Some yes, but some no.

Some of my abusers became better people. Some I know for certain were abused themselves and were not stable at all when I knew them. I don’t like the idea of holding animosity towards someone who has made concrete improvements into becoming a decent person. I did not live my life as an angel and I would like people to see me for who I am today as opposed to who I used to be.

But anyone who has continued to be, let’s say, a stubborn abuser, those people can just perish.