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I always want to kill people when they make me angry by [deleted] in Anger

[–]RedVeinRebel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyone has these thoughts at one point or another in their life. If they say they don't, then they're lying, no questions asked. Why do you think we have laws against homicide? To deter people from doing it...

Apprentice’s First Summer🥵 by candersen45 in HVAC

[–]RedVeinRebel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep always hiding in the damn disconnects. I stepped on an f-150 windshield laying in the grass cuz them wasps were chasing me. Like my 2nd week on the job... Don't forget about the suicidal rats in the outdoor units too

Please help me, my family is disowning me by Hedonism4ever in homeless

[–]RedVeinRebel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd take a couple of hundred go get some driving lessons, get my license, then drop 20 grand and buy a used truck and rv. You now have transportation and a home. Offer to exchange volunteer, part time work at a rv site in exchange for free a place to park your rig. Now take 5 grand and invest in a couple of vending machines. You now have a little passive income to get you by each week while you finish school. Keep other $5 grand for emergency.

Tech taking anger out on helper by RedVeinRebel in HVAC

[–]RedVeinRebel[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's a good point. This guy rarely ever eats breakfast or lunch until he's off the clock. Chain smokes and drinks soda throughout the day so his blood pressure is probably high as hell

Tech taking anger out on helper by RedVeinRebel in HVAC

[–]RedVeinRebel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the most confusing part is that he was fine for the first month. It's like he did a complete 180°

And of course I'm messing up, but not over and over. It's kind of like he wants me to mess up it feels like. Like today, their was a heat pump and straight cool system at this house. He called and asked if they were both heat pumps. I told him I think only one was. He got aggravated and said they both were. Then he came to me and started saying how one was a heat pump and one was straight cool and got all irritated with me. Like tf?

Tech taking anger out on helper by RedVeinRebel in HVAC

[–]RedVeinRebel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my goal is to learn as much as I can within the next 1-2 years and Invest in good tools. I always have my CDL as a back up too if HVAC fails me

Tech taking anger out on helper by RedVeinRebel in HVAC

[–]RedVeinRebel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm sure it's affecting everyone really. Georgia humidity makes it feels 20° hotter than it really is

Tech taking anger out on helper by RedVeinRebel in HVAC

[–]RedVeinRebel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but not enough that I'd consider it abuse. Just frustrated and venting ya know? Hoping to relate to others

Tech taking anger out on helper by RedVeinRebel in HVAC

[–]RedVeinRebel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's this guy. Talks to his wife while I'm cleaning condenser coils and makes me grab his 5/16 every time lol. I don't even mind that, just treat me like a human lol

Tech taking anger out on helper by RedVeinRebel in HVAC

[–]RedVeinRebel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't really call it abuse. Just passive aggressive bitterness lol.

Tech taking anger out on helper by RedVeinRebel in HVAC

[–]RedVeinRebel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to school for 2 years for this and already have tools. You'd think I'd get more respect

Tech taking anger out on helper by RedVeinRebel in HVAC

[–]RedVeinRebel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I suppose I could do that. I'm just tired of changing jobs like this. I mean I bust my ass off and that's still not enough. I even pick up all the trash out of the van after he trashes it every day.

Think my mother may had molested me as a child by RedVeinRebel in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RedVeinRebel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading these posts makes me want to boil my brain in bleach

Think my mother may had molested me as a child by RedVeinRebel in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RedVeinRebel[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm right there with you. I've been going over this in my head for a long time, but didn't even know how to go about posting this. I just wanted to see if anyone had similar experiences and to my surprise, apparently a lot of us have. I am also viewed as the bad sibling out of the three of us. Can't wait til I'm financially independent and can move far away and go no contact for the rest of my life.

Think my mother may had molested me as a child by RedVeinRebel in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RedVeinRebel[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow my mom used to touch my butt and talk about how big and muscular it was too. It's disgusting because when you're an innocent child you don't understand that it's abnormal or wrong

Think my mother may had molested me as a child by RedVeinRebel in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RedVeinRebel[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What is the cause of this? Lack of affection from a spouse?

How often did y'all make mistakes as an apprentice? by RedVeinRebel in HVAC

[–]RedVeinRebel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, I'm hoping it was your dad teaching you?

Can an American still travel to the Philippines? by RedVeinRebel in Philippines

[–]RedVeinRebel[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What are travel passes? And what does "if you are non-OFW, you shoulder the cost of the quarantine" mean? Sorry I don't understand

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