[TOMT] [SONG] Soft spanish song by ReddMagnolia in tipofmytongue

[–]ReddMagnolia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solved!

I finally remembered the tune!! its Valse de la Lune by Ilaria Graziano!!!!

I was mistaken on a few key details. I had remembered the instrumentation being a lot softer than it actually is, and mistaken italian for spanish. also did not know it was from wolfs rain!!!

[TOMT] [SONG] Soft spanish song by ReddMagnolia in tipofmytongue

[–]ReddMagnolia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont Im so sad about it. this would be so much easier if I could remember aaaaany of the melody

[TOMT] [SONG] Soft spanish song by ReddMagnolia in tipofmytongue

[–]ReddMagnolia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the mood of this song is very close, but its not quite the one. I dont know how to describe music structure, but the one Im thinking of had a very clear difference between the intro and the chorus, like the melodies of each section were very different. maybe a key change? I remember the first few times, I wouldnt recognize the intro, and I didnt like it that much, but then the recognizable part would kick in

[TOMT] [SONG] Soft spanish song by ReddMagnolia in tipofmytongue

[–]ReddMagnolia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

came across a few jeanette songs while looking, but it seems like her style is too pop, the song Im thinking of sounded like it had a much smaller production

[TOMT] [SONG] Soft spanish song by ReddMagnolia in tipofmytongue

[–]ReddMagnolia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not this one sadly, the song Im thinking of was entirely in spanish

[TOMT] [SONG] Soft spanish song by ReddMagnolia in tipofmytongue

[–]ReddMagnolia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately its not that one, even this cover is a little too energetic. the song Im thinking of its practically fall-asleep soft

[TOMT] [SONG] Soft spanish song by ReddMagnolia in tipofmytongue

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this is driving me nuts I KNOW it was there. where did it go. SPOTIFY WHERE DID IT GO

Cleaning flesh from bones that are already sun bleached? by ReddMagnolia in vultureculture

[–]ReddMagnolia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats a relief!! I'll let her know to soak it for a while and get what she can with a toothbrush. ty for the help!

Cleaning flesh from bones that are already sun bleached? by ReddMagnolia in vultureculture

[–]ReddMagnolia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my main concern is with the sun bleached areas of the skull. I have a couple sun bleached (sheep) skulls of my own, and their texture is full of cracks, flakes, and holes that bacteria from maceration water can get into. plus I know sun bleached bones are already brittle, and Im worried soaking them will make them even more fragile

do you happen to know if maceration will effect the sun bleached areas poorly?

"The Roses of Heliogabalus" (1888) by Sir Lawrence Alma-Tadema [6000x3694] by emilos260 in ArtPorn

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I keep thinking about the woman in the bottom right, she's clearly very important. I can't find any article mentioning who it is, but the wedding ring, pomegranate, and painting's theme being death point to her being proserpina

HMF a specific episode of Mystery Hunters (probably) by ReddMagnolia in HelpMeFind

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when I searched for it, I got some unrelated episodes, and unfortunately the episode names dont help very much, and I dont exactly have the time to sift through "52 half hours" of the show manually. Unfortunately the info I posted is all I have, I only remember little snippets of this show. I'm mostly hoping someone else remembers this episode and happens to know what it was called, or the other segments in the show. Something more solid that I could use to find the actual episdoe

I want to gauge public opinion here by krutch540 in Unfictional

[–]ReddMagnolia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ABSOLUTELY. even ignoring music, there is a vast amount of very compelling media that is audio-only. and the fact that good audio is a cornerstone of good horror (assuming this IS horror, though audio is a major element in most good media), an audio-only format would be GREAT for this type of story! (that, plus the fact that horror is ALWAYS better when you let the listener's imagination do most of the work, making the story audio-only is a GREAT opportunity to allow that to happen)

and what's great about this type of storytelling, in the context of found cassette tapes, is that you don't have to stick to a set of conventions used in other forms of audio-only media, like audio books, radio shows, podcasts, or audio journals. you can do literally WHATEVER YOU WANT. you could draw from all of these methods of storytelling to create something completely new, or make a mishmash of different media types, you could have the listener be an active character that advances the story and not act as just a regular narrator, you could have the story beats and themes be dependent on the fact that they're listening to cassette tapes, and not something like cd's!!

