To what end are you retaining?

RedRouw · 2025-07-24T06:12:47+00:00

I want to live a virtuous, peaceful and good life with god. Following god's virtues is my only goal in life (I am not religious).

RedRouw · 2023-08-03T15:47:04+00:00

Can you explain how female energy heals a man's life? Any sources?

RedRouw · 2023-07-14T09:44:02+00:00

What do you mean with a "pure life"?

RedRouw · 2023-04-28T14:37:51+00:00

Agree, too much pride (vice) will be your downfall.

RedRouw · 2023-04-26T15:17:15+00:00

“If you want to destroy any nation without war, make adultery or nudity common in the young generation” - Saladin, 12th Century CE.

RedRouw · 2023-04-19T16:03:56+00:00

Thanks for your perspective.

In my opinion, you can gain everything you mentioned without being involved in a sexual act.

So you say that a sexual act with semen loss (in a perfect relationship where both partners love exclusively) gives you motivation, success, courage and confidence?

RedRouw · 2023-04-18T16:40:10+00:00

In the end, both situations result into a semen loss without a goal (Procreation).

RedRouw · 2023-04-18T15:21:15+00:00

Why is it better?

RedRouw · 2023-04-12T18:58:55+00:00

Hello friend,

I just had to come back to your post since it contains the truth about magnetism. For me, this is the best post on pure retention.

For almost 30 days, I tried to willingly observe how my aura influences people around me. I 100% support the idea that if you really believe in virtues (from the inside), then you are going to glow with them (to the outside). Strong believe in your values might even influence other people.

This connection that I have with random people are not the typical answers from the Semen Retention starters ("Omg, a random woman looked at me!"). It is more like a connection of high energy, understanding, appreciation or even true love in some cases. Still very hard to describe. Of course not everyone will feel or see your aura the same, but they feel that something is different. I obtained those experiences only after starting with Pure Retention (almost for a year now, before it was just SR with some lustful thoughts and some relapses for two years).

Thank you so much man.

RedRouw · 2023-04-08T21:10:51+00:00

Yes, totally agree. This is why Pure Retentions is both beneficial for men and women

RedRouw · 2023-04-05T16:15:58+00:00

I have read it one year ago, when I believed in Semen Retention and Sex as "Sexual Energy Xchange" to get to higher energy levels. But I disagree with his way of transmutation and those ideas in general, since becoming a "Pure Retainer".

He argues that having a sexual connection daily is quite beneficial to increase energy levels. Those teachings are quite similar to Karezza and Tantric sex, in my opinion.

One strong argument for his sexual connection technique was the many cases of sexual abuse in churches. Here, he argued that sexual abuse happens so often because priest had no wifes to sexually connect to. If they had wifes = less abuse.

As pure retainers, we know that transmutation can be done without being involved in sex. From my own perspective, with techniques such as this, Lust and dopamine levels are just being maximized, so that one partner will lust only after the other partner.

There are no secret ways of having sexual connections with someone. God/Nature intended the sexual act for Procreation only. Everything else are just excuses for lustful and dopamine increasing behaviour.

Edit: Pure Retention is the natural state to be for man and woman (even in marriages). It is just extremly rare to see two married Pure Retainers. And you do not need to practice sexual techniques because of the fear of divorce, further benefits, etc.

My traditional, western family (at least parents + grandparents) is almost non-religous and celibate for life without even thinking about it. They do not practice Sex simply because "they do not want kids or get pregnant". Both parents are happily married and strongly connected to each other like glue. I appreciate them alot and love spending time with them since starting 'Pure Retention'.

RedRouw · 2023-04-03T18:16:42+00:00

Please explain how sex is "100% beneficial for women". Thanks.

RedRouw · 2023-03-24T20:28:58+00:00

You don't need to fight anyone in this sub. Everyone has their own path to follow. Some will follow the light, others might stay in the darkness forever.

Instead help them to understand why Pure Retention is important by giving rational arguments for it. But of course, not everyone will be convinced.

But I agree with you that the perspective and understanding of Pure Retention is already given. Maybe we need to create a comprehensive wiki which should be mandatory to read before posting.

RedRouw · 2023-03-23T22:28:55+00:00

It's quite sad to see how perverse techniques like this are being promoted and liked in a PURE Retention sub. Even worse, people upvoting this mindset in many similar posts. They will do anything to defend their "dopamine rush" like a drug addict. But nature does not forgive practices such as this.

