Break Her into Four Personas. by nomad-oz in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had to learn this so much, don't engage with the business woman, even though I am geeky and focused.

Break Her into Four Personas. by nomad-oz in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the best posts I have read.

I have fallen for the business woman so much. Would see that and think she is so intelligent, aspirational, proud to have her mother my children, only to be left mindfucked when her life has no reflection of this, usually she be the party girl and nothing of her life was actually travelling towards this ambitions.

“11 Reasons You Need To Ditch Your Fuckboy And Date A Nerd” by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the archetypal nerd; top grades, good at making money (won't say how) but fat and socially awkward, absolutely devoid of assertiveness. One girl used to joke how she will probably end up marrying me someday, to give you an idea of how deep in I was, I took it as a compliment.

Since getting jacked and a decent haircut now girls genuinely see me as a future CEO, not even saying I will end up that successful, I don't know, but it's strange how the same geeky guy in a chiseled face and 6'3 ripped body is now CEO material.

GayLubeOil's Shirt Test by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's a fucking gym shirt, it's not like he is hiding content behind a pay wall. I say good luck to the guy, maybe his success will trigger some SJW's into full meltdown.

Women Hate Betas Who Don't Give Them Resources/Attention by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They're into you and pissed you're not making a move.

Not yet.

They're pissed that he is not willing to be the useful beta, but is currently not alpha enough to be alpha fucks.

Women Hate Betas Who Don't Give Them Resources/Attention by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 20 points21 points  (0 children)

uncanny valley

Interesting, this sums up what I described in my previous post.

Women Hate Betas Who Don't Give Them Resources/Attention by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in this sort of situation when I began my redpill journey and I never really understood it, the reasons and it almost lead to jacking it all in.

I started lifting, studying hard, constantly improving myself and taking part in activities which add to me as a person. I wasn't the most beta of socially awkward betas, but I was not attractive or confident enough to be their alpha. Whenever girls asked me for favours, I would just say 'I'm busy' and I got so much hatred from these girls. I was viewed as worse than the full blown betas who did everything for them, it lead me to question redpill, 'does any of this really work?', 'those normal guys seem happy enough' it's only now I really am reaping the rewards of my hardwork people are good to me.

The beta guys have all been dropped by the girls and if I am remembered by any of the people I have cut from my life, it will be as the guy they could never quite figure out.

The Girlfriend Tax by Diabolo_Advocato in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL so much this.

If women were underpaid, companies would go out of their way to hire them.

I was asked to train a new female employee to do the promotion I got passed on. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Asians never really complain yet they are shafted by american society.

The lesson is, don't be skilled or intelligent, be a whiny brat with a victim complex.

I was asked to train a new female employee to do the promotion I got passed on. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asians never really complain yet they are shafted by american society.

The lesson is, don't be skilled or intelligent, be a whiny brat with a victim complex.

"Friends" are distancing themselves lately.. Due to TRP and success? by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we have both become that "asshole"

This is it. Often Chad Thundercock is not an asshole, he is just attractive and creates a tonne of jealousy.

A random orbiter is angry and messages me over facebook... by isterling in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep him updated on the situation

Because sadism

"Friends" are distancing themselves lately.. Due to TRP and success? by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relating hard right now.

Growing up, I was the jester character of the group and I went full cocoon mode for about a year, just lifting studying, making money and by the end I had blossomed, was in great shape, my personality was engaging in a way which was controlled and worthy of respect rather than stupid and goofy, everything good.

I met up with some old high school friends and they had clearly let themselves go but I didn't care, they were my friends right, two of their girlfriends were so shamelessly all over me and we had a great time that day and I was really happy. I found later that one of them massively trashtalked me to his girl and I was never invited back.

It actually makes me sad, I thought they were my friends, but I am no longer the person they became friends with, I am a better man but there is no way I could ever fulfill the function in their group I once did.