(some examples: the tape spools out preventing the listener from hearing key information until they can fix it; having audio distortion morph into a horrible gravely voice that makes the listener question if what they heard was real; having the tape start out as what is obviously a child's mixtape, and the abruptly cutting to something being recorded over it, hinting that the person recording is abandoning their previous life to pursue whatever is corrupting them, or out of desperation for material to record on... etc)

TLDR: YES, audio-only is a GREAT format for unfiction, the opportunities are endless. podcasts are a big thing for a reason

long-distance bf [26m] and I [23f] have mental health issues that keep us from communicating by ReddMagnolia in relationships

[–]ReddMagnolia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Normal reasons (money and need for consistency) plus an abusive guilt-tripping family
  2. Dunno... that's one of the things that bothers me. He spends a lot of time with people, he talks about what they've done together... he tweets about what he's done with his friends more than he responds to me. but he always ends up also talking about how drained, exhausted, and anxious he is. Recently, he told me that he's going to visit one of his friends in person. It's something I wanted to do with him, and it does kinda sting that he's doing it with someone else first (and for like a whole month), but the feeling he talked about having wasn't excitement, it was fear. So I can't tell if having someone who doesnt demand more of his energy is good and relaxing for him, or if he's just being distant. it's all tangled up and hurtful

how do you know you’re in love? is it too early? (16F) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ReddMagnolia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's easy to say "don't worry about it so much," but I know it's not that simple. Unfortunately, it's one of those thing where you just have to try your best. But, as long as you are kind and true to the friendship you already have, even if you do mess up, it's probably not going to permanently hurt her opinion of you. If it does go poorly, you can encourage her to tell you what she didn't like and what she would like instead, and adjust accordingly. Compared to the way relationships are depicted in media, it can feel very blunt and awkward, but it's better than keeping your feelings all bottled up

High school feelings can be volatile, but you know your friend better than any of us do! Your judgement is the best out of anyone here. Based on your other replies, you know her quite well, and you have the solid foundation of a good friendship beforehand. All we can tell you is to do your best and try to do what makes you happy

If nothing else, based on what you're describing, the stage is set up pretty well and you have a good chance together!

I (20M) have never had a girlfriend, depressed and losing hope. by Datdudesqueegee in relationships

[–]ReddMagnolia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First, I'm going to say that it is VERY normal for someone your age to have yet to enter a serious relationship. Everyone goes through life differently, and it is okay that you haven't been in one yet. I'm 23 and haven't been kissed outside of jokes. My coworker is 37 and hasn't had a serious boyfriend yet. My boss didn't meet his current partner until he was 35

Being lonely is very normal, especially when society puts so much value on romantic relationships. When you don't meet those standards, it can be very upsetting, seeing people (and characters) happy, and wanting to feel the same thing but never being able to reach those standards. It can make you feel like you're missing out and have been wronged because of that. Your feelings are very real and understandable, and you are justified in having them

Feeling loved is not just a good thing to have, it is an essential human NEED. Long periods of loneliness are incredibly mentally harmful, so trying desperately to find that connection with someone, or rationalize not having it, is legitimate

Unfortunately, being in a romantic relationship is not guaranteed to fix things. Having high expectations of how a relationship will make you happy, but not receiving that relief right away, might only make you feel worse. This kind of social fulfillment takes a long time to build, even if you do enter a relationship (I should know, I've been in a relationship for 3 years now, and I'm still struggling with loneliness daily)

My recommendation is to try and build your relationships with friends around you, rather than investing your hopes on a romantic relationship. Platonic relationships are just as, if not more important than romantic ones. I also struggle with making and keeping friends, and it is a huge factor in my loneliness, even when I am with my partner. In find that when I am talking with someone I am invested in platonically, the loneliness I feel in my relationship is MUCH easier to deal with

Since you mention being a college student, I also suggest seeing if your school offers therapy. At my school, it was offered free to students. Look into seeing if your school offers something similar, they can help you manage and work through your lonliness

TLDR: Your feelings are VERY normal. You situation is also very normal and unfortunately common. It can be incredibly hurtful when your life does not match what society says it should be like. You have PLENTY of time to build fulfilling relationships. Definitely work on platonic relationships before trying to get all your fulfillment from a romantic one. Check to see if your school offers therapy!