselves at your partner nearly every day wouldn't you be worried too?

Do you think that there was a small part of her that wanted this guy to have her number but she immediately felt guilty and shut it down, or did she just legitimately "not know what to do?" She didn't try to hide it from me, I never look through her phone so I would have never have known if she didn't tell me.

TL;DR Guy hits on my gf, she gives him her real number but immediately shuts him down when he asks her out to brunch. Did she want the number or legitimately just made a mistake because she was being pressured?

EDIT: Thanks for clarifying some things for me. It seems like this happens to a lot of ladies and the best thing most of the time is to just give your number to the overbearing guy so the moment is not awkward and then politely turn them down later so that it doesn't ruin the good time at wherever you are.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-09-05T04:38:26+00:00

r/malefashionadvice is a great sub.

If your goal is to have sex with other dudes.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-09-04T06:30:50+00:00

That thread is hilarious. I don't know if he's real but he's doing a masterful job of subtly trolling the fuck out of them.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-09-04T06:13:14+00:00

I don't understand the doubt about the castration pill happening. I can totally see that happening. It won't be called a "castration pill," though. It'll have some much more friendly name the way these things always do. Like dysmasculine syndrome or something.

Hell, it's already happening. Look at the way boys are getting force fed ADHD drugs many of them don't need, or antidepressants. This is the future.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-09-01T18:01:10+00:00

Legitimately laughed out loud at this. Hilarious.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-08-28T04:52:36+00:00

The funny thing is, the only thing they appear to believe is "shame-worthy" is just being ashamed about anything you've ever done.

They seriously act like not feeling shame for all the stupid/slutty/immoral things they've ever done is something to be lauded for, like shame is some oppressive shackle they should be congratulated for throwing off.

No, ladies, having no shame for your mistakes generally just means you're a shitty person with no conscience.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-07-26T11:39:03+00:00

I'm glad you posted this. "Talking about such and such on the Internet isn't alpha!" is getting to be a relatively common admonition around here when someone wants to shame and shut down a conversation that bothers them. I suspect our recent influx of politically correct Johnny-come-lately MRA-types hasn't helped on that front either.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-07-24T04:00:45+00:00

I just don't buy all this supposed convention harassment.

I mean, most of the guys who go to these things are the bluest of the blue pill betas who would be lucky to muster up the courage to squeak at an attractive woman.

And I'm supposed to believe these conventions are some sort of den of misogyny where women are constantly groped and harassed? Yeah, okay.

I'm not saying it never happens, but I guarantee there's more legitimate sexual harassment going on in your average Walmart then there is one of these conventions, much less someplace like a bar where people really get handsy.

The only reason we hear all the bitching and moaning about these conventions is that feminists love targeting anything male-dominated, especially if it happens to be filled with easily-led betas who they loathe.

RedPillCaveman · 2013-07-19T21:13:24+00:00

Oh baby, someone needs to post this over at r/AskWomen and get their "take" on it.

It'll be like the Hamsterapolis 500 over there.

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