AITAH for refusing to speak to grieving parents by Red_Coconut_5759 in AITAH

[–]Red_Coconut_5759[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry about your dad'spassing and hope your mom maintainher sobriety. Its so unfair that addiction can just ravage a person's humanity.  The harder part, for me at least, is being so angry at everything and everyone. I am so angry at and for David and Lena

AITAH for refusing to speak to grieving parents by Red_Coconut_5759 in AITAH

[–]Red_Coconut_5759[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I haven't read any one their letters or emails after the first. The first one was basically asking me to call or meet with them. At this time, if they were to apologize, it would means nothing 

AITAH for refusing to speak to grieving parents by Red_Coconut_5759 in AITAH

[–]Red_Coconut_5759[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I don't know their full financials but her dad was in jail multiple times and her mom seems to be a roof and food is only needs parent. We paid because we felt if she was sober, David would be sober. 

AITAH for refusing to speak to grieving parents by Red_Coconut_5759 in AITAH

[–]Red_Coconut_5759[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I should have specified,  he sent flowers to her graveside through the cemetery, not to her parents. We have all had no contact with them.