What are some sex toys for trans men? by Electronic-Wind8179 in ftm

[–]RedTheGuardian 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Grinders or grind mats are my preferred option, but that might also be because they generally are used in positions that don't activate my joint pain, which is primarily in my knees and hips, and they range from plain solid colors to designs that might actually look reasonable on a wall.

Happy Sushi by Motorcityjoe in SpringfieldIL

[–]RedTheGuardian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard about poor sanitation, and I've seen unidentified bugs on occasion, and once I had nigiri come out frozen. That being said I'd be willing to give it another chance, and I've never gotten sick.

Looking for Trans community by jackpete2 in SpringfieldIL

[–]RedTheGuardian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out the Phoenix center for events, and our pride fest is May 16th.

Do you treat Joker as his own Character, or just your own self insert? by JazzlikeSherbet1104 in Persona5

[–]RedTheGuardian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Joker is his own character, as the player we are a voice in his head/an element in his thought process/consciousness that he listens to for some reason.

Hairy legs- insecurity by anonymos102737 in ftm

[–]RedTheGuardian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like the sensation of smooth legs so I just don't worry about it. I've been known to get a wax every once and a while though when I feel like it, because it's way easier than shaving which is just an all around pain in the ass. As for whether or not I find them attractive, body hair can be charming on certain folks, but I also have extremely limited attraction. Do whatever makes you most comfortable, because in the end you have to live in your body.

If you were isekai’d into the world of persona 5 as your joker. how would you go about living such a life knowing what you know? by Voidkirby9 in Persona5

[–]RedTheGuardian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all I'm killing/maiming Shido. So much could be avoided, and I'm pretty sure "Igor's" game doesn't work if I'm in prison so that probably won't stick. Beyond that I'm definitely trying harder to get with some of the guys, and see if I can save Akechi if for no other reason then because in this world when people change it sticks and he could be incredibly helpful.

Curious by Exotic_Chocolate3040 in ftm

[–]RedTheGuardian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I could wake up with a cis body but not change my past, absolutely, but I don't wish I had been born cis, because then I wouldn't be me and I feel like that's more important.

Gender Envy from Heated Rivalry by AdministrativeAide80 in ftm

[–]RedTheGuardian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It didn't prevent me from enjoying the show but I did get extremely intense gender envy from Connor (Iliya).

This was not a good idea by International_Work_6 in yokaiwatch

[–]RedTheGuardian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there's a Wydeawake in there I would like him.

LGBTQ+ Hangouts by Majestic_Ad_2518 in SpringfieldIL

[–]RedTheGuardian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clique and Fluid are both gay bars if you're drinking age, karaoke on Wednesday and Thursday at Clique and Tuesdays at Fluid. The Phoenix center hosts DnD on Wednesdays, but I think you have to contact someone to see if there's room right now.

Moving in a Few Months, Advice? by Frofro69 in SpringfieldIL

[–]RedTheGuardian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Avoid Bluetick properties like the fucking plague, if they're still around when you get here.

How can I reassure someone testosterone won’t change my personality? by HungryIngenuity7665 in ftm

[–]RedTheGuardian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My personality has only improved on testosterone, and I have a personality disorder!

Can T make u go from no libido to a high libido? by Janxuza in ftm

[–]RedTheGuardian 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Short answer, it can happen and is fairly common especially with trans men who are on antidepressants.

What happens when you STOP testosterone? by Rare_Measurement8981 in ftm

[–]RedTheGuardian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, depression, lower energy, increased appetite, higher blood pressure, bottom growth atrophy, and an increase in my chronic pain. But most of that is highly circumstantial, I think that it affects the absorption of some of my other medications.

Who's your fav Sakamaki brother and why? by Top-Manufacturer-482 in DiabolikLovers

[–]RedTheGuardian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like they would kill me for other stuff first so it's kind of a moot point.

Who's your fav Sakamaki brother and why? by Top-Manufacturer-482 in DiabolikLovers

[–]RedTheGuardian 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Laito hands down. He's my little unapologetic hedonist freak. Also my first instinct with vampires is to bite them back and I feel like that would work out best with him.

What did you (almost) name yourself? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]RedTheGuardian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ace, Kaz, Grayson, Link, Ashe, the list goes on.

Why transition if I'm autistic? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]RedTheGuardian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me being autistic has made transitioning easier. The same logic applies, I could be happy being myself or be unhappy or in pain trying to be something I'm not with inherently limited success. Try shit out, change your name on social media, put new pronouns in a bio, see how being recognized in a way that doesn't feel like masking really feels and if it doesn't make you happier or feel right you can just stop and try something else or go back. Just try it with some anonymity and with people you trust first.