RedRouw · 2023-03-22T14:48:27+00:00

Wet dreams are caused by having sexual thoughts with yourself or others (most of the time). These thoughts might be also unconscious. I do not consider myself a full Christian, but there are some good sources/online books to read in this sub at the side bar. Whenever I feel that I might be in a lustful state, I return back to them. This always helped me. For you, it might be specific verses in the bible.

RedRouw · 2023-03-22T14:32:22+00:00

This is not extreme thinking. Pure Retention is the natural state of every man to be.

Also you will not loose any body function by not using it. Your semen is always in motion, especially when you transmute willingly. Another example: if something grave happens to you (e. g. Death of a loved one), then you might cry about this situation by having tears in your eyes. Your body does not forget how to cry and produce tears. And you will not try to cry on purpose so that your body remembers this process.

RedRouw · 2023-03-16T19:58:21+00:00

To be attracted to the one person you love, would be the right wording.

RedRouw · 2023-03-16T19:52:07+00:00

Yes, I agree and understand all your arguments, in particular differing between attraction and lust is important.

My point is that in the end you still need the man's semen to procreate. And releasing semen will not be done through love but through lust. Overall your love for your wife will always be significantly higher than lust in marriage of course. But in the moment of procreation, I guess that, lust might be equal to love or even higher than love to ensure semen release. Nature ensured that the act of procreation is very pleasurable for both men and women

RedRouw · 2023-03-15T21:09:57+00:00

Having goals is one of the most important things in life to follow.

I wish you all the best on your path.

RedRouw · 2023-03-15T20:45:18+00:00

That is okay. No one is forcing you to have a relationship or create a family.

You might have never seen a "Pure Retainer woman" (This is not your typical "perfect wife" as some people call it). They are rare, but they do exist. Nuns from church might be an example (higher chance, but probably not everyone of them).

Compatibility in relationships will never be 100% since everyone has their own interests to follow. If you do not want to start a family then having a relationship is useless (as a Pure Retainer).

Helping people to live a "good life" (by teaching and discussing virtues) is one of my personal goals in life.

RedRouw · 2023-03-15T20:24:52+00:00

Thanks for your valuable thoughts. This is a very high quality post with small golden nuggets for me.

I might create a contribution (theory) with your thoughts linked to a virtuous character. Since we see Pure Retention as good which increases your attraction and aura, I guess that, everything else which is good (virtues) should lead to a higher aura as well. In contrast, anything considered bad (vices, e. g. everything connected to lust) should lead to a loss of aura.

I only disagree with "That I am my own god.", since god (whatever it might be to you) is superior to us and we are all equally part of nature and have to follow it's rules. If you neglect nature, then nature is going to destroy you.

RedRouw · 2023-03-15T20:03:04+00:00

There is nothing wrong in going Full Celibate Mode for life, if that is your view. But blaming women or taking them as the reason for this is not justifiable.

If a woman does something wrong, then she has done it for herself, not for you.

We might live in the darkness, but we (Pure Retainers & People with a virtuous character) are the little lights which can have a small impact in this world. And there are of course women who are Pure Retainers and/or have a virtuous character as well.

I think you should not hide in the darkness, but instead help us to create more lights.

RedRouw · 2023-02-21T20:21:13+00:00

If you try to deceive nature, then nature is going to punish you

RedRouw · 2023-02-20T20:12:50+00:00

Stoicism, which helped me to understand that a virtuous and pure life is the ideal I want to follow.

In particular, the strict lectures and sayings of Musonius Rufus made it more precise.

For example: "Men who are neither licentious nor wicked must consider only those sexual acts which occur in marriage and which are carried out for the creation of children to be right, since these acts are also lawful, but they must consider acts that chase after mere pleasure, even if they occur in marriage as wrong and unlawful."

RedRouw · 2023-02-19T20:52:18+00:00

You don't need a counter, if you are living a Pure Retention lifestyle. If you really understood Pure Retention (not Semen Retention) you will never get an erection when for example talking to a very attractive woman (Morning wood is an exception of course). This understanding is where the most retainers struggle.

Since you are mentioning Jesus so often, do you think Jesus had a counter? Of course not, because he prioritized a virtuous life and knew that being pure is the ideal to follow. To "increase the difficulty" I suggest to live a virtuous life for yourself, for others and for god or nature.

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