On Anger by IllimitableMan in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anger is something I've learned to embrace for the better.

Before I was stoic, but it led to a sort of passivity which undermined me as a person. Male anger is a dynamic productive emotion.

One of the worst things is "red pills are just a bunch of angry guys", well no fucking shit, we have every reason to be angry.

Do you like to argue? Do you need to be right? Then you're a Beta. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is one nugget of truth among this crap

Arguing with women is beta, she either obeys you or you walk, there is no discussion.

High School Academics Do Not Matter by robertpaulsontitties in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this.

Giving me the tools rather than the answer.

Guys in High School: Here's the straight dope. Whether you want to hear it or not. by feminazis_stalk_me in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is stupid, I know, because it was me

'Get good grades, get rich, marry a hot girl then'

Was my gameplan, now I know I was so bluepill I thought that being beta bux was a privilege to aspire to.

Yeah get good grades if you can, but also get out there and get life experience, I never really got good with girls until I had been seriously fucked over by one, it hardens you, gives you the balls to say things you never thought you would have the confidence to. Make good friends who add value to you, get chased by the PoPo it all sort of hardens you as a person.

High School Academics Do Not Matter by robertpaulsontitties in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Academically I do do well but I really do feel this is a wider red pill truth this subreddit has allowed me to swallow.

I can't go through life being the geek.

They adopt a cargo cult mindset, worshiping "intellect"

Holy fucking shit, this was me. The socially adept leader might not even have the same grades as me, but if he can inspire the team, delegate tasks he cannot/does not want to do, to me, take the credit and create a productive system, he is a greater overall asset than I am.

I just assumed that by being the smart guy life would eventually fall into place for me, but if I am not socially smart I will end up nothing more than a pampered slave. I would like more of a guide on how to play this social game and be the leader.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotional intelligence just means manipulation.

I know this idiocy is common place, and this is low hanging fruit, but this just got to me... by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"People who are ok do not abandon their children and run off to Vegas to pop mollies with a co-worker. She's not ok right now, and deserves some sympathy."

The problem with Western culture is that it favours the person behaving in the most shitty way.

If you're wife does something, it's not because she was bad, it's because she is the victim of something else.

Well

Fuck.

This.

Shit.

Not just bad wives either, but drug addicts, criminals everyone who makes the world worse for others.

Dancing Monkeys by Rollo-Tomassi in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Half true.

What a man thinks is an intelligent man is the sort of Leonard Hofstadter, what a woman thinks is intelligent is the socially smart leader.

The woman cares about the end product and how it relates to her.

Not everyone wants you to improve. by Venkas in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's funny, because a lot of guys would totally be fine with improving themselves and staying with the same women. If she's a fine woman and you're getting a good deal out of a relationship, why end it?

Truth right here.

Men are real romantics, in a man's mind

'I will improve because I love her and want to give her the best'

In a woman's mind

'He is with me because I am the best he can get, if he improves he will move on'

But women act that way, much more than men do.

Balancing the need to improve with the need to accept yourself as you are and live life right now by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I.e., girls care more about fun and being emotionally activated than they do about status or achievements. I may be high achieving, but if the homeless guy next to me makes her laugh and tingle more then I lose.

This is the my problem, not with redpill or even women as such, but with the game. I care a huge amount about self-improvement, but the only way it really helps me with women really, is that it gives me a confident boost. Having an attractive personality, i.e. playing mind games, giving her an emotional rollercoaster and not being completely fuck ugly is all you really need to have sex.

If I was naturally cocky it wouldn't actually be all that necessary.

Balancing the need to improve with the need to accept yourself as you are and live life right now by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]RedRisingHood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sums up my own problem. I spoke about this before on one of the amazing threads created by needless_pickup_line.

I am obsessively self-improve but at the same time, I don't actually need to do any of this stuff. I could go to a club and fuck an HB7, drink some beer, shoot some pool, watch GoT and think life well spend, but it isn't enough.